"Someone who is committed to the cause and willing to enter into such a relationship/frienship"
That doesn't really answer the question.
Maybe you should go to a local munch and try your luck there |
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"Someone who is committed to the cause and willing to enter into such a relationship/frienship
That doesn't really answer the question.
Maybe you should go to a local munch and try your luck there "
Well thank you for your fab advice 🙄 |
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"Someone who is committed to the cause and willing to enter into such a relationship/frienship
That doesn't really answer the question.
Maybe you should go to a local munch and try your luck there
Well thank you for your fab advice 🙄"
Despite the rolling eye emoji it’s great advice.
Whilst you you say you have met one here before it is in some ways quite niche that anyone is here looking for that commitment and ultimate connection with someone.
That said it does exist. But to what level only time will tell |
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"Someone who is committed to the cause and willing to enter into such a relationship/frienship
That doesn't really answer the question.
Maybe you should go to a local munch and try your luck there
Well thank you for your fab advice 🙄"
A munch is a bdsm social which would not only get you on the scene locally but would also give you the chance to meet someone sub whilst expanding your knowledge from being able to chat to Doms/Dommes who have years of experience.
So I will stand by the advice, get to a munch or swamp and go from there. |
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"Someone who is committed to the cause and willing to enter into such a relationship/frienship"
What cause?
What relationship or friendship?
I've been on the kink scene for decades now. No two dynamics look the same. |
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"Someone who is committed to the cause and willing to enter into such a relationship/frienship
That doesn't really answer the question.
Maybe you should go to a local munch and try your luck there
Well thank you for your fab advice 🙄
Lol my apologies i have never heard of the mentioned terminology.
I met a younger lady who was on here a while ago and after chatting for a while she said how submissive she was and it was her fantasy to be given instructions and tasks to carry out, must say this was a total turn on for both of us and pushed many boundaries.
I am by no means experienced at this but just wanted peoples thoughts.
A munch is a bdsm social which would not only get you on the scene locally but would also give you the chance to meet someone sub whilst expanding your knowledge from being able to chat to Doms/Dommes who have years of experience.
So I will stand by the advice, get to a munch or swamp and go from there. "
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"Someone who is committed to the cause and willing to enter into such a relationship/frienship
That doesn't really answer the question.
Maybe you should go to a local munch and try your luck there
Well thank you for your fab advice 🙄"
That’s really rude.
Despite the question being asked of you, you haven’t actually told us what you want - what kind of domination, whether it’s 24/7 or roleplay, what limits and expectations you have. So it sounds like you don’t know much about BDSM and a munch would be a great place for to you learn as well as meet potential friends and partners |
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"Lol my apologies i have never heard of the mentioned terminology.
I met a younger lady who was on here a while ago and after chatting for a while she said how submissive she was and it was her fantasy to be given instructions and tasks to carry out, must say this was a total turn on for both of us and pushed many boundaries.
I am by no means experienced at this but just wanted peoples thoughts."
And that's your entire experience and definition of a genuine fem sub? |
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"Lol my apologies i have never heard of the mentioned terminology.
I met a younger lady who was on here a while ago and after chatting for a while she said how submissive she was and it was her fantasy to be given instructions and tasks to carry out, must say this was a total turn on for both of us and pushed many boundaries.
I am by no means experienced at this but just wanted peoples thoughts.
And that's your entire experience and definition of a genuine fem sub?"
And did you meet them face to face and not just online? |
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"Wishful thinking i suppose but maybe a lady who is interested
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Interested in what?
I am sure you can work it out"
In someone with one experience of someone taking instructions and now thinks anyone who doesn't do it that way isn't a genuine sub? |
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You’ve had some great advice.
You admit you’re inexperienced.
For me any D/s starts and ends in the head a long time before it could potentially get to anything physical
I have seen more mental damage caused by inexperienced Dom(mes) and subs than I have physical
Attend the munches. Learn and keep learning. There are some great educational websites.
But more importantly it takes time and huge communication skills |
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"Do they still exist on fab?
I was lucky enough to be involved in a dom/sub relationship a couple of years back an wow it was amazing!"
I heard they died off in the great dildo wars of '88. An ancient prophecy, passed down from generation to generation, suggests the birth of the new super sub in 1000 years.
Sorry you will miss it OP. Sad times....  |
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"Wow you really like shooting people down"
I mean.
I asked what you meant by cause and relationship, because the way it was phrased raised a few flags.
You'd already been given the munch advice. Which is really the only advice for people who want to be involved in the scene and don't know where to start. And the response to that was outright rude.
Unless your idea of helpful is immediately getting flaps akimbo and awaiting instruction I don't know what you're expecting. |
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"Wow
Outright rude, i did apologise when it was explained and the the person gave some informative advice but obviously you just trawl through the forums trying to belittle people"
It's unfortunate that you feel attacked by someone asking for clarity and the giving their interpretation when told you're sure they can work it out.
Good luck OP. |
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By *essTTWoman 11 weeks ago
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"Do they still exist on fab?
I was lucky enough to be involved in a dom/sub relationship a couple of years back an wow it was amazing!"
Yea they do
However most male 'doms' expect to meet someone and straight away enter a dom/sub relationship with no intention of getting to know each other and building that trust beforehand.
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I think there is a difference between a "sex sub", "a bottom", " a sub" and "property".
The looking starts with knowing yourself, and whether you are looking for a "Dom", Domme" or "submissive" etc. Being able to express precisely what are you looking for in a relationship, and what you can you offer, is key if you want a relationship with experienced people. If a Dominant is looking for someone who is not experienced and or does not know better, some may say that it says something about the Dominant.
Everyone is entitled to their own view. But as an alternative and in my view and experience the mantra that the "mind is key' depends on what the sub requires to submit. For me, the subs I have interacted with want a Dominant that can deliver a particular physical experience, on top of the desired vanilla relationship and both are combined with D/s attributes to the relationship.
However I accept other people have different experiences as different submissives require different kinds of dominance. But I am not fond of many of the mantras that abound in BDSM. |
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"Of course i totally understand that, it takes ages to build up a trust and getting to know each other its certainly not done overnight."
Build up trust to do what?
Have you examined your own motivations for wanting a compliant woman ? |
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