Personally all our experiences with couples have been positive, though we only play a few times a year. We're picky who we choose to connect with. If we meet and feel a good vibe from both of the couple and the feeling is mutual, that's when we'll make some great memories 😊 |
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Couples always have a lovely feeling to it......it would always be our preference, it's just ridiculously hard to find.
Mr has had a couple of nice meets with single ladies, but a woman with single men, it just isn't the same. |
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I'm half a couple and we've met a few lovely couples.
It's very hard though, getting the attraction between 4 people.
To be honest we've had more success meeting couples, looking for the same as us (straight swap)at clubs and socials.
Be clear in what you're expecting and looking for, have a social meet first and make sure there's mutual attraction and that you're all wanting similar things.
Set boundaries and stick to them and enjoy it.
It's great when it all aligns and you meet a couple with a similar mindset. |
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"Our concern was it would turn more separate and be a case of two two’s instead of group fun. "
Just be clear when speaking to couples that you're not looking for a partner swap, that you want everyone to play together.
I'm sure theres lots of couples looking for the same.
You could always try a club too. |
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"Our concern was it would turn more separate and be a case of two two’s instead of group fun. "
Be clear on what you’re looking for when you meet with people, don’t deviate from that. We find two 2’s on the same bed is as good as a 4 as we both enjoy watching each other while playing |
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"Our concern was it would turn more separate and be a case of two two’s instead of group fun. "
That's what we thought swinging was about before going to clubs, but it doesn't have to be. Many couples are happy with lots of FF play and playing as a group. |
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"Our concern was it would turn more separate and be a case of two two’s instead of group fun. "
That's never really been the case with us thankfully, the only two two's have been while us ladies play and the guys sit with a beer, chat and enjoy watching the fun together.
Once all involved then we make sure to connect with each other throughout the play and make sure everyone has a great time. Meeting other couples is our favourite scenario followed by single bi females.  xx |
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"Our concern was it would turn more separate and be a case of two two’s instead of group fun. "
We can say from the couples we have played with that separate room fun has never been on the table and it is one of our limits, its always been about 4 people enjoying it together. We have never found this to be ignored, disrespected or even talked about separate play. |
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