FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > What to take as a gift for a couple
What to take as a gift for a couple
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP 7 weeks ago
|
Got my first meet at a couple’s house tonight. Met a good few people on here but always hosted or visited hotel rooms and got straight down to business.
I’m actually a bit nervous about it. Not about the meet itself but showing up at someone’s house, sitting chatting in the living room
living room etc.
What should I take? Wine, Flowers, a sexy gift for both of them?
Serious question and appreciate some ideas. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I think the best gift you can bring is smelling nice, you're own condoms and you're own personal drink.
As for anything else not expected, although recognise the sentiment. But the trouble with a gift is it risks being misconstrued or just adding a slight awkwardness with some. However ever if you do, some disposable and non personal. Personally I'd say you can't go wrong with a nice big box of chocolates (with the added bonus you may get to share them later with them too). |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I think the best gift you can bring is smelling nice, you're own condoms and you're own personal drink.
As for anything else not expected, although recognise the sentiment. But the trouble with a gift is it risks being misconstrued or just adding a slight awkwardness with some. However ever if you do, some disposable and non personal. Personally I'd say you can't go wrong with a nice big box of chocolates (with the added bonus you may get to share them later with them too)."
Each to their own but I'd view chocolates as weird  Saying that I did take someone a book I'd bought them, so what the hell do I know  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I think the best gift you can bring is smelling nice, you're own condoms and you're own personal drink.
As for anything else not expected, although recognise the sentiment. But the trouble with a gift is it risks being misconstrued or just adding a slight awkwardness with some. However ever if you do, some disposable and non personal. Personally I'd say you can't go wrong with a nice big box of chocolates (with the added bonus you may get to share them later with them too)."
I think chocolates is a bit like flowers - it’s like for the lady of the house… but you’re meeting a couple.
Just looking good, clean, presentable as said above.
Always ask if it’s a shoes off house straightaway
Just because the lady is wearing high heels doesn’t mean you can keep yours on too.
The other bit of advice…. It’s not every couple home meet but most of them…..Know when to leave, don’t be that guy that lingers beyond it being awkward. They may even offer a cup of tea or whatever but they’re just being polite, they need you gone so that they are still feeling it when they fuck each others brains out. You’ll know when sex with you has finished, grab your things and go and let them enjoy the most important bit for them… the time after you’ve gone.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
And the two above comments is why gifts are a bit of a minefield and safer not to. Just concentrate on yourself presentation. Because even with chocolates some find this strange or just see it as a gift for the lady.
Personally we'd be chuffed with some chocolates. I Mr would definitely consider it a gift for both of us not just a gift for the lady and we'd definitely share. Unless you handed them straight to Mrs and said this is for you, the I would be miffed
So I guess just play it safe and not bother. Although probably 9/10 times as long as its reasonably safe most would take a gift with the intension ment. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP 6 weeks ago
|
So - I took a bottle of champagne in the end and it was immediately popped and shared.
Thank you for all of the comments above.
I should add that we had a VERY lovely evening - thank you all for putting me at ease! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
