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What are some of your boundaries or rules?
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By *oxy jWoman 25 weeks ago
somerset |
ive never got this kissing is intimate yet fucking is not ?? ..
we have a few rules in place and they do change sometimes when we first started 30++ years ago we had loads not so many now we put more into selection making sure the men and women we meet really are what we want rules will always be laid out in messaging but as always it depends on who we are meeting ... ie no anal on first meet and properly not until we've met 4 or 5 times same goes for other sexual acts first timers dont get what regulars get as trust is built not given...
main rule is both must like and that can be anything from person / sexual act and so on if one does not like it goes no further lucky for me hes not a no person so most is down to me ... in all the years we've been cuckolding and on the scene hes only ever said no to 2 people one guy one woman it was a hunch and it turnned out to be right ... even with cuckolding nothing is more important than us and i do mean nothing |
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Although we haven't been in the lifestyle long we've already broken several of the boundaries/rules that we initially set such as no kissing, don't give out true names, don't give out phone numbers, don't keep in touch or meet again - all broken already lol.
The main ones we will always keep are that we both have to feel comfortable to play, we only play together and always in the same room (leaving neither of us on the subs bench). We have others such as anal is only for us, as is bareback. And we are always must be truthful with each other about how we feel. |
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"I am curious what other couples have as boundaries and or rules for swinging. For example, I will only kiss my husband, as we see this as a sensual intimate act."
I think this is an understandable rule. |
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By *ezandCCouple 25 weeks ago
Telford |
Kez only has one boundary with a lady, she can kiss them but she doesn’t want me to, that only applies to the face so she would create the more intimate experience whilst I was kissing everywhere else. other than that no other boundaries for a single lady.
With couples, she doesn’t want any interaction with another man, so men watch or own partner play. |
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Not sure any more exactly what our boundaries are with any great precision. We have already agreed then broken them.
I guess the only one would be that we don’t meet anyone on our own. I think the understanding we have arrived at is that we can handle seeing the other doing pretty much anything with anyone but sneaking off for secret meets would destroy the trust. |
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Our rule is that pretty much everything either of us want to do is on the table as long as it’s discussed first. Communication is the key. It sounds boring but it leads to some very hot conversations and experiences. |
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"Our rule is that pretty much everything either of us want to do is on the table as long as it’s discussed first. Communication is the key. It sounds boring but it leads to some very hot conversations and experiences."
Pretty much this. Either we both agree or we dont do it. Its ruled some stuff out, but opened the door to other things. |
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A little rule we stick to is we would rather go home wishing we had done something rather than wishing we hadn't, there's always another time at the end of the day 😁 and talk openly and honestly before and after anything 😁 |
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No set rules apart from playing ‘straight’. I would struggle to get excited for a meet that didn’t involve kissing.
Also prefer bareback but have respected wishes or just decided we weren’t compatible before the meet. |
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