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Woman, let me pick ur brain on this
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By (user no longer on site) OP 15 weeks ago
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I’ve seen plenty of profiles that have included the likes of “if your taken and on here without missus knowing do no contact me “ but have also seen “married men more then welcome” etc
My question to you is ! Do you like married/taken men, if so what is it that makes you attracted to them.
Also be free to tell us about past experiences positive/negative. |
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I have zero interest in anyone that’s cheating either a man or woman. Appreciate when people are honest so others can decide on that. Bit more difficult in a club setting as you’d never really know unless someone is honest. |
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Not for me OP.
Screaming wife and mother in law on my doorstep after I'd been seeing someone for a whole year with no clue at all they even existed didn't bring me joy.
And if someone is lying to the person they supposedly care about and chose to build a whole life with just to get their dick wet, how can I as just a fuck job on the side expect them to tell me the things I should know if it would mean they didn't get laid?
I'll pass on that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 15 weeks ago
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Very true way of looking at it. Definitely needs to be told to the person if someone is cheating so they can make a decision on their own ! Just trying to see everyone perspective |
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By *enatton2Couple 15 weeks ago
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I don’t think you could ever truly know if someone is attached or not, some guys genuinely don’t want to accom, I know we don’t play at home, so that’s no proof they’re actually attached.
We have just decided that it’s something that they have to deal with doing. We rarely meet a second time anyway and contact details are rarely exchanged, so chances of issues down the line are small. We don’t ask questions, we meet, play and wave goodbye.
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I'd never knowingly meet married or attached men, here on the sly.
The reason is, years ago when single, I met a man, not from here and we started seeing each other.
He'd told me he was single, no. Kids.
A few months in, I woke up to loads of missed calls on my mobile. It turns out he was attached and his partner had found my number from a text on his phone.
I rang her back, at first she didn't believe that I didn't know he was attached, but when I explained there were none of the signs and he'd claimed to be single, she came round.
She was so upset, it was horrible. He still tried to lie about it all, to us both and manipulate us.
I'd never want to cause someone else that pain, by intentionally meeting someone cheating.
As my story shows people get complacent and their partners do find out.
If they're not honest about being in a relationship, innocent people can then get dragged into all the drama. |
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Is it really worth the drama though, come on? I understand there's excitement behind it all. To those especially who choose married or taken men/women. But what happens in the long run? It's all fun and games until someone isn't laughing no more, then the tears start rolling. I don't condone cheating I'd like to hope a lot of you don't. I suppose if all parties agree then it's all well and good the main thing is being honest with yourself and your partner. |
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We make it very clear we're married on our solo accounts.
We actually refer to our couples account in those occasions if people want confirmation.
I (cherry) always look for married men (whose partner is aware) and tend to avoid single men.
It always just seems to work better with married / people in relationships.
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