As a guy, I find it a bit odd,
I seem to get hit on more when I wear my wedding ring, but the Mrs gets hit on less or doesn't matter to an approaching guy in a bar (stag,vixen relationship).
Now because of my work I can't wear my ring during the working day, but pop it back on at weekends and out for meals n drinks.
Mrs. says she thinks women can chat to married man with more confidence,there not as needy or after a relationship straightaway. Also, if married, at least one other woman thinks you're great.
I wonder if it's a challenge thing or trying the less obtainable?
Thoughts please,
please not a moral barage of the wrongs and rights of being married, and just chatting  |
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Hello, Mrs here....
Also hoping for non-judgment, as I also have a solo profile on here and one of my stipulations is that I'll only meet with attached men, only because it's preferable for me in terms of discretion. I've been accused of being a home-wrecker before but that isn't the aim at all. Married men in general seem to have more responsibilities, and seem to have their sh*t together - in reality it may or may not be the case, but that, for me at least, is the attraction. |
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Fair play my Mrs when playing solo as feels there's less drama, so yes got there sht together makes sense.
But when she does meet solo the guy often can't understand she is playing with permission (not that it's needed). So usually she has to pretend she is cheating too lol |
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"Hello, Mrs here....
Also hoping for non-judgment, as I also have a solo profile on here and one of my stipulations is that I'll only meet with attached men, only because it's preferable for me in terms of discretion. I've been accused of being a home-wrecker before but that isn't the aim at all. Married men in general seem to have more responsibilities, and seem to have their sh*t together - in reality it may or may not be the case, but that, for me at least, is the attraction. "
For a sex site there are some very judgemental people here! I agree with your reasoning, I'm attracted to married women for the same reasons. The French have a much more relaxed view of it all. |
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Yes agree 100%
It is a swingers site so married or not added pleasure into relationships is the point in my eyes but, also I can understand others point of view on cheating.
In my own relationship I think I would be upset if my wife for example was disrespectful to our relationship in some way, but as we both have such freedom within our relationship that wouldn't happen.
So yes I get it but this is or should be a fun sex swinging site and all respect eachothers boundaries and positions.
Mind you ours have moved quite a bit from when we both started.
I remember at one point us agreeing no anal with our FWB and to keep it for just us, hmmmm both on our next plays did lol caught up in the passion |
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"As a guy, I find it a bit odd,
I seem to get hit on more when I wear my wedding ring, but the Mrs gets hit on less or doesn't matter to an approaching guy in a bar (stag,vixen relationship).
Now because of my work I can't wear my ring during the working day, but pop it back on at weekends and out for meals n drinks.
Mrs. says she thinks women can chat to married man with more confidence,there not as needy or after a relationship straightaway. Also, if married, at least one other woman thinks you're great.
I wonder if it's a challenge thing or trying the less obtainable?
Thoughts please,
please not a moral barage of the wrongs and rights of being married, and just chatting "
I found that in my previous relationship when I was married guys found it a turn on that I was married.. I never removed my wedding ring... Saying that my infidelity was the cause of my marriage break up but hey if it was perfect I wouldn't have looked elsewhere.. Now happy in a perfect relationship so it was meant to be.. |
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"Hello, Mrs here....
Also hoping for non-judgment, as I also have a solo profile on here and one of my stipulations is that I'll only meet with attached men, only because it's preferable for me in terms of discretion. I've been accused of being a home-wrecker before but that isn't the aim at all. Married men in general seem to have more responsibilities, and seem to have their sh*t together - in reality it may or may not be the case, but that, for me at least, is the attraction. "
We like the thrill of mrs playing with married men but ultimately we find these are the biggest time wasters which leads to cancelled meets and frustration
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"Hello, Mrs here....
Also hoping for non-judgment, as I also have a solo profile on here and one of my stipulations is that I'll only meet with attached men, only because it's preferable for me in terms of discretion. I've been accused of being a home-wrecker before but that isn't the aim at all. Married men in general seem to have more responsibilities, and seem to have their sh*t together - in reality it may or may not be the case, but that, for me at least, is the attraction.
We like the thrill of mrs playing with married men but ultimately we find these are the biggest time wasters which leads to cancelled meets and frustration
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I haven't found this to be the case when meeting solo, but then again, I expect plans to change and for a little flexibility when meeting with someone who's attached. It's just the nature of things. I'm not always available either so yes, there's usually a small amount of frustration on either side, but generally, for me at least, it's worked out very well. |
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As always communication is the key, plus if both lots are local it shouldn't be a big problem,
But I spose I'm saying that from my perspective when I can just say to the Mrs I'm out tomorrow night, when you out next?
Type relaxed fun. |
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By *linky1Couple 15 weeks ago
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We do not seek out married men.
But we are aware that many of the so called single guys we have met could be.
We can only be honest with each other and have no control over other peoples honesty. |
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Also hoping for non-judgment, as I also have a solo profile on here and one of my stipulations is that I'll only meet with attached men, only because it's preferable for me in terms of discretion. I've been accused of being a home-wrecker before but that isn't the aim at all. Married men in general seem to have more responsibilities, and seem to have their sh*t together - in reality it may or may not be the case, but that, for me at least, is the attraction. "
Good luck with experiencing no judgement. On here? |
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People think I am playing away as I have a ring I have on a chain…and I can’t accommodate
I keep it on chain, as I can’t type with it on and it’s my 18th birthday present
I can’t accomplish due to looking after parents |
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