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Do you get nervous before a first meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you get nervous before a first meet?
I'd have to admit I do. Not enough to spoil it but I sometimes wonder if the person I am meeting will turn out to be what they portrayed themselves as. Most of the time its been fine as there has been lots of talking beforehand but a couple of times I've thought "Help, get me out of here!!"
I always like to talk on the phone quite a bit before meeting. I think the sound of someones voice tells alot...
Certainly helps me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes mate I do, but then again I'm nervous before all the meets, even if its just social. Kate is just the opposite, she's always full of the joys of spring, lol.
If it wasn't for her, I don't think I'd get a shag, lol. I'd probably run a mile if a lady approached me on my own. Don't think I could play as a single, lol. Kate's my security blanket, lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never! I never contact anyone they always contact me and the first meet is always a social one at a place of my choosing. Funny thing though I get nervous when going on a 'vanilla' date! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never! I never contact anyone they always contact me and the first meet is always a social one at a place of my choosing. Funny thing though I get nervous when going on a 'vanilla' date!"
Whats a vanilla date someone...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats a vanilla date someone...?"
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Vanilla friends = friends that are not from the swinging community.
Therefore, vanilla date = a date with a normal non-swinging person.
No doubt the others will correct me if I am wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats a vanilla date someone...?
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Vanilla friends = friends that are not from the swinging community.
Therefore, vanilla date = a date with a normal non-swinging person.
No doubt the others will correct me if I am wrong "
You're right - |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats a vanilla date someone...?
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Vanilla friends = friends that are not from the swinging community.
Therefore, vanilla date = a date with a normal non-swinging person.
No doubt the others will correct me if I am wrong
You're right - "
Does that make us swingers Neoplolitan?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really because we dont often play on first meet, unless of course there is chemistry. I always feel nervous making that first introduction phone call, which we always insist on. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Not only on a first meet! Not sure exactly what "nervous" is but that same feeling can also be excitement! So we like to think of it as just that, Excitement...
If it all became just normal, we would stop... Hence we don't meet that many times a year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get nervous when meeting people, doesn't have to be just swinging. Hence why I say on my profile that I like to chat with someone first, so I feel comfortable and a bit wiser. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ofcourse we all get nervous its natural thing i have met loads of folk from other sites an i get shivers down my spine an she could tell of the way i speak so i grab few drinks to kill the nerves an it works after that with no ease |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get nervous everytime, even when meeting people whe've played with before. Sarah however doesn't really... she's a very relaxed open person, where as I'm always keen to please as much as possible. |
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I used to get nervous but now it's more about the excitement and expectation of what is about to happen.
My first ever meet, I was so nervous I began to shake. The nerves soon faded when I got naked and down to business but i'll never forget how nervous I was and tend to bear that in mind if i'm meeting someone if they are new to swinging.
Damn watch me be nervous now for my next meet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh Yes!!!!
So nervous, as a woman we all have body insecurities....and you worry about the peeps you are meeting....
Will you click??? Like a first date everytime...
Easier tho I suppose as Rich is with me...
But yep always panicing like mad!!! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hell yeh after a few years of the dogging scene, we decided to have fun at home where you would think i would be comfortable but im always very nervous before a meet. hubby says i turn into a wee school girl giggling all the time lol |
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