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Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people? |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
Just some bros supporting bros. All men like seeing decent dicks it’s ingrained into them via life time of gonzo/pov porn |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?
Just some bros supporting bros. All men like seeing decent dicks it’s ingrained into them via life time of gonzo/pov porn "
Not thought of that, thanks for the input x |
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"I seriously doubt they are straight. If I could block all male images I would."
My husband is a but miffed by it too to be fair! He's OK to be close to another cock but wouldn't want it in his face if you k ow what I mean! He's as straight as they come. He wouldn't even do DVP with me or any other woman. Lol |
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"Just take as a compliment for fucks sake. The poor husbands on couples profiles get completely ignored while the wife gets fabbed to the front page.
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Oh to be front page on the hot list, still waiting for that one to happen to me. The men from the couples do get overlooked to be fair, I'm always happy to push him infront of me for adoration 💕 |
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"Just take as a compliment for fucks sake. The poor husbands on couples profiles get completely ignored while the wife gets fabbed to the front page.
Oh to be front page on the hot list, still waiting for that one to happen to me. The men from the couples do get overlooked to be fair, I'm always happy to push him infront of me for adoration 💕"
Loving the lightsaber BTW x |
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By *ddy86Man 7 weeks ago
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"I seriously doubt they are straight. If I could block all male images I would.
My husband is a but miffed by it too to be fair! He's OK to be close to another cock but wouldn't want it in his face if you k ow what I mean! He's as straight as they come. He wouldn't even do DVP with me or any other woman. Lol"
Very little makes sense here. I try not to fab cock where the man is listed as straight because I know they can sometimes be a bit funny about it. I've had fabs from straight guys in the past though. It's just a compliment at the end of the day |
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"I seriously doubt they are straight. If I could block all male images I would.
My husband is a but miffed by it too to be fair! He's OK to be close to another cock but wouldn't want it in his face if you k ow what I mean! He's as straight as they come. He wouldn't even do DVP with me or any other woman. Lol
Very little makes sense here. I try not to fab cock where the man is listed as straight because I know they can sometimes be a bit funny about it. I've had fabs from straight guys in the past though. It's just a compliment at the end of the day"
Furry muff, thanks for the input x |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
We also noticed this on our profile lol, I'm straight and have never looked at another cock and thought oh that's nice haha |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?
We also noticed this on our profile lol, I'm straight and have never looked at another cock and thought oh that's nice haha"
Most peculiar indeed! Lol |
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"Just take as a compliment for fucks sake. The poor husbands on couples profiles get completely ignored while the wife gets fabbed to the front page.
Oh to be front page on the hot list, still waiting for that one to happen to me. The men from the couples do get overlooked to be fair, I'm always happy to push him infront of me for adoration 💕
Loving the lightsaber BTW x"
I was told by a lady friend in no uncertain terms that there’s no way she’s going to let me fuck her with a cheap, possibly radioactive, glowing novelty condom made in China 😔 That woman doesn’t know how cool it looks going in and out though…
One of the things about the lifestyle is that boundaries of vanilla fragile masculinity don’t fit easily. Group sex, DP and DVP is no place for an insecure guy who’s going to flinch if touched. Get off and get out… you’re no use to us. Naked men stood around stroking themselves to be ready in a Gangbang is not a place to be bashful. I quickly adjusted comfortably with being in close proximity to other guys early in my lifestyle journey, I’m not sexually attracted to them but I recognise a handsome fit guy or a great looking cock and will make a compliment if appropriate- often light hearted but also handing out knuckle bumps to that absolute stud who you watched intently, being very aroused just watching, fuck a hotwife through the mattress…so take your Male to
Male compliments… regardless if it’s a gay guy, TV/TS, bi guy or straight guy, accept them in good spirit, be polite and say thanks. I was at a live gig in Birmingham at the weekend and a guy passing said to me he had noticed me from the stalls, that I stood out in the crowd, I looked great, loved what I was wearing… now before being in the lifestyle I would have cringed, awkward, offended by being hit on by a gay guy (he wasn’t- just a lovely guy as it turned out) but now… the liberated, relaxed, uninhibited me said “thanks dude, that’s really kind of you to say that” shoulder slap man hug ensued.
Support your lifestyle bros yo. |
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Not entirely sure how anyone can be confused by this.
If I see a picture of a naked guy, and he’s attractive, I fab it. Purely because I think it’s a nice picture, and not in the slightest based on whether they’re straight, gay, bi, whatever it may be. It’s paying someone a silent compliment and nothing else.
What you find attractive vs. what other people find attractive means nothing.
Let’s face it, we’re all here, posting our x-rated pictures for all to see. If you wanted females / couples only to see these pictures, or are confused / offended by someone fabbing pictures of your husband, you’d make them private and share with only the people you wanted to see them.
But, they’re public. It’s called that for a reason.
No hate here, but, we all know what we’re letting ourselves in for in terms of views, fabs, winks etc when we post the pictures and set them to public.
Just be happy that people clearly find your life-partner attractive, it’s a compliment. Not an insult.
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"Not entirely sure how anyone can be confused by this.
If I see a picture of a naked guy, and he’s attractive, I fab it. Purely because I think it’s a nice picture, and not in the slightest based on whether they’re straight, gay, bi, whatever it may be. It’s paying someone a silent compliment and nothing else.
What you find attractive vs. what other people find attractive means nothing.
Let’s face it, we’re all here, posting our x-rated pictures for all to see. If you wanted females / couples only to see these pictures, or are confused / offended by someone fabbing pictures of your husband, you’d make them private and share with only the people you wanted to see them.
But, they’re public. It’s called that for a reason.
No hate here, but, we all know what we’re letting ourselves in for in terms of views, fabs, winks etc when we post the pictures and set them to public.
Just be happy that people clearly find your life-partner attractive, it’s a compliment. Not an insult.
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Fabbed one of your dick pics dude- clipped smooth it looks great - Nice one |
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"Appreciated! Thanks! I’d have sent this direct but it won’t let me. Great pictures too. Great physique, some serious dedication. "
You too my man, I’m afraid injuries, that curtailed exercise, has added a bit of timber to my picks… 😁
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"Not entirely sure how anyone can be confused by this.
If I see a picture of a naked guy, and he’s attractive, I fab it. Purely because I think it’s a nice picture, and not in the slightest based on whether they’re straight, gay, bi, whatever it may be. It’s paying someone a silent compliment and nothing else.
What you find attractive vs. what other people find attractive means nothing.
Let’s face it, we’re all here, posting our x-rated pictures for all to see. If you wanted females / couples only to see these pictures, or are confused / offended by someone fabbing pictures of your husband, you’d make them private and share with only the people you wanted to see them.
But, they’re public. It’s called that for a reason.
No hate here, but, we all know what we’re letting ourselves in for in terms of views, fabs, winks etc when we post the pictures and set them to public.
Just be happy that people clearly find your life-partner attractive, it’s a compliment. Not an insult.
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Not insulted at all, my husband is an absolute stud muffin! Lol.
He's confidence has skyrocketed since joining the lifestyle with me and he deserves it. Still confused by straight guys fabbing pics of straight men but I'm happy he gets the fabs. Not judging as much as trying to understand why I suppose. We all have our boundaries and limits and we always try to respect others as a result. Each to thier own I say x |
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By *luttTV/TS 7 weeks ago
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"I seriously doubt they are straight. If I could block all male images I would.
My husband is a but miffed by it too to be fair! "
Really can’t understand why someone would be “miffed” about that. |
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You're an attractive couple. 2nd August? If I was a fabbing type person I'd fab your couples face pics. Lovely vibe.
Close up genital pics? They just make me wanna block. If the gallery doesn't have other stuff too then I do.
I don't even enjoy pics of dicks I know and love. Penis images are *very* much a dude thing aren't they?
Lotta straight guys on here named after some porn actor called smthingdingo with one they like... I've not ever seen, literally only knew it as a historical racist reference. So I make them describe it for giggles  |
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"You're an attractive couple. 2nd August? If I was a fabbing type person I'd fab your couples face pics. Lovely vibe.
Close up genital pics? They just make me wanna block. If the gallery doesn't have other stuff too then I do.
I don't even enjoy pics of dicks I know and love. Penis images are *very* much a dude thing aren't they?
Lotta straight guys on here named after some porn actor called smthingdingo with one they like... I've not ever seen, literally only knew it as a historical racist reference. So I make them describe it for giggles "
You crack me up x Mrs x |
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"You're an attractive couple. 2nd August? If I was a fabbing type person I'd fab your couples face pics. Lovely vibe.
Close up genital pics? They just make me wanna block. If the gallery doesn't have other stuff too then I do.
I don't even enjoy pics of dicks I know and love. Penis images are *very* much a dude thing aren't they?
Lotta straight guys on here named after some porn actor called smthingdingo with one they like... I've not ever seen, literally only knew it as a historical racist reference. So I make them describe it for giggles
You crack me up x Mrs x"
And thank you for complimenting the 2nd August pics, I love those x |
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"I get loads of straight men wanting to meet and have met many. I've also met more married guys on here than single guys.
But that makes sense as you are bi curious x"
Yes but what I'm saying is straight men who are liking most likely are nor straight |
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"I get loads of straight men wanting to meet and have met many. I've also met more married guys on here than single guys.
But that makes sense as you are bi curious x
Yes but what I'm saying is straight men who are liking most likely are nor straight"
Oh yeah, I get that! Lol |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
You can appreciate someone of the same sex’s body or even cock with it meaning you want to fuck it |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?
You can appreciate someone of the same sex’s body or even cock with it meaning you want to fuck it "
Without lol |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
Two reasons it could be.
1. By fabbing the pic they might get your attention, pretty poor plan imo if you’re not looking for straight single men.
2. They are part of the large group of men with straight on their profile that are not.
These guys also send me the same low effort messages that single women and couples get. Stuff like
‘Drain you’
‘Fuck me bareback’
Etc
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"We all have our boundaries and limits and we always try to respect others as a result. Each to thier own I say x "
If not wanting men to fab the Mr’s pics is a boundary, or confuses then consider not posting them or switching the fab pics option off. It might save mental capacity for something way more fun  |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
I see your point of view here OP, from a personal perspective I when I fab photos in a couples profile, I will always make a point of fabbing a pic of the couple together to acknowledge that they are a couple if that makes sense.
I am a but like your hubby in respect of I am as straight as can be, I don't understand straight guys fabbing another straight guy but this place is a playground d for everyone so I just going with it and respect everybody's opinion. |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
im sure my Hubby would appreciate attention rather than just fabbing my pics . K |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
Have to admit that I have just Fabbed both is cock pics. Hope you don't mind! It is a compliment! |
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It’s an impressive member, guess straight guys are proud to have him on the ‘man team’!
It’s probably the same for straight women who might fab a total stunner on here, so there just supporting the girl team. Would be interesting to know if this is the case?x |
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By *uckfunCouple 7 weeks ago
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
Men can appreciate a good looking cock without being gay or bi |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
It’s a swingers site.
80% say straight but are not
Enjoy the fabs |
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"We all have our boundaries and limits and we always try to respect others as a result. Each to thier own I say x
If not wanting men to fab the Mr’s pics is a boundary, or confuses then consider not posting them or switching the fab pics option off. It might save mental capacity for something way more fun "
Who said anything about "not wanting men fabbing the Mrs pics"? Everyone can fab all our pics as much as they like. Some of the guys on here have explained why a straight man would fab a straight man's pic, to each their own. |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?
Have to admit that I have just Fabbed both is cock pics. Hope you don't mind! It is a compliment!"
I have now been enlightened, fab away x |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
yes but it's he straight, or FAB straight?
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"I'm bi but get plenty of enquiries from straight guys, they like cock to. "
Huge pity that they aren't confident enough to admit it or at least say bi- curious. They seem to be worried that by putting bi on their profile they will spoil their chances of meeting couples or women. They seems to be a stigma against bi men. |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people? yes but it's he straight, or FAB straight?"
Hahaha absolutely not "fab straight" definitely straight! Lol. Not that I would be bothered either way of course! I myself am bi and our son is gay so we are very open minded. |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?
Have to admit that I have just Fabbed both is cock pics. Hope you don't mind! It is a compliment!
I have now been enlightened, fab away x"
Thanks! Lovely cock! |
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I think it’s tragic that vanilla world fragile masculinity is apparent in some of these responses… straight guys worried that if they Fab a man’s picture their sexuality is in question. I’ll Fab great pictures regardless of who is in them. If the person receiving the Fab is uncomfortable with that then it’s their problem. It’s always a man, we don’t compliment each other enough because ‘that’s a bit gay’ and that’s incredibly sad. Women compliment each other, clothes, hair, body shape. They are supportive, affirming and accept compliments and Fabs from other women in spirit they are given. Men should be comfortable to do likewise. |
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This drives me mad too. I was engaging in very normal chit-chat with a chap whose profile said he was straight. Literally chatting away, normally, nothing sexual in it - spoke for weeks. Then randomly blocked me.
Fragile masculinity is so unattractive. |
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"I think it’s tragic that vanilla world fragile masculinity is apparent in some of these responses… straight guys worried that if they Fab a man’s picture their sexuality is in question. I’ll Fab great pictures regardless of who is in them. If the person receiving the Fab is uncomfortable with that then it’s their problem. It’s always a man, we don’t compliment each other enough because ‘that’s a bit gay’ and that’s incredibly sad. Women compliment each other, clothes, hair, body shape. They are supportive, affirming and accept compliments and Fabs from other women in spirit they are given. Men should be comfortable to do likewise. "
This 100% absolutely hit the nail on the head!
Don't worry about guys fabbing your pics- it's nothing but a compliment and who doesn't like a compliment 🏳️🌈
S xxx |
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By *rT25Man 7 weeks ago
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"I think it’s tragic that vanilla world fragile masculinity is apparent in some of these responses… straight guys worried that if they Fab a man’s picture their sexuality is in question. I’ll Fab great pictures regardless of who is in them. If the person receiving the Fab is uncomfortable with that then it’s their problem. It’s always a man, we don’t compliment each other enough because ‘that’s a bit gay’ and that’s incredibly sad. Women compliment each other, clothes, hair, body shape. They are supportive, affirming and accept compliments and Fabs from other women in spirit they are given. Men should be comfortable to do likewise.
This 100% absolutely hit the nail on the head!
Don't worry about guys fabbing your pics- it's nothing but a compliment and who doesn't like a compliment 🏳️🌈
S xxx"
Certainly agree with all this. |
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"This has turned out to be an interesting topic, and I've been enlightened!
Thanks for all the ensightful responses"
Out of interest, would you feel different if a straight guy fabbed you photos to a bi or gay guy fabbing them? |
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By *andTVTV/TS 7 weeks ago
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"This has turned out to be an interesting topic, and I've been enlightened!
Thanks for all the ensightful responses
Out of interest, would you feel different if a straight guy fabbed you photos to a bi or gay guy fabbing them?"
Great question |
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Bi curious and wanting to be with m/f couples that’s me
The bi part speaks for itself really.
Guys wanting to be with couples have to accept that you will come into very intimate contact with another guys junk it’s also worth noting that it’s becoming acceptable for men to receive anal and accept it as not being gay hence pegging |
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"This has turned out to be an interesting topic, and I've been enlightened!
Thanks for all the ensightful responses
Out of interest, would you feel different if a straight guy fabbed you photos to a bi or gay guy fabbing them?"
OK, if it was a picture of me I wouldn't feel anyway at all whether they were straight or gay or bi. If it was a picture of my husband, gay or bi men fabbing them would have made more sense to me.
I suppose in my head fabbing a picture on here is more of a way of saying "phwoar!" Whereas other people see fabbing a picture more as saying "nice pic" or "well done on having a good cock or tits or whatever". I can now see that some people use fab like they would use fb or other social platforms where liking a picture is more about validating the person. I see fab as more of a place to meet fun people with the hopes of having naughty fun. I'm not generally big on social media and only really do fb. Sorry quite a long response but it explains the reason why I posted my original question and my thoughts behind it. I've learned a lot from this forum, I truly have been enlightened on the subject of fabbing pics.
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"Same here, seems men like Tom's cock more than I do haha
Just checked your profile out. You are both gorgeous, but his cock look amazing! Have fabbed both of you!"
He does have a nice dick and a gorgeous wife.
Lucky bastard 😂 |
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"Same here, seems men like Tom's cock more than I do haha
Just checked your profile out. You are both gorgeous, but his cock look amazing! Have fabbed both of you!
He does have a nice dick and a gorgeous wife.
Lucky bastard 😂"
The Silver fux is not wrong, you're both gorgeous, lovely profile x
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"This has turned out to be an interesting topic, and I've been enlightened!
Thanks for all the ensightful responses
Out of interest, would you feel different if a straight guy fabbed you photos to a bi or gay guy fabbing them?
OK, if it was a picture of me I wouldn't feel anyway at all whether they were straight or gay or bi. If it was a picture of my husband, gay or bi men fabbing them would have made more sense to me.
I suppose in my head fabbing a picture on here is more of a way of saying "phwoar!" Whereas other people see fabbing a picture more as saying "nice pic" or "well done on having a good cock or tits or whatever". I can now see that some people use fab like they would use fb or other social platforms where liking a picture is more about validating the person. I see fab as more of a place to meet fun people with the hopes of having naughty fun. I'm not generally big on social media and only really do fb. Sorry quite a long response but it explains the reason why I posted my original question and my thoughts behind it. I've learned a lot from this forum, I truly have been enlightened on the subject of fabbing pics.
Mrs x"
I think pic Fabs are a bit of both, can be a compliment or a “phwoar” If it’s a gay guy Fabbing your husbands dick pic.. it could be a “phwoar” but as he’s declared himself straight in your profile then take it as a compliment. The thirsty women Fabbing your husbands cock pic is almost certainly a “phwoar” 😃 |
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"This has turned out to be an interesting topic, and I've been enlightened!
Thanks for all the ensightful responses
Out of interest, would you feel different if a straight guy fabbed you photos to a bi or gay guy fabbing them?
OK, if it was a picture of me I wouldn't feel anyway at all whether they were straight or gay or bi. If it was a picture of my husband, gay or bi men fabbing them would have made more sense to me.
I suppose in my head fabbing a picture on here is more of a way of saying "phwoar!" Whereas other people see fabbing a picture more as saying "nice pic" or "well done on having a good cock or tits or whatever". I can now see that some people use fab like they would use fb or other social platforms where liking a picture is more about validating the person. I see fab as more of a place to meet fun people with the hopes of having naughty fun. I'm not generally big on social media and only really do fb. Sorry quite a long response but it explains the reason why I posted my original question and my thoughts behind it. I've learned a lot from this forum, I truly have been enlightened on the subject of fabbing pics.
Mrs x
I think pic Fabs are a bit of both, can be a compliment or a “phwoar” If it’s a gay guy Fabbing your husbands dick pic.. it could be a “phwoar” but as he’s declared himself straight in your profile then take it as a compliment. The thirsty women Fabbing your husbands cock pic is almost certainly a “phwoar” 😃"
It's certainly flattery that's for sure! Fab away everyone. I'm all for positivity.
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"This has turned out to be an interesting topic, and I've been enlightened!
Thanks for all the ensightful responses
Out of interest, would you feel different if a straight guy fabbed you photos to a bi or gay guy fabbing them?
OK, if it was a picture of me I wouldn't feel anyway at all whether they were straight or gay or bi. If it was a picture of my husband, gay or bi men fabbing them would have made more sense to me.
I suppose in my head fabbing a picture on here is more of a way of saying "phwoar!" Whereas other people see fabbing a picture more as saying "nice pic" or "well done on having a good cock or tits or whatever". I can now see that some people use fab like they would use fb or other social platforms where liking a picture is more about validating the person. I see fab as more of a place to meet fun people with the hopes of having naughty fun. I'm not generally big on social media and only really do fb. Sorry quite a long response but it explains the reason why I posted my original question and my thoughts behind it. I've learned a lot from this forum, I truly have been enlightened on the subject of fabbing pics.
Mrs x
I think pic Fabs are a bit of both, can be a compliment or a “phwoar” If it’s a gay guy Fabbing your husbands dick pic.. it could be a “phwoar” but as he’s declared himself straight in your profile then take it as a compliment. The thirsty women Fabbing your husbands cock pic is almost certainly a “phwoar” 😃"
By the way, your response to another post on here has me in stitches🤣😅. One word "waaaambulance". Classic banter!
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"I think it’s tragic that vanilla world fragile masculinity is apparent in some of these responses… straight guys worried that if they Fab a man’s picture their sexuality is in question. I’ll Fab great pictures regardless of who is in them. If the person receiving the Fab is uncomfortable with that then it’s their problem. It’s always a man, we don’t compliment each other enough because ‘that’s a bit gay’ and that’s incredibly sad. Women compliment each other, clothes, hair, body shape. They are supportive, affirming and accept compliments and Fabs from other women in spirit they are given. Men should be comfortable to do likewise. "
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"Just some bros supporting bros. All men like seeing decent dicks it’s ingrained into them via life time of gonzo/pov porn
This is the only answer."
Utter nonsense. Straight men couldn't give a flying feck about another man's cock, doesn't even enter his mind. And no, it doesn't mean his masculinity is fragile either. Complete shite made up by some gay/bi guys getting hard thinking of the Holy grail of seducing straight men. |
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"This has turned out to be an interesting topic, and I've been enlightened!
Thanks for all the ensightful responses
Out of interest, would you feel different if a straight guy fabbed you photos to a bi or gay guy fabbing them?
OK, if it was a picture of me I wouldn't feel anyway at all whether they were straight or gay or bi. If it was a picture of my husband, gay or bi men fabbing them would have made more sense to me.
I suppose in my head fabbing a picture on here is more of a way of saying "phwoar!" Whereas other people see fabbing a picture more as saying "nice pic" or "well done on having a good cock or tits or whatever". I can now see that some people use fab like they would use fb or other social platforms where liking a picture is more about validating the person. I see fab as more of a place to meet fun people with the hopes of having naughty fun. I'm not generally big on social media and only really do fb. Sorry quite a long response but it explains the reason why I posted my original question and my thoughts behind it. I've learned a lot from this forum, I truly have been enlightened on the subject of fabbing pics.
Mrs x
I think pic Fabs are a bit of both, can be a compliment or a “phwoar” If it’s a gay guy Fabbing your husbands dick pic.. it could be a “phwoar” but as he’s declared himself straight in your profile then take it as a compliment. The thirsty women Fabbing your husbands cock pic is almost certainly a “phwoar” 😃
By the way, your response to another post on here has me in stitches🤣😅. One word "waaaambulance". Classic banter!
Mrs x"
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"Utter nonsense. Straight men couldn't give a flying feck about another man's cock, doesn't even enter his mind. And no, it doesn't mean his masculinity is fragile either. Complete shite made up by some gay/bi guys getting hard thinking of the Holy grail of seducing straight men."
Who hurt you? |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
there is a whole forum post of straight men having a dick comparing competition. It's weird. I'm sure it was meant to attract women to comment on how they thought their dicks looked gorgeous or something like that but it's just a bunch of single men saying they want their dick looked at.  |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?
Just some bros supporting bros. All men like seeing decent dicks it’s ingrained into them via life time of gonzo/pov porn "
However yours is spectacular |
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Could be just appreciation of a nice dick pic, could also be bi or curious guys who aren’t yet ready to come out of the closet publicly.
I’ve seen some horrendous bi-phobia and lots of people with preferences not to play with bi guys on fab before and so noticed that some people keep it hidden. |
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We've had supposed straight men fabbing cock pics. Can't understand it as Mr C is 100% straight.
Been warned by a gay friend that there is a large amount of gay men that are hiding behind straight profiles, who's main aim is to turn straight men.
Waste of their time in this case lol! |
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"Just some bros supporting bros. All men like seeing decent dicks it’s ingrained into them via life time of gonzo/pov porn
This is the only answer.
Utter nonsense. Straight men couldn't give a flying feck about another man's cock, doesn't even enter his mind. And no, it doesn't mean his masculinity is fragile either. Complete shite made up by some gay/bi guys getting hard thinking of the Holy grail of seducing straight men."
Ya fuckin’ liar 😂 When your mate flopped out his cock next to you at the Vault piss trough, you took a look and compared |
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"Could be just appreciation of a nice dick pic, could also be bi or curious guys who aren’t yet ready to come out of the closet publicly.
I’ve seen some horrendous bi-phobia and lots of people with preferences not to play with bi guys on fab before and so noticed that some people keep it hidden."
Yeh for a community that is meant to be so welcoming and open minded, they demand everyone is labelled correctly according to their acceptance.
Maybe someone isn't sure if they are bi but is open to a threesome with a bi couple and see if they are comfortable taking things further than ever thought they would. . . . . You better have bi or bi curious on your profile or you are a liar and a time waster and we do not accept you........
Buy yeh, diversity, safe spaces, everyone has a voice and is an individual. . .. did I miss a buzzword? |
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"We've had supposed straight men fabbing cock pics. Can't understand it as Mr C is 100% straight.
Been warned by a gay friend that there is a large amount of gay men that are hiding behind straight profiles, who's main aim is to turn straight men.
Waste of their time in this case lol!"
Sounds like predatory behaviour. |
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"Could be just appreciation of a nice dick pic, could also be bi or curious guys who aren’t yet ready to come out of the closet publicly.
I’ve seen some horrendous bi-phobia and lots of people with preferences not to play with bi guys on fab before and so noticed that some people keep it hidden.
Yeh for a community that is meant to be so welcoming and open minded, they demand everyone is labelled correctly according to their acceptance.
Maybe someone isn't sure if they are bi but is open to a threesome with a bi couple and see if they are comfortable taking things further than ever thought they would. . . . . You better have bi or bi curious on your profile or you are a liar and a time waster and we do not accept you........
Buy yeh, diversity, safe spaces, everyone has a voice and is an individual. . .. did I miss a buzzword?"
But the thing is that these couples know all about those fucking chancers who will say anything to get a chance at the missus. That’s why they say if you don’t say it in the profile… feck off.
They also don’t won’t to waste an evening inviting over a guy who’s not sure.. they’ve spent two hours shaving their bits and douching and paid for a hotel… only for the guy to sit there like a frightened little boy
I’ve friends who play bi and say in pre-meet messages that the guys will give each other blow jobs to get hard before going upstairs with the wife… that gets down to the geniune ones pretty quickly |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?
Men can appreciate a good looking cock without being gay or bi"
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"Could be just appreciation of a nice dick pic, could also be bi or curious guys who aren’t yet ready to come out of the closet publicly.
I’ve seen some horrendous bi-phobia and lots of people with preferences not to play with bi guys on fab before and so noticed that some people keep it hidden.
Yeh for a community that is meant to be so welcoming and open minded, they demand everyone is labelled correctly according to their acceptance.
Maybe someone isn't sure if they are bi but is open to a threesome with a bi couple and see if they are comfortable taking things further than ever thought they would. . . . . You better have bi or bi curious on your profile or you are a liar and a time waster and we do not accept you........
Buy yeh, diversity, safe spaces, everyone has a voice and is an individual. . .. did I miss a buzzword?
But the thing is that these couples know all about those fucking chancers who will say anything to get a chance at the missus. That’s why they say if you don’t say it in the profile… feck off.
They also don’t won’t to waste an evening inviting over a guy who’s not sure.. they’ve spent two hours shaving their bits and douching and paid for a hotel… only for the guy to sit there like a frightened little boy
I’ve friends who play bi and say in pre-meet messages that the guys will give each other blow jobs to get hard before going upstairs with the wife… that gets down to the geniune ones pretty quickly "
Isn't that where the conversation before meeting comes into play? Discuss expectations and limitations since they could be different with different partners.
People can put whatever they like on their profile and can chat to/meet anyone they want to. Shaming people into using a label they might not feel they want to go public with is not it. |
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"Could be just appreciation of a nice dick pic, could also be bi or curious guys who aren’t yet ready to come out of the closet publicly.
I’ve seen some horrendous bi-phobia and lots of people with preferences not to play with bi guys on fab before and so noticed that some people keep it hidden.
Yeh for a community that is meant to be so welcoming and open minded, they demand everyone is labelled correctly according to their acceptance.
Maybe someone isn't sure if they are bi but is open to a threesome with a bi couple and see if they are comfortable taking things further than ever thought they would. . . . . You better have bi or bi curious on your profile or you are a liar and a time waster and we do not accept you........
Buy yeh, diversity, safe spaces, everyone has a voice and is an individual. . .. did I miss a buzzword?
But the thing is that these couples know all about those fucking chancers who will say anything to get a chance at the missus. That’s why they say if you don’t say it in the profile… feck off.
They also don’t won’t to waste an evening inviting over a guy who’s not sure.. they’ve spent two hours shaving their bits and douching and paid for a hotel… only for the guy to sit there like a frightened little boy
I’ve friends who play bi and say in pre-meet messages that the guys will give each other blow jobs to get hard before going upstairs with the wife… that gets down to the geniune ones pretty quickly "
Also, what if someone is top including orally? Does he have to then compromise that to prove how bi is? Not to mention it isn't just men I was commenting on. Women do the same. |
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"Could be just appreciation of a nice dick pic, could also be bi or curious guys who aren’t yet ready to come out of the closet publicly.
I’ve seen some horrendous bi-phobia and lots of people with preferences not to play with bi guys on fab before and so noticed that some people keep it hidden.
Yeh for a community that is meant to be so welcoming and open minded, they demand everyone is labelled correctly according to their acceptance.
Maybe someone isn't sure if they are bi but is open to a threesome with a bi couple and see if they are comfortable taking things further than ever thought they would. . . . . You better have bi or bi curious on your profile or you are a liar and a time waster and we do not accept you........
Buy yeh, diversity, safe spaces, everyone has a voice and is an individual. . .. did I miss a buzzword?
But the thing is that these couples know all about those fucking chancers who will say anything to get a chance at the missus. That’s why they say if you don’t say it in the profile… feck off.
They also don’t won’t to waste an evening inviting over a guy who’s not sure.. they’ve spent two hours shaving their bits and douching and paid for a hotel… only for the guy to sit there like a frightened little boy
I’ve friends who play bi and say in pre-meet messages that the guys will give each other blow jobs to get hard before going upstairs with the wife… that gets down to the geniune ones pretty quickly
Isn't that where the conversation before meeting comes into play? Discuss expectations and limitations since they could be different with different partners.
People can put whatever they like on their profile and can chat to/meet anyone they want to. Shaming people into using a label they might not feel they want to go public with is not it. "
You wouldn’t believe the messages discussing expectations, what they’re comfortable with, their experience blah blah blah… and they pitch up and then refuse to engage with the husband. Couples get so tired of single guy shit. They will literally say anything if they think they have a chance of fucking the wife. |
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"Could be just appreciation of a nice dick pic, could also be bi or curious guys who aren’t yet ready to come out of the closet publicly.
I’ve seen some horrendous bi-phobia and lots of people with preferences not to play with bi guys on fab before and so noticed that some people keep it hidden.
Yeh for a community that is meant to be so welcoming and open minded, they demand everyone is labelled correctly according to their acceptance.
Maybe someone isn't sure if they are bi but is open to a threesome with a bi couple and see if they are comfortable taking things further than ever thought they would. . . . . You better have bi or bi curious on your profile or you are a liar and a time waster and we do not accept you........
Buy yeh, diversity, safe spaces, everyone has a voice and is an individual. . .. did I miss a buzzword?
But the thing is that these couples know all about those fucking chancers who will say anything to get a chance at the missus. That’s why they say if you don’t say it in the profile… feck off.
They also don’t won’t to waste an evening inviting over a guy who’s not sure.. they’ve spent two hours shaving their bits and douching and paid for a hotel… only for the guy to sit there like a frightened little boy
I’ve friends who play bi and say in pre-meet messages that the guys will give each other blow jobs to get hard before going upstairs with the wife… that gets down to the geniune ones pretty quickly
Isn't that where the conversation before meeting comes into play? Discuss expectations and limitations since they could be different with different partners.
People can put whatever they like on their profile and can chat to/meet anyone they want to. Shaming people into using a label they might not feel they want to go public with is not it.
You wouldn’t believe the messages discussing expectations, what they’re comfortable with, their experience blah blah blah… and they pitch up and then refuse to engage with the husband. Couples get so tired of single guy shit. They will literally say anything if they think they have a chance of fucking the wife."
Having had a couples profile on here, I know form that perspective. Doesn't mean the men or women that are bi or bi curious should be forced to advertise themselves as such and have comments made about them publicly if they don't.
I'm sure a fab style no thank you is good enough for that too.
My point being, just because a man or woman doesn't have their full sexual interests or leanings in their profile, doesn't make them a liar or a time waster.
So a "straight" male profile liking another man's picture could be them showing interest privately and breaking the ice for conversation or it could be nothing at all.
Again, for a site where everyone likes to call themselves open-minded, there is a lot of judgement and public shaming that goes on. |
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"Could be just appreciation of a nice dick pic, could also be bi or curious guys who aren’t yet ready to come out of the closet publicly.
I’ve seen some horrendous bi-phobia and lots of people with preferences not to play with bi guys on fab before and so noticed that some people keep it hidden.
Yeh for a community that is meant to be so welcoming and open minded, they demand everyone is labelled correctly according to their acceptance.
Maybe someone isn't sure if they are bi but is open to a threesome with a bi couple and see if they are comfortable taking things further than ever thought they would. . . . . You better have bi or bi curious on your profile or you are a liar and a time waster and we do not accept you........
Buy yeh, diversity, safe spaces, everyone has a voice and is an individual. . .. did I miss a buzzword?
But the thing is that these couples know all about those fucking chancers who will say anything to get a chance at the missus. That’s why they say if you don’t say it in the profile… feck off.
They also don’t won’t to waste an evening inviting over a guy who’s not sure.. they’ve spent two hours shaving their bits and douching and paid for a hotel… only for the guy to sit there like a frightened little boy
I’ve friends who play bi and say in pre-meet messages that the guys will give each other blow jobs to get hard before going upstairs with the wife… that gets down to the geniune ones pretty quickly
Isn't that where the conversation before meeting comes into play? Discuss expectations and limitations since they could be different with different partners.
People can put whatever they like on their profile and can chat to/meet anyone they want to. Shaming people into using a label they might not feel they want to go public with is not it.
You wouldn’t believe the messages discussing expectations, what they’re comfortable with, their experience blah blah blah… and they pitch up and then refuse to engage with the husband. Couples get so tired of single guy shit. They will literally say anything if they think they have a chance of fucking the wife.
Having had a couples profile on here, I know form that perspective. Doesn't mean the men or women that are bi or bi curious should be forced to advertise themselves as such and have comments made about them publicly if they don't.
I'm sure a fab style no thank you is good enough for that too.
My point being, just because a man or woman doesn't have their full sexual interests or leanings in their profile, doesn't make them a liar or a time waster.
So a "straight" male profile liking another man's picture could be them showing interest privately and breaking the ice for conversation or it could be nothing at all.
Again, for a site where everyone likes to call themselves open-minded, there is a lot of judgement and public shaming that goes on. "
I hear you and yes couples and singles hedging their bets.. who don’t want the possibility of being rejected by the strictly ‘straights only’. Not wanting to declare their sexual orientation, that’s fine with me. Funny though isn’t it… it’s mostly only the guys… you don’t get many women who aren’t open and honest about their sexual orientation and the wives are always more accepting (even turned on by MM play) I don’t judge but there are bi couples I know who are clear - if you can’t embrace your sexual orientation then you’re not for us. I’ve met with many couples where the husband is ‘straight’ (Wife Bi of course) only to discover quite quickly (like walking in the door) that they’ve been fantasising about male bi play for years… |
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Maybe someone isn't sure if they are bi but is open to a threesome with a bi couple and see if they are comfortable taking things further than ever thought they would. . . . . You better have bi or bi curious on your profile or you are a liar and a time waster and we do not accept you........ "
That does sound pretty much like the definition of bi-curious to me… |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?
Just some bros supporting bros. All men like seeing decent dicks it’s ingrained into them via life time of gonzo/pov porn "
 Er, speak for yourself,
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"Just some bros supporting bros. All men like seeing decent dicks it’s ingrained into them via life time of gonzo/pov porn
This is the only answer.
Utter nonsense. Straight men couldn't give a flying feck about another man's cock, doesn't even enter his mind. And no, it doesn't mean his masculinity is fragile either. Complete shite made up by some gay/bi guys getting hard thinking of the Holy grail of seducing straight men."
Absolutely second this. 
However, they will accuse of homophobia or silly “who hurt you?” comments just for stating reality. Weird. |
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Just some bros supporting bros. "
^^^ This is it for me.
My wife's pics get way more fabs than mine, as you'd expect. It happens on here and on party/event group chats. And it happens live at clubs/parties. Women get more appreciation than men. I'm guilty of giving woman more appreciation too
Now, I used to get a bit cringy and questionable about why other guys would fab my cock pics. Why are they doing this? Does it mean they want me?
But....
Being on a telegram chat with 200+ couples and single ladies for an event we were attending made me see things quite differently. The big eye opener was that you are able to use different emojis to respond to comments and pictures. You can also write a message in response
Everyone was posting pictures and sharing good banter. When a female picture went up ppl replied with alot of hearts or fire or devil's. When a pic of a guy went up (both body andor cock only), I saw females reply with hearts, fire, dribbling mouths. But I also noted a couple of other guys replied with clapping or thumbs up. To me, that wasnt a 'wow can't wait to get my man hands on you'. It was more like a 'good on you bro - well done for sharing'. It's just bros supporting bros. There was a guy on the chat page, he was an organiser, and he was encouraging the guys to take part and it worked. It made for a great chat group. A guy would post a pic of abs, and the admin guy would say 'wow , awesome. Reminds me to go to the gym lol' . Friendly banter goes a long way
I now make a point of clapping and supporting the dudes when im on groupchats. We can be very judgey of others and ourselves, so sharing a little appreciation or compliment is an easy thing to do that can make someone's day, week, month.
Coming back to this site, Fab's are the only way we can respond to photos. It's too generic. And as such there is no way of differentiating what the sender is communicating. Was it a dribbly mouth cause they wanna chow down on your veiny visitor? Or was it just a pat on the back and a nice compliment?
Best advice, be happy you got the fab and move one. Someone liked what they saw and sent you some appreciation. We could all do with being more positive to each other and ourselves. 
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"Just some bros supporting bros. All men like seeing decent dicks it’s ingrained into them via life time of gonzo/pov porn
This is the only answer.
Utter nonsense. Straight men couldn't give a flying feck about another man's cock, doesn't even enter his mind. And no, it doesn't mean his masculinity is fragile either. Complete shite made up by some gay/bi guys getting hard thinking of the Holy grail of seducing straight men.
Ya fuckin’ liar 😂 When your mate flopped out his cock next to you at the Vault piss trough, you took a look and compared"
Nah! Didn't feel the need to, I'm comfortable in my masculinity. But you perv at the urinals if you want, though do remember, most men may take offence at some soyboy salivating beside them. |
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Just some bros supporting bros.
^^^ This is it for me.
My wife's pics get way more fabs than mine, as you'd expect. It happens on here and on party/event group chats. And it happens live at clubs/parties. Women get more appreciation than men. I'm guilty of giving woman more appreciation too
Now, I used to get a bit cringy and questionable about why other guys would fab my cock pics. Why are they doing this? Does it mean they want me?
But....
Being on a telegram chat with 200+ couples and single ladies for an event we were attending made me see things quite differently. The big eye opener was that you are able to use different emojis to respond to comments and pictures. You can also write a message in response
Everyone was posting pictures and sharing good banter. When a female picture went up ppl replied with alot of hearts or fire or devil's. When a pic of a guy went up (both body andor cock only), I saw females reply with hearts, fire, dribbling mouths. But I also noted a couple of other guys replied with clapping or thumbs up. To me, that wasnt a 'wow can't wait to get my man hands on you'. It was more like a 'good on you bro - well done for sharing'. It's just bros supporting bros. There was a guy on the chat page, he was an organiser, and he was encouraging the guys to take part and it worked. It made for a great chat group. A guy would post a pic of abs, and the admin guy would say 'wow , awesome. Reminds me to go to the gym lol' . Friendly banter goes a long way
I now make a point of clapping and supporting the dudes when im on groupchats. We can be very judgey of others and ourselves, so sharing a little appreciation or compliment is an easy thing to do that can make someone's day, week, month.
Coming back to this site, Fab's are the only way we can respond to photos. It's too generic. And as such there is no way of differentiating what the sender is communicating. Was it a dribbly mouth cause they wanna chow down on your veiny visitor? Or was it just a pat on the back and a nice compliment?
Best advice, be happy you got the fab and move one. Someone liked what they saw and sent you some appreciation. We could all do with being more positive to each other and ourselves.
Happy fabbing"
This is a fantastic point! Instead of Fabbing, the ability to add a well done sir, good job lad clapping hands or a thumbs up would be a great way to compliment without worrying about the “phwoar” connotations .
The likelihood of this becoming a site feature though…? 👌🏽, zero |
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they might not be straight xx..
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This is the only answer.
Utter nonsense. Straight men couldn't give a flying feck about another man's cock, doesn't even enter his mind. And no, it doesn't mean his masculinity is fragile either. Complete shite made up by some gay/bi guys getting hard thinking of the Holy grail of seducing straight men.
Ya fuckin’ liar 😂 When your mate flopped out his cock next to you at the Vault piss trough, you took a look and compared
Nah! Didn't feel the need to, I'm comfortable in my masculinity. But you perv at the urinals if you want, though do remember, most men may take offence at some soyboy salivating beside them."
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Reading comments here I have to say as a straight man, I will never fab a pic of a guys cock. I might stretch to fabbing a pic with a cock that’s inserted in a woman but not because I like the cock. I like women. Women only. Men that fab pics of cocks are bi curious. How can you be silently complimenting them? I can appreciate a male physic but have no interest in cocks 😂 |
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Probably the same ‘straight’ men that message asking to ‘meet now’ 🤷🏻♂️ |
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Always assume when my cock gets fabbed by someone who has also fabbed lots of pics of M they either don’t want me to feel left out or are hoping an ego boost might increase their chances of a message |
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"Always assume when my cock gets fabbed by someone who has also fabbed lots of pics of M they either don’t want me to feel left out or are hoping an ego boost might increase their chances of a message "
Cynic 🙄 |
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"Always assume when my cock gets fabbed by someone who has also fabbed lots of pics of M they either don’t want me to feel left out or are hoping an ego boost might increase their chances of a message
Cynic 🙄"
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It is not remotely a surprise. There was a documentary on George Michael, of which Reverend Richard Coles appeared. He said something I had felt true, and I wanted someone in the media to say so for years. That most men who either desire men sexually or have sex with them, are not in a same sex relationship. They are men who wives, gfs and children. Based on my life experience I 100% agree. 100%. 90% of men who contact me have 'straight' on their profile. |
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"Always assume when my cock gets fabbed by someone who has also fabbed lots of pics of M they either don’t want me to feel left out or are hoping an ego boost might increase their chances of a message "
Have also checked out your profile and fabbed both of you - both look gorgeous |
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"It is not remotely a surprise. There was a documentary on George Michael, of which Reverend Richard Coles appeared. He said something I had felt true, and I wanted someone in the media to say so for years. That most men who either desire men sexually or have sex with them, are not in a same sex relationship. They are men who wives, gfs and children. Based on my life experience I 100% agree. 100%. 90% of men who contact me have 'straight' on their profile. "
So true and then add in the fundamentalist Christians and the like, right wing conservatives raging against queer behaviour only to be revealed later to be partaking in gay sexual activity all along. The adage they protest too much is so true.. |
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"It is not remotely a surprise. There was a documentary on George Michael, of which Reverend Richard Coles appeared. He said something I had felt true, and I wanted someone in the media to say so for years. That most men who either desire men sexually or have sex with them, are not in a same sex relationship. They are men who wives, gfs and children. Based on my life experience I 100% agree. 100%. 90% of men who contact me have 'straight' on their profile. "
Think it is an aspect of this site - as has been said there seems to be a lot of prejudice against bi guys on swinging circles. I know a lot of "str8" guys on this site also have a Fab Guys account and can be more open. |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
there’s straight and then there’s fab straight
He does have a nice one though |
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"It is not remotely a surprise. There was a documentary on George Michael, of which Reverend Richard Coles appeared. He said something I had felt true, and I wanted someone in the media to say so for years. That most men who either desire men sexually or have sex with them, are not in a same sex relationship. They are men who wives, gfs and children. Based on my life experience I 100% agree. 100%. 90% of men who contact me have 'straight' on their profile.
Think it is an aspect of this site - as has been said there seems to be a lot of prejudice against bi guys on swinging circles. I know a lot of "str8" guys on this site also have a Fab Guys account and can be more open. "
Agree with you and Silver Fux. It is hardly a surprise the majority of men who have a same sex attraction still hide it. Honesty is irrelevant, the negative way they get treated is the issue. |
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To be honest we aren't really too bothered with getting fabs on pics. It's always nice to get a fab and it is a compliment, but in all honesty I'm not part of the "like" culture in general when it comes to social media. We post pics as more of an advert and to show who we are. As I said, fabs are great but I wouldn't leave fab if they stopped coming in. But I understand how people get a buzz out of it x |
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"It is not remotely a surprise. There was a documentary on George Michael, of which Reverend Richard Coles appeared. He said something I had felt true, and I wanted someone in the media to say so for years. That most men who either desire men sexually or have sex with them, are not in a same sex relationship. They are men who wives, gfs and children. Based on my life experience I 100% agree. 100%. 90% of men who contact me have 'straight' on their profile.
Think it is an aspect of this site - as has been said there seems to be a lot of prejudice against bi guys on swinging circles. I know a lot of "str8" guys on this site also have a Fab Guys account and can be more open.
Agree with you and Silver Fux. It is hardly a surprise the majority of men who have a same sex attraction still hide it. Honesty is irrelevant, the negative way they get treated is the issue."
This is so true - I always thought that it was so much easier now than when I was younger. There is more visibility and acceptance of LBGTQ and bi people generally. However in the swinger community it is much easier to be a bi woman than a bi man |
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"To be honest we aren't really too bothered with getting fabs on pics. It's always nice to get a fab and it is a compliment, but in all honesty I'm not part of the "like" culture in general when it comes to social media. We post pics as more of an advert and to show who we are. As I said, fabs are great but I wouldn't leave fab if they stopped coming in. But I understand how people get a buzz out of it x"
Don’t you back out of this you two 😂🤣 You’re the ones what started this! |
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"It is not remotely a surprise. There was a documentary on George Michael, of which Reverend Richard Coles appeared. He said something I had felt true, and I wanted someone in the media to say so for years. That most men who either desire men sexually or have sex with them, are not in a same sex relationship. They are men who wives, gfs and children. Based on my life experience I 100% agree. 100%. 90% of men who contact me have 'straight' on their profile.
Think it is an aspect of this site - as has been said there seems to be a lot of prejudice against bi guys on swinging circles. I know a lot of "str8" guys on this site also have a Fab Guys account and can be more open.
Agree with you and Silver Fux. It is hardly a surprise the majority of men who have a same sex attraction still hide it. Honesty is irrelevant, the negative way they get treated is the issue.
This is so true - I always thought that it was so much easier now than when I was younger. There is more visibility and acceptance of LBGTQ and bi people generally. However in the swinger community it is much easier to be a bi woman than a bi man"
Not wrong, looking through couples and women’s profiles it’s actually usual to find an F who is straight! |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
In my experience men like cock photos far more than women, so they Fab in appreciation. The persons sexually seems to be completely irrelevant. |
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"To be honest we aren't really too bothered with getting fabs on pics. It's always nice to get a fab and it is a compliment, but in all honesty I'm not part of the "like" culture in general when it comes to social media. We post pics as more of an advert and to show who we are. As I said, fabs are great but I wouldn't leave fab if they stopped coming in. But I understand how people get a buzz out of it x
Don’t you back out of this you two 😂🤣 You’re the ones what started this!"
Happy to chat about it of course!! I started the thread so I had something to say, but more out of not understanding. I always ask questions and encourage people to do the same in a bid to become more socialy aware. But the whole social media popularity contest vibe is quite toxic to me. I don't generally "fab" or "like" every single pic I see or find pleasing on any social media platform, it kind of waters down the point of it if you do. But thats just my opinion x |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?"
Ive just fabbed pics of you both, but then again, I'm bi |
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"Mrs here, just added some delicious pics of the Oldmans member, and straight off the bat a straight guy fabs it? Why would a straight man be fabbing my husbands cock pics? I've noticed that straight men also fab other pics of solely him too. Make it make sense people?
Ive just fabbed pics of you both, but then again, I'm bi "
If it makes you happy, fab away x |
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"I seriously doubt they are straight. If I could block all male images I would.
My husband is a but miffed by it too to be fair! He's OK to be close to another cock but wouldn't want it in his face if you k ow what I mean! He's as straight as they come. He wouldn't even do DVP with me or any other woman. Lol"
Sounds a bit over sensitive, it’s usually the ones that shout loudest that are trying to hide something tbf… |
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"I seriously doubt they are straight. If I could block all male images I would.
My husband is a but miffed by it too to be fair! He's OK to be close to another cock but wouldn't want it in his face if you k ow what I mean! He's as straight as they come. He wouldn't even do DVP with me or any other woman. Lol
Sounds a bit over sensitive, it’s usually the ones that shout loudest that are trying to hide something tbf… "
One person's ok is another person's nightmare, he is what he is. Oversensitive doesn't really come to mind when I think of my husband. But then he's an absolute legend to me so I'm biased!
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