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By *andSxx OP Couple 16 weeks ago
Birmingham |
All men like if you can do the deep throat.They think it's easy to do, but it's not. After all, gagging like a reflex can prevent you from doing it.
Can you do it?
If so, how did you learn it?
What position is best to do this?
(mrs)
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The less curve to your throat the better, so positions where your head is looking up from your body tend to work better, ones where you're folded up with your head pointing down mean longer ones have awkward angles 💜 |
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"My gag reflex is terrible 😅
I do make up for it with enthusiasm though. I'd say I've never had any complaints, but it's an unwise man who adds criticism to a bj  "
Especially criticism during the act.... pretty brave man to complain with teeth in close proximity to the wedding tackle! |
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"All men like if you can do the deep throat.They think it's easy to do, but it's not. After all, gagging like a reflex can prevent you from doing it.
Can you do it?
If so, how did you learn it?
What position is best to do this?
(mrs)
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As a cock owning human I can 100% say being deepthroated does fuck all for me other than make me laugh at the ridiculous noises the sucker makes.
Fir me just suck the bell/ balls and I am golden |
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I've done the over the side of the bed but enjoy the kneeling in front of him more, as I've got total free movement and flexibility. As with we exercise, always warm up your tissues first (body, not the Kleenex type), as this increases flexibility and blood supply. So start slowly and practice does make perfect . Keep sucking lots of cock. Visualisation can help too - if you see the cock fully balls deep down your throat. On a roll, it's like a gentle, sexually charged yoga session  . Change body positions, to your tastes, including having him lie flat and you lowering your head.
It's become second nature to me and I assume many others. |
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Practice, practice, practice..
There are various techniques that can help from position to squeezing thumbs to breathing at the right time etc etc.
Alot of it is rhythm. Think of it as swallowing something small. How does the body breathe when you swallow, what does your throat do when you swallow.
Once you figure out the rhythm. You can swallow an item and keep it down and in position for a good while.
If a dildo is around 5/6 inch's. You could in theory use it as a gag (breathing through your nose) while the dildo is set deep inside.
Very erotic and horny.
There is a gag called the devil's finger. That's a challenge to have on. Test the best of deep throat specialists.
More you practice the less the gag reflex takes effect.
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I’ve found being on top in 69 lets the cock slide down my throat easier
Also laying on a bed with head tilted off the edge opens my throat nicely for a deep face fucking
Also helps if you really enjoy seeing a guys face when you swallow his whole length |
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I wouldn't say I'm a huge fan of receiving deep throat. Don't get me wrong it feels great but to be honest I prefer the exact opposite with more focus on the tip and my head. However Mrs PF does like to give DT and loves the choking feeling it gives her and her go to position for this is with her head hanging off the side of the bed and pulls me by my hips however deep she wants me to go at the time |
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I've given the advice before with very little notice. But I listened to a sex podcast In which it suggested improving your gag reflex by holding your toothbrush down for a few seconds every morning as far back on your tongue as you can manage. In time you should be able to hold the toothbrush down on your tongue further and further back.
Everyone else suggests choking on dick or toys until things get better but the toothbrush thing has worked for me and it's a lot less undignified. |
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All men like if you can do the deep throat.They think it's easy to do, but it's not. After all, gagging like a reflex can prevent you from doing it.
Can you do it?
If so, how did you learn it?
What position is best to do this?
(Mrs)
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One of my poly partners is a masseur. he relaxes all my....muscles and it goes in surprisingly well! 
Seriously, relax your mouth and jaw. He has massaged my mouth, throat and jaw before with his fingers...obviously he's a trained professional....But I also find that having multiple orgasms before also relaxes my jaw and throat.
Not all men like deep throat...they like to look at it in porn but when it actually comes to real life..they find it more tricky...
A fellow pill cho-ker.. I agree with practice. |
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"Mind over matter is how I learnt to do it, learning that panic makes the gag reflex worse and just breathing through the nose amd relaxing into it x "
Yeah definitely don't panic...I'm a swimmer and must do mindful breathing because of the neurodivergent brain. so remembering those breathing techniques help.
It helps if I'm familiar with the cock and the person it's attached to.
I would find it hard to deep-throat someone that I don't have a prior connection to and sense of trust with.
It's easier with my regular partners. I'm less likely to panic with them...but...there's always a random out of the blue trigger lying in wait in my brain.. Another reason why I prefer regular partners because they are aware of the possibility of triggers/overstimulation during sex. If they panic, I will definitely panic more.
I've got a dodgy left knee so got to be innovative here.
Experiment, explore and practice and relax...the whole point of "fun" |
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