Hi,
I was wondering if anyone has ever been to a sex party rather than a club? Is it more safer? Always wanted to go to one but I’m really nervous going to a sex party, I go to a swingers club in Runcorn though.
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"Hi,
I was wondering if anyone has ever been to a sex party rather than a club? Is it more safer? Always wanted to go to one but I’m really nervous going to a sex party, I go to a swingers club in Runcorn though.
G'day OP,
I'm not sure what you mean by safer?
House parties I've attended have been awesome fun.
Really cool people and no pressure to join in.
I'd go to one every week if I could,😁
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Yeah, been to few house parties (all pre lockdown).
On the upside you get less people but everyone tends to talk to each other. It's also usually a guestlist and people go to ge naked so if everyone is there still at strip down time, things happen. Compared to a club its a plus "if" the club is busy and you don't know anyone...and obviously no expectations should be had at a club (which applies to parties as well but not to the same level).
On the downside, people can flake on parties quite easily (and often did). It could have been planned as a gender balanced 20 person party but ended up being just 10 and 7 of those are men which put pressure on the women. Once walked away from a party with my wife because that happened. Wasn't the hosts fault but was awkward.
Same thing could happen at the club but walking out the door at a club is just a different thing...or you can stay purely in a social capacity. Less expectations on you so to speak.
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It's something I've never fancied, the reason being,I've seen it said, that there's an expectation that people will all play.
I wouldn't like that feeling, if there's nobody I'm attracted to, I wouldn't be doing anything.
My other half has been to a couple and they did all play with each other. He's into group fun etc and I'm not.
I've been to clubs, but never felt any pressure to do anything or to play if I didn't want to.
I guess it depends what you're looking for op.
In clubs you tend to have staff who will look out for people, plus show you round etc.
It's a bit like a bar where you can socialise with different people too and hopefully click with someone. |
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I was wondering if anyone has ever been to a sex party rather than a club? Is it more safer? Always wanted to go to one but I’m really nervous going to a sex party, I go to a swingers club in Runcorn though.
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Theres a big difference between sex parties and swingers parties
Sex parties have paid girls present to ensure that all the guys are 'entertained' - so sex is basically guaranteed (which is why the admission fee is usually so much higher)
Swingers parties are where people go who have no expectations and sex is certainly NEVER guaranteed |
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