Communication is key. We started our alternative lifestyle in the traditional way as a couple playing as a couple. We have recently ventured out solo. This took some time for me to get my head round not being acyively involved on her play with others but we talk endlessly now. Talk through the issues, open and honest, brutally honest on occasion but it is cathartic and ive changed my aspect on how i view our telationship and marraige. Im open to a dm if you want to chat. |
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As others have said communication is the foundation to build a successful enm relationship but both sides have to be equally interested in pursuing it. If there is any doubts it's not worth it. Self confidence helps alot too, stops anyone feeling like they aren't enough and gives the ability t see it for what it is. An extension or addition and not replacement |
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"As others have said communication is the foundation to build a successful enm relationship but both sides have to be equally interested in pursuing it. If there is any doubts it's not worth it. Self confidence helps alot too, stops anyone feeling like they aren't enough and gives the ability t see it for what it is. An extension or addition and not replacement "
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