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By (user no longer on site) OP 14 weeks ago
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So a couple on here is looking either for a man or woman to join them, who within the couple has the final say? And what’s usually the deciding factor? Now come on be honest. |
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From the first contact we are both vetting whoever we are thinking of meeting.
Both can say no and this goes right through to us being naked and about to jump on the bed.
We are also one of those long time married couples who are almost telepathic and don't need to say anything to let the other know things are not right and both accept each others decisions. |
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In our relationship mr goes through the hundreds of men and whittles down. Mrs then will reduce more and then we'd decide together based on what we want, where we are, when we're free etc
Not sure we have a final say, but seeing as she's the one that plays then I suppose her |
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"So a couple on here is looking either for a man or woman to join them, who within the couple has the final say? And what’s usually the deciding factor? Now come on be honest."
Great thread this OP,
I also wonder how do they filter through the ridiculous amount of spam mail they get to find a half decent message that intrigues them 🤔 |
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We tend to make decisions together, so if one is not feeling it then it's a no go.
When it comes to single guys I will always check that kim is happy to take things further.
Like a lot of couples on here we have been together a very long time,so a lot of the time nothing has to be said.
But saying that we have made mistakes and taken one for the team.but hopefully have learnt from our mistakes.thats not to say we still won't make more mistakes.
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Essentially we both have to agree with single women and couples but the guys are Henriette’s decision on attraction.
We insist on a social drink first just to be sure everyone is on the same page but to be honest we’ll have already done enough research to be fairly confident we wanna get naked with them before even arranging a social. |
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"So a couple on here is looking either for a man or woman to join them, who within the couple has the final say? And what’s usually the deciding factor? Now come on be honest.
Great thread this OP,
I also wonder how do they filter through the ridiculous amount of spam mail they get to find a half decent message that intrigues them 🤔 "
As with a large number of couples, Mr is the filter, which single guys should bear in mind when they send a message. If it doesn't impress Mr it'll never find it's way to Mrs. ..... |
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"So a couple on here is looking either for a man or woman to join them, who within the couple has the final say? And what’s usually the deciding factor? Now come on be honest.
Great thread this OP,
I also wonder how do they filter through the ridiculous amount of spam mail they get to find a half decent message that intrigues them 🤔
As with a large number of couples, Mr is the filter, which single guys should bear in mind when they send a message. If it doesn't impress Mr it'll never find it's way to Mrs. ....."
Please tell your wife I love the pics. |
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By *rindnbump V2Couple 14 weeks ago
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"From the first contact we are both vetting whoever we are thinking of meeting.
Both can say no and this goes right through to us being naked and about to jump on the bed.
We are also one of those long time married couples who are almost telepathic and don't need to say anything to let the other know things are not right and both accept each others decisions. "
This 
I (Grind) am the one usually picking up and sending messages, but we both have to want to meet someone for it to happen  |
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By *rindnbump V2Couple 14 weeks ago
Our little world of Kinky Fuckery in Durham |
"Essentially we both have to agree with single women and couples but the guys are Henriette’s decision on attraction.
We insist on a social drink first just to be sure everyone is on the same page but to be honest we’ll have already done enough research to be fairly confident we wanna get naked with them before even arranging a social."
We do our research, but there has been times we have turned up for a social and known within minutes nothing was going to become of it |
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We approach this as an equitable partnership. Neither of us holds any more weight than the other in terms of final decision making. Ultimately if one of us says no, then it's a no for both, which we are more than happy about.
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