I've learned that if it seems to easy to arrange a sexy meet then it often goes wrong
If it takes more time and effort then it has a better chance of success
Am I alone in this feeling ?
As a general rule maybe true. However if build up relationship before meeting I have found can work out very well. Always dosimeter who waste time and fantasy. Much better if honest and open on what like or not. Don’t let it let you stop looking if you want