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We had been talking about a three some with my wife best friend and one night she surprised me with it. We had a awesome night. A bit later we were discussing it and she said she would love to try it with another guy. We invited one over and we all fucked all night. She loved it and so did I so we pretty much just carried on from there |
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For me and my x wife it all began with dirty talk during sex, which slowly escalated. I was mad on photography so put some pictures in the readers wives section of 3 magazines. Had tons of fan mail back and eventually met up with one of her fans. This became a regular 3 sum for us. We then started going to the clubs and even dogging. Fun times  |
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By *andb69Couple 15 weeks ago
leeds |
"Just curious, how did you guys go about getting your wife into sleeping with other men?"
"Getting your wife..." Why do you assume (a) that it's the men pushing for it (b) women don't have a mind of their own and (c) why any men would want to "get" their wife to do something they were reluctant to do? |
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I didn't get her into swinging nor do I get anything out of her with other men.
It's the other way around. She kept having fantasies about me bedding other women when we where in our 20s (and yes we have a couples account). That turned i to her joining in which in turn lead to me with other men's wives when we started meeting cuckold couples at social events. It's been a very fun adventure to say the least.
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We had became friends with a couple whe we used to live in lanzarote got very d*unk at theirs one night ended up with her sat on his knee one thing led to another they went to bed together while his wife n I sat getting d*unk x |
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It was the ex wife that asked me about trying swinging.one night in bed she said how she always wanted to try a threesome with two men.our first threesome was around four weeks later and it was fantastic to see her playing with our cocks |
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We used to talk about our fantasy’s while we having fore play and I liked the idea of watching her with another man and really wanted to see that. I told her she should do it and she took a lot of convincing that I’d actually be ok with it but she agreed in the end but thought it better if I wasn’t there for the first time as was scared how I’d actually react so I agreed so long as she filmed bits on her phone and sent it to me at work. They was good videos and so horny when they started coming through to me. So relaxed with me watching her now though |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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Funny story-
I took the mrs out to a club, lovely place, chilled had some food,drink & danced. We met some lovely people.
The mrs thought it was strange when people started getting undressed around us lol.
Thankfully she was game and joined in.
she/ we had a brilliant night.
We haven’t looked back since.
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We had a chat about how to spice things up, thought about dogging but it was February at the time so decided on going to a club and whilst we’re very sporadic in visiting clubs we still keep our toes in so to speak. |
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My wife has always been bi sexual and new it from a very young age. She craved pusdy asxwe grew older. Swinging was a way she could satisfy that need with me involved. No cheating just full fem on fem sex which she needs. |
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I fantasied about it for years before being brave enough to discuss it with her.
We watched a channel 4 documentary and had a frank discussion afterwards about trying something. We thought about meeting other couples but neither of us were into it. When we read about hotwife / stag vixens that was a big catalyst.
Vixen wasn’t sure to start with but she took to it pretty quick! |
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By *SCouple81Couple 15 weeks ago
Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders |
We were talking about it for really long time and eventually decided to give it a go. It was our decision and nobody had to push the other person into doing anything we weren't comfortable with. The best thing is being in it together. |
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We had been talking about it for a while but Sue was always a little nervous about taking it further
Then one day we were out shoping and in different stores. When she came to meet me a guy held the door open for her and began to chat her up unaware of me standing a few yards away. it was a huge turn on for me and i nearly ripped her clothes off when we got back to the car.
When she saw how much i enjoyed it she decided to take the plunge and loved it |
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By *irldnCouple 15 weeks ago
Brighton |
My wife and I both did a bit of swinging before we met. For a few months we were just getting to know each other and becoming more adventurous as our sex life “matured” then it came up in conversation about fantasies.
The girlfriend I got into swinging with progressed from watching Eyes Wide Shut at cinema, to visiting fetish clubs (initially just dressing up and voyeur), to playing at fetish clubs, to meeting couples privately who we initially met in fetish clubs, then full on swinging. |
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It was the wife that got us into sharing. She initially suggested that we go to a lap dancing club so she could learn some stripper moves. She got 4 private dances and loved the attention from the girls. She got talking to one of the girls about swinging and torture gardens. We watched a few channel 4 documentaries and booked up to visit a club. We've been addicted ever since
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Show them your profile and verifications OP. That should get the conversation moving quickly 😂
Usually, it's me bringing my partners into it. I'm very open from the start about who I am and what I enjoy. I've taken a few people for their first ever swingers club visit at this point 💜 |
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