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Coming across someone you know.
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Have you ever seen or been seen by someone you know in real life on here? I kind of want to experience that but keep it discreet I wouldn’t mind getting blocked but at least finding out someone I know is on here but definitely don’t want that to go off here. |
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When me and my wife signed up on another sight she spotted someone she knew well within 5 mins. They’d blurred their faces out but she recognised the holiday snaps and bikini from what they’d shared on Facebook. She compared them to show me and she was right! She never mentioned it though, we like our discretion so respected theirs. |
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"I’ve seen a couple of people on here I recognise.
Not had anyone say they recognise me.
I’ve bunked into a couple of people in clubs - it’s never been an issue. "
*Bumped. Did bunk down with one though 😉 |
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"I’ve seen a couple of people on here I recognise.
Not had anyone say they recognise me.
I’ve bunked into a couple of people in clubs - it’s never been an issue. "
I feel like bumping into someone in a club would be better than on here. |
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Was chatting to a female who was part of a couple. Was sat at work one afternoon exchanging messages when we agreed to share face pics only to recognise she was a colleague in my office. We literally both look up a smiled at each other before a little chuckle and drop our heads back to our phones to chat more  |
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Oh my goodness this actually happened unexpectedly just before lockdown in a random unplanned meet in a public lay-by at night,
I was fully dressed en femme as well and even more spooky was I was 2 hrs from home but I knew the mans voice as soon as he spoke, but he didn’t recognise me as it was dark.
It’s was a amazing experience, I’ll tell more if I get chance |
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"Was chatting to a female who was part of a couple. Was sat at work one afternoon exchanging messages when we agreed to share face pics only to recognise she was a colleague in my office. We literally both look up a smiled at each other before a little chuckle and drop our heads back to our phones to chat more "
If this is real that’s literally a fantastic story  |
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Yup, I got stalked by my ex boss mate, it was scary. He came to my workplace for coffee but wanted more. I said hell no as it was too close to home and he was married. We've had a few ppl message us that knows my partner lol.. I am sure there are more lurking and watching  |
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By *im28Man 17 weeks ago
loughborough |
I’ve found some family members, colleagues and clients. What happens on fab stays on fab. Spoke to a few on here but only ever spoke about it away from fab if we’ve ended up meeting for fun |
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One of my customers is on here with his stunning girlfriend, they are both bi and I’d love to play with them both, but they are only looking for couples.
I’ve dropped a few hints that I’m on here to him but no luck lol.
There’s also a bloke who drinks down my local that’s on here too. He’s been blocked as he has a habit of gossiping and I keep my bi-curious status quiet except to very good friends. |
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Saw a couple of women from my local gym on here ,I didn't say anything to them not the time or place tbh.
I also saw my girlfriends ex fwb walking out of the gym showers once she did say he had a huge cock and she wasn't lying either  |
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"About a year ago I found pics of a family friends daughter (early 20s). I chatted for a while with the guy posting her. He was her bf. I kept the pics!"
Did she know her photos were being used? It smacks of creepy to keep them, especially if she was unaware. |
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"About a year ago I found pics of a family friends daughter (early 20s). I chatted for a while with the guy posting her. He was her bf. I kept the pics!
Did she know her photos were being used? It smacks of creepy to keep them, especially if she was unaware. "
Very much creepy!!!  |
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We’ve had someone we know from school message us on here and with a face pic, told him we knew him but obviously would be discreet about it all, and couldn’t play or chat because of it. Wished him well and that was it, no harm done |
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Both had cousins message us and one even sent a dick pic. He’s married with kids
Mr’s friend is on here with his wife and they message us all the time but they don’t know it’s us.
Few school friends and people from work. Joys of living in the highlands I guess x |
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"Both had cousins message us and one even sent a dick pic. He’s married with kids
Mr’s friend is on here with his wife and they message us all the time but they don’t know it’s us.
Few school friends and people from work. Joys of living in the highlands I guess x"
How are people seeing so many others who they know lol maybe smaller places so you remember faces. |
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My old barber messaged me one Sunday afternoon saying that he'd seen our profile. He then insinuated that because he knew, he got to play with us.
Another time, someone found us by going through our housing developments Facebook group of about 300 people. He must have compared our photos. He messaged us with our real names and said he now walks his dog near our house.
Pretty crazy |
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"My old barber messaged me one Sunday afternoon saying that he'd seen our profile. He then insinuated that because he knew, he got to play with us.
Another time, someone found us by going through our housing developments Facebook group of about 300 people. He must have compared our photos. He messaged us with our real names and said he now walks his dog near our house.
Pretty crazy "
This is enough to put us off |
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I've seen a few people on here i know, doesn't bother me , obviously had a good look! We are all here for same thing, if we are all serious and sensible about swinging then it shouldn't be a problem.
Likewise if someone recognised us it wouldn't be a problem |
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"I've seen a few people on here i know, doesn't bother me , obviously had a good look! We are all here for same thing, if we are all serious and sensible about swinging then it shouldn't be a problem.
Likewise if someone recognised us it wouldn't be a problem"
That’s the way I see it too, If they see me on here well they’re on here too  they would be way more understanding and shouldn’t care than if it was someone off here and that’s how I think too. Might spy on some of their pictures or message them to say hi but that’s about it unless they want to take it further lol. But haven’t been in that situation yet. |
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"Not on here but we are on another site where taz has been recognised "
I tried to message you to ask about the site but I can’t. I don’t want to promote other sites in the forums just in case it’s against the rules and it doesn’t relate to this forum but I’ve found it hard finding other legitimate sites like fab? |
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"I've seen a few people on here i know, doesn't bother me , obviously had a good look! We are all here for same thing, if we are all serious and sensible about swinging then it shouldn't be a problem.
Likewise if someone recognised us it wouldn't be a problem
That’s the way I see it too, If they see me on here well they’re on here too they would be way more understanding and shouldn’t care than if it was someone off here and that’s how I think too. Might spy on some of their pictures or message them to say hi but that’s about it unless they want to take it further lol. But haven’t been in that situation yet."
Exactly - it’s liberating when you all realise there’s no shame |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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I have come across my sisters ex which was very awkward, also me and the wife were in a club and a guy who has a unit next to our work walked in with his misses which was also very awkward 😬 |
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Been spotted at work by fellow fabbers they never said anything in person as im working but they often messege me on fab its fun trying to remember who ive seen or spoke to during work fron fab lol |
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A couple of single guys in work have looked at our profile and winked at us. They don’t know it’s us as our pics are faceless, it’s fun talking to them and thinking “you’ve seen everything we’ve got” |
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There is a few people on here that are very near, I wouldn’t know them as I can’t see them, but I’m sure they know me when I’m out and about as my face although no oil painting, is clear on here, the way I look at it is, if they can see me, they’re also on this website, so what? |
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"Have you ever seen or been seen by someone you know in real life on here? I kind of want to experience that but keep it discreet I wouldn’t mind getting blocked but at least finding out someone I know is on here but definitely don’t want that to go off here. "
yeah had an old work friends message and ask are yiu such and such.
I use to post face pics often but stopped when I moved to a new job. |
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Yes! Was chatting to a couple on here for a while and when it came time to swap face pics, dilf had known the male half for 20 odd years. Bit of an awkward one at first but no problem really as long as it stays between us all |
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By *oobaaMan 16 weeks ago
South Shields |
Bumped into my ex boss in a club. She was with her husband.
I was working the bar and she came over and had to do a double take on me when she realised it was me...we had a good mature chat though.
And no I didnt
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Never seen anyone on here that I know.
But was at a bi event a few years ago & saw my ex boss from a few weeks before.
He clocked me & he disappeared!
Never seen him since despite him only living 5 miles away. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Seen two people who I went to school with on here, one female and one male and also two work colleagues.
Also came across a girl I used to speak to ages ago who messaged me going "I'm sure I know you..." |
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By *aytie0Woman 16 weeks ago
Seaham |
"Saw my friends husband on here. Very difficult dilemma deciding whether to tell her or not x and did you? X"
No, I did give him a gentle telling off but he didn’t take any notice so I just left it. Do often feel like I’m being a bad friend though x |
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My partner former colleague said he was into the swinging scene with his wife, and we had a small laugh about it, as they are very odd people and we didn't see them getting many offers.
Four years later, I join Fab, and recognise his username. Deeply deeply regret opening the pictures. Blocked his profile and their couple profile before they could find me. |
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There's a couple on here that go to the same gym as me. We've exchanged the occasional hello and good morning there but nothing more but having seen their pics and vids I struggle to control my cock whenever I see them |
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By *ettpairCouple 16 weeks ago
Kettering |
We've recognised several guys & couples from our past and one or two that we know now.... wouldn't say anything though unless they message....if anyone has recognised us they haven't said ...don't think it would bother us too much if they did |
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