Does any other people get their club night spoilt by creepy single men who are rude and don’t know how to take no for an answer?
We get single men are entitled to go to clubs or should we say anyone for that matter but when you are rude and creepy it just puts us off 😖 |
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I think a lot of single guys get annoyed by them as well. They make couples and single women wary of going to clubs or even just engaging in conversation because these guys think oh you talked to me, you owe me sex.
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By *cott14Man 7 weeks ago
Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton |
Unfortunately there are chaps who attend clubs that have an expectation because of the environment they are in they are “ owed “ sex .
It’s not all and dependant on how well the club is managed it’s also the minority.
No different to on here I guess . It does make it a little more challenging for the rest of us |
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By *dc1Man 7 weeks ago
essex and all over the south |
Ive attended clubs as a single man and as a couple. When as a couple we had men that would get way to close and touch her without asking. Normally men in there 30s and 40s. They soon got told to sod off.
As a single man i had more responces by sitting back and showing my apreciation for that couple. Normally they would see you and if you are what they are interested in would invite you over.
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We don’t go to many clubs that do not allow single guys. That is mainly because on of our main kinks is the exhibitionism.
We get bigger audiences when single guys are in attendance and that’s a turn on for me as a Dom. I like showing M off.
That said there will sometimes be someone who oversteps. Either gets too close to us while we are playing or comes up and tries to talk to us to force themselves in to the scene. That will often end in us finishing whatever we were doing and ruining it for the genuine voyeurs. |
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By *dc1Man 7 weeks ago
essex and all over the south |
"We don’t go to many clubs that do not allow single guys. That is mainly because on of our main kinks is the exhibitionism.
We get bigger audiences when single guys are in attendance and that’s a turn on for me as a Dom. I like showing M off.
That said there will sometimes be someone who oversteps. Either gets too close to us while we are playing or comes up and tries to talk to us to force themselves in to the scene. That will often end in us finishing whatever we were doing and ruining it for the genuine voyeurs."
I so agree with what you both are looking for. Far better to sit back and watch rather than being pusshy and being told to clear off. You are my type of couple. |
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Think the worst I’ve had in a club was a guy asking “can I have a go” while I was spanking M.
Nearly offered my flogger to his backside 
But should say have also had women interrupt. While I was tying M once a lady came and whispered in my ear “nice to see proper shibari”, which was nice but could have waited until I had finished. |
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We usually find that single men in clubs are very friendly and respectful, but there is occasionally (and it is only occasionally) the odd one or two who overstep the mark. When this happens, the other guys will often put them in their place, and if they don't, we will  xx |
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We don’t mind single men at all it’s each to their own and stuff but last night they were rude and they thought that they could touch without consent as well as get really close. There was a lot of disrespectful men last night |
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"We don’t mind single men at all it’s each to their own and stuff but last night they were rude and they thought that they could touch without consent as well as get really close. There was a lot of disrespectful men last night "
We would have reported them and expected them to be thrown out the club. Some club's are really strict on behaviour. Even though it should go without saying not to touch without consent and not to invade people's space without permission. |
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By *bcplCouple 7 weeks ago
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All the single guys we have come across in clubs are very very respectful I think your speaking about a minority of people or maybe going to the wrong clubs where they have been allowed to cross the line without being reprimanded. |
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We aren’t saying all single guys are! 🤔 we just saying that there was a lot of disrespectful ones last night. We never been to a club where only couples are allowed to go. It’s all about respect and taking no for an answer. Not ask why we said no. No is no. Touching people then asking is disrespectful as well. If you are anyone who goes to a club you should have some sort of respect to everyone around you! But doing stuff like that gives singles a bad name! End of! |
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"We aren’t saying all single guys are! 🤔 we just saying that there was a lot of disrespectful ones last night. We never been to a club where only couples are allowed to go. It’s all about respect and taking no for an answer. Not ask why we said no. No is no. Touching people then asking is disrespectful as well. If you are anyone who goes to a club you should have some sort of respect to everyone around you! But doing stuff like that gives singles a bad name! End of!"
Well behaved old bastard single bloke here. I have seen poor behaviour, but I am always of the opinion, if I'm not asked, I don't touch  |
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