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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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I’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy and I have a couple of questions for people that had one. Does your libido change in any way? And have you noticed any change or color or texture of your sperm? Thanks! |
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I didnt experience any change in libido. The procedure snips the tubes the facilitate the movement of sperm apart from thatthe testicles are pretty much left alone. It does not stop the production of ejaculate, might recuce the quantity. |
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No change in libido, it is ‘uncomfortable’ during the procedure but it is only short lived. Sometimes it looks clearer, but not reduced in the amount.
Only do it if you are choosing never to have kids, otherwise there are no downside post the operation  |
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"Made no difference at all and bear in mind it's a simple procedure and no worse than having a tooth filled. "
Except there's a surgeon playing with your balls, which is a slightly different dynamic. I found it an uncomfortable experience personally, but not too bad. The benefits definitely make it worthwhile! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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Thank you everyone for replying! I am very tempted to have it done, but I’m still gathering facts before I make the final decision.
What sort of discomfort have you experienced during the procedure? Was it pin or something else? I don’t mind the pain |
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"Thank you everyone for replying! I am very tempted to have it done, but I’m still gathering facts before I make the final decision.
What sort of discomfort have you experienced during the procedure? Was it pin or something else? I don’t mind the pain"
Done under local anaesthetic and all you will feel is a little tugging as they cut and seal the vas deferens.
If you do have it done and change your mind about kids after, you can have a reversal which is a bigger procedure carried out under general anaesthetic and can be successful, as it was for me. |
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"It didn't change anything for me too - in fact, it makes it easier to go bareback if that is what you want."
Vasectomy or not, bareback still carries the risk of STIs. It isn’t just pregnancy that is the risk. |
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"I’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy and I have a couple of questions for people that had one. Does your libido change in any way? And have you noticed any change or color or texture of your sperm? Thanks! "
It didn't affect my libido but it certainly made a difference to the viscosity of my ejaculations. There's no sperm swimming around so it's more watery. I found that women who said they don't swallow were more inclined to do so. Easier to ingest I guess 🤷🏾♂️ |
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I have found that actually cumming is not as intense. I miss the volume I was a heavy cummer so the orgasm doesn't feel as physical or intense.
Actually having the snip wasn't too painful just very embarrassing, the wife of one of the guys I played football with was the nurse and yes she did recognise me unfortunately. |
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Except there's a surgeon playing with your balls, which is a slightly different dynamic. I found it an uncomfortable experience personally, but not too bad. The benefits definitely make it worthwhile!"
Surgeon playing with my balls? *runs to Mars*  |
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Got the snip, 2 paracetamol, wait 20 minutes and drove 2 hours to get home.
Didn't need anything else except slack pants for a day.
My libido wasn't affected at all. I ejaculate about half the volume I used to but that's no problem, probably a bonus for some ladies. Not everyone wants gallons of spunk to clean up. |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babies"
what if they change their mind down the road ? |
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By *essTTWoman 17 weeks ago
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?"
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. "
sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao |
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By *essTTWoman 17 weeks ago
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao "
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it"
No I would never put myself through all that n am not worried I just made a statement n you replied it's public and I never called them crazy I said it's a crazy world |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it"
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads. |
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By *essTTWoman 17 weeks ago
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads."
Oh yes I know
It's disgusting
My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.
I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children  |
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By *loydyMan 17 weeks ago
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"I’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy and I have a couple of questions for people that had one. Does your libido change in any way? And have you noticed any change or color or texture of your sperm? Thanks! "
nothing changes apart from your balls aching for a couple of days
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By *loydyMan 17 weeks ago
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"Thank you everyone for replying! I am very tempted to have it done, but I’m still gathering facts before I make the final decision.
What sort of discomfort have you experienced during the procedure? Was it pin or something else? I don’t mind the pain"
I was fishing the next day |
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"I’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy and I have a couple of questions for people that had one. Does your libido change in any way? And have you noticed any change or color or texture of your sperm? Thanks! "
My libido got better; the relaxed sex knowing that an unwanted pregnancy is not going to happen. The seminal fluids were exactly as before. Fantastic. |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.
Oh yes I know
It's disgusting
My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.
I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children "
I keep forgetting you have a high amount of melanin 🙂 |
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By *vaRose43Woman 17 weeks ago
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Husband sat next to me so I’m replying in his words
The procedure itself was quick and mostly painless. The local anaesthetic stings like a bitch but there was no pain during the operation, just some tugging. Afterwards a mild ache that paracetamol dealt with.
His was a slightly more complicated recovery as the stitches they used popped on the second day… had to be glued under a fresh local anaesthetic and a course of antibiotics. No big deal though and despite some aching discomfort for about 3 days afterwards he was fine and dandy. Nothing that a couple of cocodamol couldn’t deal with.
There was no change to his libido or his load, nor any change to how an orgasm felt. Wishes he had had it sooner.
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There's loads of information about the procedure on the NHS websites and tells you everything you need without some of the dubious anecdotal evidence some people seem to be providing here!
One thing I do share with my friends though is that they do warn you that for a very small number of people 1%, they can suffer long term sometimes permanent pain after. I had quite a long recovery, firstly for a few weeks it felt a bit like I'd been kicked in the balls, this carried on for around a year but gradually getting better and better and now I have no pain at all. However some people need to have it reversed as the only cure to this pain
It's always best to discuss with the doctor during consultations |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads."
and which culture is that ? |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.
Oh yes I know
It's disgusting
My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.
I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children "
you calling ur own father disgusting for donating his sperm and u telling me don't call people crazy wtf
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.
and which culture is that ?"
Black/African culture. |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.
and which culture is that ?
Black/African culture."
That's not my culture am black African u just put 54 country in Africa +carribean n other blacks in one basket n say its their culture that's quite ignorant if u ask me specially if u are black
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By *essTTWoman 17 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.
Oh yes I know
It's disgusting
My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.
I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children you calling ur own father disgusting for donating his sperm and u telling me don't call people crazy wtf
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A man cheating on his wife and producing 2 kids outside of his marriage and not having any input/looking after those 2 children, is disgusting.
Anyway
Let's stay on topic shall we |
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Be careful what you wish for.
Drs won’t tell you this
Got to laugh. My Dr told me no change would occur. Some years later My dog had the procedure. I was told by the Vet”your dog will put weight on become grumpy and their hair will change” all of which did happen. And all of the same happened to me over time Wish the Dr had told me that.
On a positive note. I was divorced and back on the market and found the ladies love the fact it’s ‘safe’ and whilst no change in libido. I do find that the reduced level of testosterone has an effect. Now that could be natural aging but for me it has meant going from Alpha male totally hetero to being much more open minded bi curious and explorative of other options.
So think carefully like all things it is not without short term pain and long term change |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.
Oh yes I know
It's disgusting
My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.
I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children you calling ur own father disgusting for donating his sperm and u telling me don't call people crazy wtf
A man cheating on his wife and producing 2 kids outside of his marriage and not having any input/looking after those 2 children, is disgusting.
Anyway
Let's stay on topic shall we "
u said he was a donor now u saying he was a cheater damn and maybe ur mum wasn't giving him good kids or maybe he just loves blessing women who wanted children sure he thought about it if u not planning having kids don't worry about it
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By *essTTWoman 17 weeks ago
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.
Oh yes I know
It's disgusting
My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.
I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children you calling ur own father disgusting for donating his sperm and u telling me don't call people crazy wtf
A man cheating on his wife and producing 2 kids outside of his marriage and not having any input/looking after those 2 children, is disgusting.
Anyway
Let's stay on topic shall we u said he was a donor now u saying he was a cheater damn and maybe ur mum wasn't giving him good kids or maybe he just loves blessing women who wanted children sure he thought about it if u not planning having kids don't worry about it
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Clearly reading and understanding isn't your strong point.
Never mind maybe it will get better when you get older. Have a good day |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.
Oh yes I know
It's disgusting
My 'father' (sperm donor) has 2 children the exact same age as me, one of then with his wife who he married waaayyyy before him and my mum met.
I'm a product of it that's why I enjoy seeing such threads of men being responsible and not producing any unwanted children you calling ur own father disgusting for donating his sperm and u telling me don't call people crazy wtf
A man cheating on his wife and producing 2 kids outside of his marriage and not having any input/looking after those 2 children, is disgusting.
Anyway
Let's stay on topic shall we u said he was a donor now u saying he was a cheater damn and maybe ur mum wasn't giving him good kids or maybe he just loves blessing women who wanted children sure he thought about it if u not planning having kids don't worry about it
Clearly reading and understanding isn't your strong point.
Never mind maybe it will get better when you get older. Have a good day "
u not a good lier maybe u will get better when in the nursing home I guess good day |
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"Thank you everyone for replying! I am very tempted to have it done, but I’m still gathering facts before I make the final decision.
What sort of discomfort have you experienced during the procedure? Was it pin or something else? I don’t mind the painI was fishing the next day "
Mate of my hubby played half a charity football match the next day (was only a fun game but even so! ) also no change to any concerns when hubby had his done  |
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"Be careful what you wish for.
Drs won’t tell you this
Got to laugh. My Dr told me no change would occur. Some years later My dog had the procedure. I was told by the Vet”your dog will put weight on become grumpy and their hair will change” all of which did happen. And all of the same happened to me over time Wish the Dr had told me that.
On a positive note. I was divorced and back on the market and found the ladies love the fact it’s ‘safe’ and whilst no change in libido. I do find that the reduced level of testosterone has an effect. Now that could be natural aging but for me it has meant going from Alpha male totally hetero to being much more open minded bi curious and explorative of other options.
So think carefully like all things it is not without short term pain and long term change "
Drs won't mention it because Vasectomies don't affect testosterone levels, this has been studied and is well evidenced.
Usually dogs are castrated specifically because this does reduces testosterone which will bring benefits to their behaviour and not given vasectomies which do not lower testosterone levels and simply stop sperm from being released.
There is some evidence to suggest in some people that testosterone is reduced in the first three months due to the reduction in blood flow but levels normalize after this time.
A vasectomy cuts the tube for the sperm which results in the sperm being absorbed back into the body. This process is what happens naturally when someone doesn't ejaculate. And is why these guys aren't walking around with a wheelbarrow everywhere they go. |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Nothing crazy about people taking action to prevent unwanted babieswhat if they change their mind down the road ?
I'm sure the men getting thus done have thought thoroughly enough about it to know if they want (more) children or not, plus in most cases it can be reversed. sure but there is no guarantee tho then what trip to the bank lmao
If you're not considering having one then I wouldn't worry about it.
But let's not call adults being responsible "crazy" just because you don't understand it
It's a cultural thing. Some of my 'brothers' measure their masculinity/virility by the amount of children they can father. Being responsible doesn't enter their heads.
and which culture is that ?
Black/African culture.
That's not my culture am black African u just put 54 country in Africa +carribean n other blacks in one basket n say its their culture that's quite ignorant if u ask me specially if u are black
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Yeah, I said "Some of my 'brothers'...", not all. And your attitude just cements what I'm saying.
Do all black folk have to think the same way btw? |
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world "
Personally, I figured given that we don't want more children, that it wasn't just my wife's job to worry about both of our fertility whilst also exposing herself to dangerous contraceptives that can ruin her hormonal cycle and put her at risk of various cancers and other problems. When I could go for a 10-20 minute procedure (and get 2 weeks off work paid for my troubles when really, i needed a solid 24 hours), just under a local anesthetic... the benefits outweighs the negatives.
It's a form of contraception, it's not a sign of a "crazy world". You could also argue that chainsaws being used to cut down trees is a sign of that given they were originally invented to help during child birth. We've moved on. |
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Definitely do it. You wont regret it.
I had mine when me and my ex decided no more kids which was 15 years ago and absolutely no change in libido or amount of cum only change was i could cum in her without risk of pregnancy which is a bonus. And I find women i meet now im single are very receptive to it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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Libido is exactly the same and I've not noticed any change to colour, texture, viscosity, etc.
15 mins is all it takes and the pain is relatively low for such a delicate area.
One thing I will say is, be prepared for the pain to linger longer than expected. Got mine done 4 weeks ago and I'm still getting sporadic teste pain: nothing severe but it's just occasionally... there. |
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By *SCouple81Couple 17 weeks ago
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No change as such but first few orgasms after it healed were amazing  We were using condoms for years and having sex with Mrs without them is awesome. Of course still using them with others. |
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By *essTTWoman 17 weeks ago
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"60 years ago this was a punishment for criminals n others now people are doing it willingly what a crazy world
Personally, I figured given that we don't want more children, that it wasn't just my wife's job to worry about both of our fertility whilst also exposing herself to dangerous contraceptives that can ruin her hormonal cycle and put her at risk of various cancers and other problems. When I could go for a 10-20 minute procedure (and get 2 weeks off work paid for my troubles when really, i needed a solid 24 hours), just under a local anesthetic... the benefits outweighs the negatives.
It's a form of contraception, it's not a sign of a "crazy world". You could also argue that chainsaws being used to cut down trees is a sign of that given they were originally invented to help during child birth. We've moved on. "
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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"I’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy and I have a couple of questions for people that had one. Does your libido change in any way? And have you noticed any change or color or texture of your sperm? Thanks! "
After a short period of recovery I've noticed no change in either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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"Here is the link to that part
https://www.nhs.uk/contraception/methods-of-contraception/vasectomy-male-sterilisation/complications/"
Thank you and thanks everyone for your contributions! |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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No change in either, the only side effect I have is every few months or so, I get an achey left ball for a few days! On these days I just wear more supportive underwear |
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I've never felt my orgasmns are as strong as before, still came with the same amount. More women I met allowed bareback knowing I'd had the snip, also more were willing to allow me too cum in their mouths. Which outweighed the slightly less enjoyable ejaculations. |
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By *ot manMan 12 weeks ago
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"Have made first contact with the gp about getting this done. Would be great for my for my wife to have the option to come off birth control. "
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Top tips are:
* Buy tightish fitting underpants for afterwards so they support your ballsack not letting them dangle
* Get someone to drive you home. I drove home myself, wasn't a good experience!
Some people say the op itself isn't painful, I found it very uncomfortable but definitely worth it, and noticed no difference to libido etc afterwards. |
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