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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"Never get any meets on here I’m I doing something wrong "
I am probably not the best person to give advice. Stick with it, be relaxed and courtious. Rejections are inevitable given the proportions male v female.
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The truth is that the older you are the fewer opportunities you will have on fab. It's a good idea to adjust your expectations and ensure that you're contacting people who are looking for your age group. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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To be honest "Hey grannies I'm great in bed. Women who know and love me don't want to fuck me. Come fuck me. Behind their back." is not a strong sales pitch at any age.
There are LOADS of older people who play. Some of them make it easier for themselves. |
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"Down where we are we struggle to find older men which is My preference I'm always told age is just a number so keep trying "
How old are you then as my real age is slightly more than my fab age (like many) pmsl
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Probably too old to wasting time on here.
Not too old to get out in the clubs and have a great time.
There’s a group of guys similar age at VA. We bump into them all the time and they are living their best lives |
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"Hi can I just ask is 69 to old for a male on here. Having no luck about to give up. "
Your profile is the only thing that others can judge you by, perhaps yours needs some attention? There are definitely swingers out there who are into older guys, but to improve your meret rate go to a club. |
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"Down where we are we struggle to find older men which is My preference I'm always told age is just a number so keep trying How old are you then as my real age is slightly more than my fab age (like many) pmsl"
We're early 50s |
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"Down where we are we struggle to find older men which is My preference I'm always told age is just a number so keep trying How old are you then as my real age is slightly more than my fab age (like many) pmsl
We're early 50s"
same here which is no age at all, I still think I am in my 40s lol  |
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As a guy you're never too old to have no luck on here 
On a serious note it's hard out here for guys in general. You're totally not too old because not everyone is that concerned about age and loads of people around your age still enjoying the scene (not necessarily through fab). But of course pragmatically speaking although your age is not a barrier it will limit your options (I think you know that). But doesn't mean there isn't fun out there to be had.
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"I remember putting something similar on my status....a couple messaged me and said yes you are, I thought who made them the age police  "
You asked, they answered!
Or did you only want the right (for you) answer? |
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"Down where we are we struggle to find older men which is My preference I'm always told age is just a number so keep trying How old are you then as my real age is slightly more than my fab age (like many) pmsl
We're early 50s same here which is no age at all, I still think I am in my 40s lol "
We wish we were younger |
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By *r TriomanMan 13 weeks ago
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Although it feels like Fab is no place for old men, I still persevere as its a good way of keeping in touch with the Swinging scene.
I haven't had a meet of fab in nearly a year but that's the thing about this site, things change all the time so I always feel that my luck will change too; also, some say "you make your own luck", which is why I also go to clubs. |
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"Hi can I just ask is 69 to old for a male on here.having no luck about to give up. "
I'd recommend using FAB as a guide for socials, you will then enter the world of real meets and as a single fella be in a small minority, in the FAB chatters world you will be just one in a huge majority, got to give yourself the best chances swinging and life has to offer.
If you are presentable, chatty, not a limpet the real swinging world is a great place.
We've met a few gents over 60+ and they certainly get around.
One is at parties, socials, met him in France and Canaries he's also a font of knowledge on swinging places too.
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"Down where we are we struggle to find older men which is My preference I'm always told age is just a number so keep trying How old are you then as my real age is slightly more than my fab age (like many) pmsl
We're early 50s same here which is no age at all, I still think I am in my 40s lol
We wish we were younger "
I certainly had a lot of fun from my late 20s onwards but very comfortable in my age now. Hence still enjoying myself |
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"Down where we are we struggle to find older men which is My preference I'm always told age is just a number so keep trying How old are you then as my real age is slightly more than my fab age (like many) pmsl
We're early 50s same here which is no age at all, I still think I am in my 40s lol
We wish we were younger I certainly had a lot of fun from my late 20s onwards but very comfortable in my age now. Hence still enjoying myself "
We been in and out the scene for 27 years but had more energy when younger so the scene was much better how much longer we can stay in the scene I don't know |
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Probably more to do with the fact you’re cheating on your partner than your age, unless they know you’re on here but I can’t see that being mentioned on your profile so many people will assume it’s not the case. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Probably more to do with the fact you’re cheating on your partner than your age, unless they know you’re on here but I can’t see that being mentioned on your profile so many people will assume it’s not the case."
Think this is definitely an age posting rather than morality or judging one ..... |
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Soon as I turned 60 we noticed we are not getting the interest from cpls or fems, plenty of single m though for the Mrs lol. I do feel fit people say I don't look 60, so it's just the number that I think kills it. |
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