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over a year ago
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ok were pretty new to this, had several meets with another couple, would like to meet another guy,with my partner, but im a little worried, any advice please...xxxxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just a case of picking the right person to join you for your first time, have a social see if they are right for you ? It also depends in what your looking for from the mmf? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You tried same room fun without swapping? You could find out if you comfortable having sex with another guy present the you may want to take it further? |
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over a year ago
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"aww thanks sweetheart, we have been talking for a while, and he seems lovley, but ...its my confidence..x  "
. Maybe try set some rules beforehand, just foreplay first time then take it further each time.... slowly slowly catch the monkey!  |
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It can be like all your christmas's coming at once - more hands and lips over you.
I can appreciate about the confidence thing but it won't be just you being nervous - your hubby will and so will the other guy as well.
He's probably thinking the same thing - can I get it up? Will it stay up?? will I be able to satisfy her?
In one respect, it's easier for us girlies as we can just lie back and enjoy and use lube if we need to - where as the blokes - well, they have to perform don't they.
For your confidence - what exactly are you saying you're worried about?
Mrs Scoobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can see where you are comin from! But you will love it. And if you don't want to be the centre of attention start by playing with both of them. Touching and licking their cocks and its you doing what you want
Have fun. I'm jealous love mmf and can never seem to get any organised |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yes hun hes off here, and im sure he wouldnt mind me asking addvice, he knows im nervous, and hes good to talk to,..its just me,scared, and confidence issues, im ok when its couples....oh my life what am i like..x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just me, thinking that when we meet and are in the middle of things...that i freak, im not slim, size 18, and i no hes seen our pics....god i dont no,also its kinda easy when we meet couples, as there is 4 of you,and with a single guy, were do you start....god i sound so stupid.x  |
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Don't worry about size!!!!!
Nerves is good, no need to be scared...sit him on the sofa, glass of wine, chit-chat, stroke his leg to show you're interested, then let him and hubby take over. Exciting isn't it? |
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Ok, so are you really saying that you're worried because you're a size 18 and you don't know how you're going to handle things when there is no-one else to take a bit of the heat (ie another woman?)
Then - don't worry - honestly. I am a size 18 and worry about wobbly bits etc - I just dress to cover up my worst bits and I never end up naked - the very least will be stockings/suspenders, where the belt is wide ish so covers up my tum a bit.
As for being the centre of attention - that's why he's there - he knows that it's all about you (with the added bonus for him of getting his leg over)
Just relax and think to yourself that you have two hubbies to please you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i was very nervous with my first mmf but once it all started your nerves go out the window, it was fantastic, i was totally spoiled and the centre of attention, and yes ive got lots wobbly bits too and you know what? the guys didnt seem to notice lol go for it you will love it lol x |
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Just try it......you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Why not have a secret safeword with your hubby that you will use if you really don't want to carry on so he knows that you're serious about stopping - otherwise he may just think it's nerves and you'll get over it during play.
If he's a decent guy then he would understand if you put a stop to it as it's your first time, but it won't come to that......you'll have this first experience and will then wonder what the fuss was all about.
Go for it chick....it's only sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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MMF is a good way to gain confidence, just take it slow. I remember my first time, I was terrified. I still have very low self-esteem, but it helps to make you feel amazing when there's 2 blokes having fun with you. Good luck! x |
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My first meet on here was with a MF couple and was nervous as hell. We had a good few social meets to get to know each other beforehand and then booked a hotel for the night of fun. And what fun it was, didnt know why i was nervous and loved it so much so i met them again for more fun and have done it again with others too
Just relax and go with the flow. Before you know it youll have been at it for a good few hours and wondered why u were so scared to start with |
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find your extra m and chat for a while to agree what you like. he likes and what you want and what he wants. have fun and still keep to the golden rule no means no and if its fun keep doing it xx have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"mmm, sounds silly, dont like being centre of attention....and what if i freak....silly i no..x  "
Pick someone who has met many couples on his own, tell him it might not happen if you don't feel right and let him make his choice. Some guys are very good at making you feel relaxed and at easer so take our time and pick who seems right for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well guys, im over welmed by all your support and help, and advice, but it didnt happen, he had sent a early message to say, meet tonight, i got the message 2hrs later and replyed, but hes not been on line since..ah well fate maybe.xx |
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