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Do you judge differently.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and no!
I'm not looking to date and can't see that changing!
But back in the day i'd be looking for similar personalities to those I look to meet now, as well as the same kind of physical attraction. However, these days the things that would need to be more compatible long term are way less important or irrelevant!
As many encounters will be short term with no guarantee of repeat meets - i'm not at all concerned with aspects such as personal opinions re politics, education standards,employment status, family circumstances (i.e. kids, home life, accomodation status etc.), long term life plans and sporting affiliations (yes, a Red that will get jiggy with Chelsea fans and if push came to shove - would even get naked with a City fan! lol).
So yes some factors haven't changed - others really don't matter!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't date, I have no interest in a relationship but if I was yes, who I look towards for dating would be totally different to who I would look for for dating
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well unlike most on here I am looking to date ( not nessercerely a guy off here )
SWINGING = fit boby , nice looking cock , able to hold a con and not to pushy
DATE= well educationed , ambission , own home and car , good looking and kind |
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I do actually look for many of the same qualities as the attraction has to be there
I prefer regular than one offs too so there has to be enough there for us both to want a repeat performance
If however he mentioned the dreaded 'R' word, I am outta there..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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honestly? no in either respect i look for someone im attracted to and can get along with in either situation and as a result have made a few friends on the site. im not looking for a relationship but i don't just have sex with anyone there has to be something there that interests me the same as when im dating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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thats one of the things I always expect that can shoot people down, regarding preferences..
lets take the guy who is on a dating site and on here, he isnt interested in dating the person from the dating site, but when he finds the person on here he would fuck them...
I still cant see what the issue would be, there are plenty of people I find sexy and great fun..but I dont think I'd want anything more than sexual encounters with
perhaps people should be clear and honest, about differentiating ways of dating vs swinging vs swingdating
*the preferences are as simple as mindset,age,sex,race..and looks in respect of all types of interpersonal relationships
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you're looking to play with as opposed to date someone?
We have the same standards for both. Must be clean well dressed , and fuck like rabbits
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a couple that dates?-are u polygamists? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you're looking to play with as opposed to date someone?"
Think if I were dating I'd look for similar things, but maybe just more so. Like the ability to hold a conversation...if I were dating someone that would need to last longer than a few texts and the occasional shag! Plus as you dated someone you'd find out more about what you had in common whereas on a meet you're not necessarily going to be discussing favourite holiday destinations and plans for the future, but common interests will come up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i look for the same in both....complete honesty, mutual respect and attraction!! 
I don't date obviously but if I did my answer would be as above  "
to be honest I don't think looks are as important when in a relationship, when meeting on here I go for looks first as its just lust, shag and go, but if I was looking for a relationship, someone I was going to spend the rest of my life with personality would come before looks, I would sooner have someone who treat me right but wasn't so good looking, love over looks what someone looks like, lust does not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i look for the same in both....complete honesty, mutual respect and attraction!!
I don't date obviously but if I did my answer would be as above
to be honest I don't think looks are as important when in a relationship, when meeting on here I go for looks first as its just lust, shag and go, but if I was looking for a relationship, someone I was going to spend the rest of my life with personality would come before looks, I would sooner have someone who treat me right but wasn't so good looking, love over looks what someone looks like, lust does not"
I'm stunning on the inside and out, I can shag or make love winkwink  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"When you're looking to play with as opposed to date someone?"
I'm not looking to date but if I was, then yes.
Would be more important that we had some common interests (other than sex lol) and shared similar long term plans etc. |
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