"So who's going to fess up about not reading a profile before they send a message? "
If the profile is too long and or nagging I stop reading. But I won't message either.
However, if it's a local profile and they asked question in the status or something, I may message answering/replying to that. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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I always read them & if there’s something relevant in the profile I’ll refer to it in the message, just so they know I’ve read it.
I don’t often send messages now though |
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I always read a profile or certainly scan through it.
Obviously look for ‘not looking for single guys’ as one does not want to antagonise or waste anyone’s time.
Do find profiles that are overly long, and stipulate terms and conditions, a bit tedious and a deterrent in wanting to connect with people… but maybe that is the idea?
Maybe Fab should have a couple of more free field sections that have different headings so everything becomes less monolithic? |
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"So who's going to fess up about not reading a profile before they send a message? "
Me.
But only because I already spoke with the person or persons at the club. I gave up messaging people on here a while ago when I did read em. |
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Sometimes sent a wink before reading but not instigated a message without, although have been messaged and engaged with conversation without properly checking profile, normally do that when it's a couple for some reason |
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The amount of times during a conversation we get asked “what are you looking for” or “what are you into” is mind boggling 🤣
Most frustrating is that they see the male in a cage and automatically assume we’re a cuck couple 🤬 |
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men seem to think the more messages you send the better chance you have of getting a response and maybe a meet , where as if you actually read the profile and took the time to see what the lady or couplee wanted and reapnd accordingly you would probably get more responses
dont forget you are the spare person trying to make an impresion but most are bad
the amount of straight guys that comtact us thinking becauce we like roleplaying therfore i must be a wimp is unbelievable, |
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I had been told by a couple they had to message 100 women just to get 1 response so they wouldn't read them, this after they sulked because I didn't meet men & wasn't interested in him, if only they'd read the 1st line. 😂 |
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We genuinely always do. 100%
Well I say we, it's muggins here who actually does it haha
Not reading the profile to me is a wasted investment of time. The profile will often give indication of whether any response is a non-starter, so why not save the bother. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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I think you should have to scroll to the bottom of someone's profile before you can message or wink them it may incline some people to read the profile.
We actually included a line about blocking people who message and clearly haven't read our profile.
Thing is some of these people seem nice based on what I read but I have to block them as if they can't take 2 minutes to read and adhere to our profile how can I trust them in a sexual situation. |
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