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Does anyone else feel they absolutely need a connection before doing anything further?
I love sex, that's why we're all here, right? But i find that my mind has to be stimulated to enjoy anything further. That connection is really needed.
Whereas lots of people, especially at clubs, seem to be able to go from 0 to 100, with seemingly no connection whatsoever.
At times I envy that ability to switch their mind off and enjoy completely animalistic fun. It sounds amazing.
Does anyone else need that extra connection though? It's probably a very busy/anxious/adhd filled brain for me.
Anyway, I'm based in the north west, would be good to meet others with a similar mindset. |
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By *oxy jWoman 10 weeks ago
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its good to be you its good not to want to fuck anything stick to your guns people will take notice and like that you are yourself ... one of the biggest things couples and women dont like is those who will indeed fuck anything do anything anywhere ...
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We're not performing monkey's
We like a social as our thinking has always been that you've all got to get on , if you're gonna get it on
Yes we've been from social to play in minutes , so to speak
But there's got to be something there
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"Yep, mental connection is essential. Like to be able to chat before, during and after activities. Being able to connect and share heightens the sexual feelings. The mind is the biggest sex organ "
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