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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do any clubs hold nights for us younger people only? I'd love to go to a club but a 50+ guy seeing me fucking would turn me straight of and I wouldn't like to hide in a dark room.

**I'm not trying to offend***

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many clubs have private play rooms which would eliminate this.

The clubs we've been too all have a mixture of ages and we've never heard of any age specific nights.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On this I am not sure but I do believe last week or the week before the Townhouse in the Wirral had an under 35's night. Not sure if this was a one off or gonna be a regular thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bit far but I'm sure club f do a night just for younger people. Think it's on a week night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The one in Gloucester does - but to be blunt I've seen extremely attractive 50+ year olds, and some really minging 20 year olds. If you choose to play somewhere in public inevitably there will be those you find attractive, and those you don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The one in Gloucester does - but to be blunt I've seen extremely attractive 50+ year olds, and some really minging 20 year olds. If you choose to play somewhere in public inevitably there will be those you find attractive, and those you don't."

I don't think it's really the looks its more the thought that they are the same age as your parents. Same as some people in there 50-60's think its weird as they have kids in there 20's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x"

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's really the looks its more the thought that they are the same age as your parents. Same as some people in there 50-60's think its weird as they have kids in there 20's"

I've never ever thought about either my parents, or my children while having sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x"

And you don't have to be either, you have your preferences just like everyone else and nothing wrong with that at all.

Hope you find somewhere that suits

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one."

I wouldn't just go have sex with somebody because they young?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Xtasia do nights for the younger swinger. Might be worth checking out their website.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one.

I wouldn't just go have sex with somebody because they young? "

I'm sure you wouldn't - but you were talking about who might be watching. I'm just saying that an age limit won't alter the yuck factor of who might be watching.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one."

And isn't it good to be able to make that choice. The OP chooses not to go for older men and shouldn't be made to feel awkward for it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's really the looks its more the thought that they are the same age as your parents. Same as some people in there 50-60's think its weird as they have kids in there 20's"

I get that completely. I couldn't have sex with a guy the same age as my children and the thought of people young enough to be my children seeing me have sex puts me off too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one.

And isn't it good to be able to make that choice. The OP chooses not to go for older men and shouldn't be made to feel awkward for it!"

*sigh* yes - nobody suggested she should fuck people of all ages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one.

And isn't it good to be able to make that choice. The OP chooses not to go for older men and shouldn't be made to feel awkward for it!

*sigh* yes - nobody suggested she should fuck people of all ages

Maybe not, but I just don't get it when people feel compelled to question other people's preferences. We all have them and they deserve to be respected even if they don't match our own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one.

And isn't it good to be able to make that choice. The OP chooses not to go for older men and shouldn't be made to feel awkward for it!

*sigh* yes - nobody suggested she should fuck people of all ages

Maybe not, but I just don't get it when people feel compelled to question other people's preferences. We all have them and they deserve to be respected even if they don't match our own

It's a forum - you know for debate and discussion. She said she'd feel turned off at a +50 watching her in a club, I made the point that a youth only night wouldn't guarantee she'd be turned on by every person watching.

I didn't criticise her preferences. Is that ok?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's really the looks its more the thought that they are the same age as your parents. Same as some people in there 50-60's think its weird as they have kids in there 20's

I get that completely. I couldn't have sex with a guy the same age as my children and the thought of people young enough to be my children seeing me have sex puts me off too

But you could a woman

No! Men or women the same age as my children doesn't do it for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What is it with the forums on here at the mo? Somebody asks something and everybody pounces on them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's really the looks its more the thought that they are the same age as your parents. Same as some people in there 50-60's think its weird as they have kids in there 20's

I get that completely. I couldn't have sex with a guy the same age as my children and the thought of people young enough to be my children seeing me have sex puts me off too

But you could a woman

No! Men or women the same age as my children doesn't do it for me

Dee Dee sorry i retracted it, i misread your post, i humbally apologise xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is it with the forums on here at the mo? Somebody asks something and everybody pounces on them? "

You get crankier as you get older

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is it with the forums on here at the mo? Somebody asks something and everybody pounces on them? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one.

And isn't it good to be able to make that choice. The OP chooses not to go for older men and shouldn't be made to feel awkward for it!

*sigh* yes - nobody suggested she should fuck people of all ages

Maybe not, but I just don't get it when people feel compelled to question other people's preferences. We all have them and they deserve to be respected even if they don't match our own

I didn't criticise her preferences. Is that ok?"

The OP asked if anyone knew of any clubs that held nights for younger people. The fact that she also stated her reasons is irrelevant IMO. I'm sure she's fully aware that younger doesn't necessarily mean gorgeous, but it's still her preference. discussion is one thing, but why not keep it to the question asked instead of trying to dissect her preferences???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's really the looks its more the thought that they are the same age as your parents. Same as some people in there 50-60's think its weird as they have kids in there 20's

I get that completely. I couldn't have sex with a guy the same age as my children and the thought of people young enough to be my children seeing me have sex puts me off too

But you could a woman

No! Men or women the same age as my children doesn't do it for me

Dee Dee sorry i retracted it, i misread your post, i humbally apologise xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do any clubs hold nights for us younger people only? I'd love to go to a club but a 50+ guy seeing me fucking would turn me straight of and I wouldn't like to hide in a dark room.

**I'm not trying to offend***"

Far as we know, there is nothing regular - so we would also like to know of anything on this subject too.

FYI - Liberty Elite are holding a 1 off Under 35's night soon - sadly we cant go

Perhaps you would be better off looking for a young group to hold or that holds private parties.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's really the looks its more the thought that they are the same age as your parents. Same as some people in there 50-60's think its weird as they have kids in there 20's

I've never ever thought about either my parents, or my children while having sex

There's always some smart arse who likes to try and twist what is said. You knew what was meant by it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is it with the forums on here at the mo? Somebody asks something and everybody pounces on them?

You get crankier as you get older

Or some people can't accept the fact we're all different and should be respected as such

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one.

And isn't it good to be able to make that choice. The OP chooses not to go for older men and shouldn't be made to feel awkward for it!

*sigh* yes - nobody suggested she should fuck people of all ages

Maybe not, but I just don't get it when people feel compelled to question other people's preferences. We all have them and they deserve to be respected even if they don't match our own

I didn't criticise her preferences. Is that ok?

To be clear..

It is a forum - you don't want responses, don't ask questions.

I have attended both kinds of nights, therefore felt qualified to give the benefit of my experience.

I did not criticise her choice of who to have sex with - we have age ranges too.

Your input however is tedious in the extreme, because rather than allow for a discussion relevant to the original post you have seized on one particular part of a discussion, twisted it out of context and used it, presumably to alleviate your own boredom by instigating an argument.

Now ask yourself 'why not keep it to the question asked', along with why not read the actual comments in context, and why not focus on your own contributions rather than an incorrect analysis of others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's really the looks its more the thought that they are the same age as your parents. Same as some people in there 50-60's think its weird as they have kids in there 20's

I've never ever thought about either my parents, or my children while having sex

There's always some smart arse who likes to try and twist what is said. You knew what was meant by it"

Yes I did - it was intended as a light hearted jest, not an actual accusation that you were doing it!

I'm now going to tiptoe out of here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one.

And isn't it good to be able to make that choice. The OP chooses not to go for older men and shouldn't be made to feel awkward for it!

*sigh* yes - nobody suggested she should fuck people of all ages

Maybe not, but I just don't get it when people feel compelled to question other people's preferences. We all have them and they deserve to be respected even if they don't match our own

I didn't criticise her preferences. Is that ok?

To be clear..

It is a forum - you don't want responses, don't ask questions.

I have attended both kinds of nights, therefore felt qualified to give the benefit of my experience.

I did not criticise her choice of who to have sex with - we have age ranges too.

I'm sorry but to be totally honest I did feel like you was trying to shoot me down?!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks all, I'm not saying all over 50's are ugly/old ect, it's just I'm not into mature men x

Neither am I, but I'd take an attractive man/woman of any age over an ugly one.

And isn't it good to be able to make that choice. The OP chooses not to go for older men and shouldn't be made to feel awkward for it!

*sigh* yes - nobody suggested she should fuck people of all ages

Maybe not, but I just don't get it when people feel compelled to question other people's preferences. We all have them and they deserve to be respected even if they don't match our own

I didn't criticise her preferences. Is that ok?

To be clear..

It is a forum - you don't want responses, don't ask questions.

I have attended both kinds of nights, therefore felt qualified to give the benefit of my experience.

I did not criticise her choice of who to have sex with - we have age ranges too.

Still won't get away from the fact that you are very rude and antagonistic. Petty personal remarks are also not called for. But on forums like this there are always people like you who think you know better and also feel compelled to find a minor excuse to pull a person to pieces. no wonder new people don't feel comfortable enough to post. We'll done!

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"What is it with the forums on here at the mo? Somebody asks something and everybody pounces on them? "

Ignore them....

Some have mentioned a few clubs....Check them out...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Still won't get away from the fact that you are very rude and antagonistic. Petty personal remarks are also not called for.

Is that ironic?

Please read the posts - they're still there, they haven't changed.

I don't see anything personal, or unpleasant until you commented and picked apart a comment of mine in a way it was never intended to be.

I think you're right that somebody seemingly felt compelled to find a minor excuse to pull somebody to pieces!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's really the looks its more the thought that they are the same age as your parents. Same as some people in there 50-60's think its weird as they have kids in there 20's

I've never ever thought about either my parents, or my children while having sex

There's always some smart arse who likes to try and twist what is said. You knew what was meant by it

Yes I did - it was intended as a light hearted jest, not an actual accusation that you were doing it!

I'm now going to tiptoe out of here.. "

Light hearted jest? Or bitchy comment? I think the smiley dictates the answer to that!

I think you should practice what you preach and read all the comments again! The OP has even said she feels you were trying to shoot her down! Do you get a Kick out of it??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do any clubs hold nights for us younger people only? I'd love to go to a club but a 50+ guy seeing me fucking would turn me straight of and I wouldn't like to hide in a dark room.

**I'm not trying to offend***"

I'm 47.... so am gonna knock one out as you play

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you should practice what you preach and read all the comments again! The OP has even said she feels you were trying to shoot her down! Do you get a Kick out of it??"

Fair enough - I apologise for a poor choice of smiley

I apologise to naughty that my comments clearly weren't helpful. They sincerely were not meant as criticism of her personal choices, they were as previously said, with reference to my experiences.

I have read the comments again. Yours were not very nice and I find that a bit sad. But now I'm over it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is it with the forums on here at the mo? Somebody asks something and everybody pounces on them? "

Hence I deleted my comment 'sigh'

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

And time to leave it there

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