Does anyone else get excited when their wife tells them about a colleague she fancies? She is going to try to get him to spend the night in her room at her work Christmas party? Is this a good idea? The thought of it drives us both wild. |
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"Does anyone else get excited when their wife tells them about a colleague she fancies? She is going to try to get him to spend the night in her room at her work Christmas party? Is this a good idea? The thought of it drives us both wild. "
Yes! Some experience of this and YES! |
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If he is a junior colleague don’t do it.
If he is a senior colleague don’t do it.
You can see how both could be used against your wife by others or the individual should it ever get out.
The rest is up to her and him I guess. |
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It’s a fantastic idea but in reality it doesn’t end well I started a sexual relationship with a work colleague but it very quickly became a problem and we had to stop. rumour's cause serious issues in the workplace which of course leads to someone loosing it’s just not a fair outcome for both sides |
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I agree with all the people who say nice idea but don’t go there. Offices are unforgiving places for reputations. It is also not clear if her colleague is married or not. If he is married then definitely don’t go there. |
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Personally I think the fantasy sounds great but should be left just there unless it’s something that develops naturally over time and said individual can be trusted to not blab it round the office but that’s a huge gamble and not one I’d risk taking |
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