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By *ea monkey OP Man 13 weeks ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I’m just having a conversation with a partner about adding couples or thirds and talking through the best way for us to do that.
Through my experience on here, I’ve found that different couples and dynamics lend themselves to differing ways of meeting others, so I’m wondering as to how you folks approach or like to be approached? |
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I suppose the 1st step is a couples profile.
I prefer to meet people at the organised socials I need more than online conversation to find someone attractive I need a face and the person.
Having said that we've met some great people here.
Mrs |
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As a man on here I don't get approached very often, but there's basically 2 types. Someone saying they like my profile, or someone asking if I wanna see their wife on telegram/kik/type...one approach is better than the other  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"I suppose the 1st step is a couples profile.
I prefer to meet people at the organised socials I need more than online conversation to find someone attractive I need a face and the person.
Having said that we've met some great people here.
Mrs "
Is a couples profile essential? We’re in a romantic relationship with our own solo profiles |
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"I suppose the 1st step is a couples profile.
I prefer to meet people at the organised socials I need more than online conversation to find someone attractive I need a face and the person.
Having said that we've met some great people here.
Mrs
Is a couples profile essential? We’re in a romantic relationship with our own solo profiles "
100%. We would avoid if approached and presume that it's not legit. Sure some won't but that's the way we do it. |
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"I suppose the 1st step is a couples profile.
I prefer to meet people at the organised socials I need more than online conversation to find someone attractive I need a face and the person.
Having said that we've met some great people here.
Mrs
Is a couples profile essential? We’re in a romantic relationship with our own solo profiles
100%. We would avoid if approached and presume that it's not legit. Sure some won't but that's the way we do it. "
I hate to be cynical, but I’m quite sure it’s easy to set up a joint account even if single person…
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By *ea monkey OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"I suppose the 1st step is a couples profile.
I prefer to meet people at the organised socials I need more than online conversation to find someone attractive I need a face and the person.
Having said that we've met some great people here.
Mrs
Is a couples profile essential? We’re in a romantic relationship with our own solo profiles
100%. We would avoid if approached and presume that it's not legit. Sure some won't but that's the way we do it. "
I guess in terms of solely fab based interactions, that would potentially cut down on the time wasters. In clubs or at socials it makes absolutely no difference.
A couples profile doesn’t really indicate anything.
I’m poly and have 2 romantic relationships where we swing. If I had a separate profile for every dynamic, I’d never keep up! 😂 |
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By *ea monkey OP Man 13 weeks ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"We're at this stage, loads of communication needed and we do our meets at clubs. If it doesn't work out it's not going to be a wasted effort because you're still at a club."
That seems to be the direction and thoughts that we’re heading towards |
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"I suppose the 1st step is a couples profile.
I prefer to meet people at the organised socials I need more than online conversation to find someone attractive I need a face and the person.
Having said that we've met some great people here.
Mrs
Is a couples profile essential? We’re in a romantic relationship with our own solo profiles
100%. We would avoid if approached and presume that it's not legit. Sure some won't but that's the way we do it.
I hate to be cynical, but I’m quite sure it’s easy to set up a joint account even if single person…
Ella"
True, but not so easy to get the verification (we won't meet unverified), and we use every small reduction in risk to make sure we are safe and enjoy everything |
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By *ea monkey OP Man 13 weeks ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I suppose the 1st step is a couples profile.
I prefer to meet people at the organised socials I need more than online conversation to find someone attractive I need a face and the person.
Having said that we've met some great people here.
Mrs
Is a couples profile essential? We’re in a romantic relationship with our own solo profiles
100%. We would avoid if approached and presume that it's not legit. Sure some won't but that's the way we do it.
I hate to be cynical, but I’m quite sure it’s easy to set up a joint account even if single person…
Ella
True, but not so easy to get the verification (we won't meet unverified), and we use every small reduction in risk to make sure we are safe and enjoy everything"
I completely respect that. Thank you for your candour |
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Always suggest a club in these instances, there are a few that are not too far from Manchester if you don’t want to meet local people or be seen entering etc.
At a club you can have fun in a liberated space, see someone you fancy and make conversation, see where it goes. And if you don’t find someone you’ll always meet interesting people and be able to have some fun in a different space than you are used to.
Would recommend a club without membership first. But a lot are very reasonable for couples. |
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