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"A little place for couples into chastity to chat and discuss this wonderful experience xx"
Who is in chastity you or your fella?
I bought a cage and tried to get it on but it was just arousing me and couldn't manage to get it on because I was hard. Then started panicking that I wouldn't be able to get it off so gave it up as a bad job. |
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"My wife locks me when I ask but I don’t think she understands the whole my being caged situation "
My wife is the same, I almost alway have to initiate it and 95% of the time I have to fit the ring. Except she will offer to lock me up in I’m meeting a guy |
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Wearing the cage is very comfortable for me and helps me focus on work and other tasks. Physical work is a bit more taxing especially if it involves a bit more stretching and bending as the cage can nip a little but otherwise totally fine. Can pm pics if interested  |
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I'm locked as we speak
Always locked during day only at night I'm left out for break.back on in am.
Only doing this now 3 weeks and it's growing on me.the denial is frustrating but also mind warping in a good way
We still have sex just on her terms and can never masturbate again myself |
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"What cages are you all using
I'm in ht nub at moment "
The nub must be intense. Have used regular HT and cb3000. Hoping to try micro someday. Currently in a standard cobra. Anyone used the cellmate? |
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"My partner is(him), yeah definitely difficult to fit into he has to get the ring on go back floppy and lube it up otherwise it would never fit haha xx"
Ah so there's a known proper technique to it then. I'm not sure I could manage it because even the thought gets me hard. I'll have to try again because I bet it fun.
How long does he wear it for? |
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We love it!
The difference in her when she's been in her belt for just a few hours is amazing, the brat goes quiet(ish), she's obedient, eager to please and will do anything to earn her release. Sadly for her it normally lasts between 2 weeks and 3 months at a time which does turn her in to a drippy needy mess, which I just love to see of course  |
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I love the chastity lifestyle , although it did take some getting used to as my gf trained me to be confined longer and longer. I have been in chastity since 19 years old. After my first cuckold relationship ended I searched and found someone willing to have a cuckold relationship with me, not sure I can have a " normal relationship" now
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He's in cage almost 24/7 these days, started off just the odd day or two but now it's almost permanent, it's something we both love and enjoy. He tried chastity belt for me, but seeing as can cum from just thinking sexy thoughts was complete waste lol |
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I played with a couple on a few occasions where he was caged and watched.
Seeing his cock straining against the metal cage was actually quite a turn on for me.
knowing how desperately he wanted to be free to get hard was horny.
I would have loved to have locked her in chastity too when she was not with me, but never really explored that even as a 'thing' she would have gone crazy if i had even mentioned it hehe |
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I love the missus holding my key, I wish she'd be a bit crueler and lock my dicklet up permanently. She's not quitw into it as much as I am, but I feel my small, useless cock deserves to be locked up and not touched. |
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"Not sure it's the proper way to do it but it's the only way he can haha, and only usually during meets or when I go on solo meets il lock him first come back and tease him in it xx"
What cage do you use? What size cock does he have? I might have to invest just for abit of bdsm play more than cuck stuff.
Do you let him out straight away after or do you carry on abit of denial? |
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We use a blue line deluxe cage, his around 7.5in when hard so no chance of fitting until his back on flop haha, I play with him for awhile first.. anal toys, pegging, foot/pussy worship ect.. then I will usually release him for hand relief if it's ruined or not depends on how well the stuff mentioned earlier went xx |
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Got a new cage today.a metal small cage..put it on feels better than the nub and actually less noticeable under clothes.
If you would have said to me a month ago I would be in a cage and no access to the key I would of laughed
But she's enjoying this now and guess have to go with it |
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"We use a blue line deluxe cage, his around 7.5in when hard so no chance of fitting until his back on flop haha, I play with him for awhile first.. anal toys, pegging, foot/pussy worship ect.. then I will usually release him for hand relief if it's ruined or not depends on how well the stuff mentioned earlier went xx"
Hahaha. I googled it and it first come up with guinea pig cages. I thought jesus that's is some mad role play.
OK so I'm about 7 so I should not OK in that.
Love abut of anal play. And well into mrs feet also.
You look gorgeous and sound like you have a great kinky streak. Fair play. Fella is lucky. Or could be unlucky dependant on how long you let him wait or if you ruin his orgasms |
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"We use a blue line deluxe cage, his around 7.5in when hard so no chance of fitting until his back on flop haha, I play with him for awhile first.. anal toys, pegging, foot/pussy worship ect.. then I will usually release him for hand relief if it's ruined or not depends on how well the stuff mentioned earlier went xx"
Would love to see a pic of you teasing his locked up cock! |
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They are on the way.. we decided not to upload any on fab as we know it's not everyone's taste but have recently seen alot more profiles doing so, so we also plan on it will have to take new ones as the old ones are on different phone xx |
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"I've heard of keyholders posting the key to themselves so you don't have an unlock option for a few days. Except for an emergency key of course."
Have done this in the past. Quite exciting posting it 2nd class tbh
Freezing the key in the middle of a big block of ice is also good |
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"What cages are you all using
I'm in ht nub at moment
CB6000 Stub for the last couple of years but looking to try one with an integrated lock "
Having used both the CB6000 and the Holy Trainer V2. I can say that the Holy Trainer (with internal lock) wins hands down. The only downside is that the HT is a bit more difficult to fit as it doesn't have the split ring of the CB, but once on, job done. |
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"What cages are you all using
I'm in ht nub at moment
CB6000 Stub for the last couple of years but looking to try one with an integrated lock
Having used both the CB6000 and the Holy Trainer V2. I can say that the Holy Trainer (with internal lock) wins hands down. The only downside is that the HT is a bit more difficult to fit as it doesn't have the split ring of the CB, but once on, job done."
Appreciate that. Thank you! |
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"I've heard of keyholders posting the key to themselves so you don't have an unlock option for a few days. Except for an emergency key of course.
Have done this in the past. Quite exciting posting it 2nd class tbh
Freezing the key in the middle of a big block of ice is also good"
Done both of these as a self locker . The post ones the best as knowing it's away is amazing O |
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my wife liked me in chastity for a week before meeting a real man for a playdate she said it was respectful to offer her fresh and tight for him she also said it was a bit odd having me look at her lustfully when i had agreed to be chaste so she wore bra and knickers to bed and had me wear knickers too. If she was topless or nude around the house and I looked she would give me a playful slap and I learned surprisingly easily to avert my eyes submissively. It felt so natural having her reserve the sight of her naked body for her him until he had finished with her for a while |
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"You are so lucky being in a couple. I’d love to have a partner that keeps me in chastity "
I feel exactly the same. My ex once locked me for a day when I was meeting a group of guys. She wanted to make it clear that my cock was for her, but the guys could use my ass... |
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"Just made him put his on and send me proof, I've just popped him up for you all to see.
he looks so pretty in it is his cock trying to rise as you display him?"
he is at home I'm having my eye lashes done, he will be sat wondering what I'm up to now. |
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We have just gone down to a smaller chastity cage but is a clear plastic one. Seems to bulge a lot out of the vent parts and Mrs takes it off as looks like could cause damage. Also not great with uncut.
Any one got any recommendations for chastity devices with uncut cock? |
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"Put myself in chastity , to stop me wanking, been wanking too much one key in a bottle of water in freezer the other in my car. It’s so erotic wearing one out"
You can get a key box that locks and can be set on a timer or remotely locked/opened by an app. |
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New to it really but gone two weeks
It's all good until your teased..after a few days your throbbing in it and can't get out..then when denied it's a mind warp.
It's hard to describe..but literaly she has you by the balls |
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"Any one got any recommendations for chastity devices with uncut cock?"
It’s difficult! I’ve found the best result with Kink3D. They have lots of size options but aren’t cheap. They do have a UK dealer now that does sizing. |
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We love the power exchange of chastity.. have enjoyed it for many years..
I have discovered Cherry Keeper locks, which have a huge number of options for both ring and cage sizing, so that you can get a really good fit. |
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"We love the power exchange of chastity.. have enjoyed it for many years..
I have discovered Cherry Keeper locks, which have a huge number of options for both ring and cage sizing, so that you can get a really good fit. "
Would love to see you in one |
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By *ikkijCouple 20 weeks ago
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I've been caging my hubby for 6 years. Difficult to find a good cage at the start. The ones with external padlocks we found were not for us, as he could not wear them long-term. Yes at the start he would get excited so the cage would not fit so a cold sponge or ice soon sorted that out.
He now wears a mico metal cage, in built lock and can wear it 24/7 ( releasing for washing under supervision)
So my advice is little and often and build up the time.
My only regret is I wish I'd done it sooner |
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"I've been caging my hubby for 6 years. Difficult to find a good cage at the start. The ones with external padlocks we found were not for us, as he could not wear them long-term. Yes at the start he would get excited so the cage would not fit so a cold sponge or ice soon sorted that out.
He now wears a mico metal cage, in built lock and can wear it 24/7 ( releasing for washing under supervision)
So my advice is little and often and build up the time.
My only regret is I wish I'd done it sooner "
Totally agree. For anyone looking to buy a cage for the first time, I'd avoid any with an external padlock. The CB6000 series used to be considered great, but there's way better options these days. House of Denial are a good place to look with decent prices.
C's had me locked for a couple of weeks now, and we both love how horny and desperate it makes me. The things I'll agree to whilst locked are quite a bit more than I would otherwise 🤭
We'd absolutely love to play with another Femdom couple. The fun the two ladies could have teasing the subs would be amazing! |
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By *op2Couple 20 weeks ago
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"I've been caging my hubby for 6 years. Difficult to find a good cage at the start. The ones with external padlocks we found were not for us, as he could not wear them long-term. Yes at the start he would get excited so the cage would not fit so a cold sponge or ice soon sorted that out.
He now wears a mico metal cage, in built lock and can wear it 24/7 ( releasing for washing under supervision)
So my advice is little and often and build up the time.
My only regret is I wish I'd done it sooner "
why do you wish you done it sooner ? His attitude? |
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"We love the power exchange of chastity.. have enjoyed it for many years..
I have discovered Cherry Keeper locks, which have a huge number of options for both ring and cage sizing, so that you can get a really good fit. "
The most incredible set of images!  |
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"We love the power exchange of chastity.. have enjoyed it for many years..
I have discovered Cherry Keeper locks, which have a huge number of options for both ring and cage sizing, so that you can get a really good fit.
The most incredible set of images! "
Ahh thank you!!   |
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We are looking at getting our first metal chastity cage as just had a bad experience with a plastic one, only concern is with a metal one if the lock fails, base ring gets stuck and also where to get one from, Mrs likes idea of making me have to wear it for longer and at work with panties  |
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"We are looking at getting our first metal chastity cage as just had a bad experience with a plastic one, only concern is with a metal one if the lock fails, base ring gets stuck and also where to get one from, Mrs likes idea of making me have to wear it for longer and at work with panties "
There's a site called House of Denial that's decently-priced. Most of the cages these days have an internal locking mechanism which is really just a barrel lock that slides in. Never had an issue with one, but worst case scenario that's the week point you'd have to break to escape.
My personal suggestion is to find one with a closed end, because as you get hard your cock will bulge out and the end otherwise which I find very uncomfortable. Other than that, wear the smallest you're comfortable with as it'll prevent you growing too much and straining the cage which can be sore.
Have fun! |
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I used to be in permanent chastity with my now deceased partner , only allowed out for hygiene cleaning . I miss the feeling of a cage surrounding my man hood . Watching my partner with other men . We bought a vice chastity device from locked in lust it has a anti slip ring |
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thi slooks fascinating and could solve our usual problem with ring sizes. Is the material robust enough for long term?
"We love the power exchange of chastity.. have enjoyed it for many years..
I have discovered Cherry Keeper locks, which have a huge number of options for both ring and cage sizing, so that you can get a really good fit. "
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The Mrs has now been locked up for 14 days, with no end date set. The needyness has definitely started and she's a constant horny mess, but at least her belt allows for access to other areas for me |
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"Whenever I have a meet and hubbies about insist he’s caged as prefer he doesn’t get any pleasure whilst I’m enjoying another guys cock"
nice cutebum but i am sure that although he cant orgasm or get a proper erection he enjoys the sensations of your pleasure deep in his body and mind as you enjoy another man |
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The first time I tried this was with a padlock through my frenum piercing hole.
First time with a cage was a failure as I was far too excited, we made the mistake of starting off together in a glory hole before the women I was playing with tried to cage me.
Have since learned that it needs to be put on way before play lol |
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We started chastity a couple of years back only short spells locked. We have now progressed to 5mths continuous wearing and reduced size of cage. Cuck is very obedient when caged for long periods I really enjoy the control it gives me. Always looking new ideas to try. ?? |
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"We started chastity a couple of years back only short spells locked. We have now progressed to 5mths continuous wearing and reduced size of cage. Cuck is very obedient when caged for long periods I really enjoy the control it gives me. Always looking new ideas to try. ?? "
Presumably you've moved into edging and teasing. Making the fuck jealous is particularly tormenting and can drive him nuts. Chastity can do weird things to a man's brain and behaviours as I'm sure you've found out. You should look at e stim cages too and app controlled devices so he is reminded of his place when you're apart |
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"We started chastity a couple of years back only short spells locked. We have now progressed to 5mths continuous wearing and reduced size of cage. Cuck is very obedient when caged for long periods I really enjoy the control it gives me. Always looking new ideas to try. ?? "
what a lovely comment springbok is so lucky do you tell your more intimate lady friends about his cage It is so sexy when they call round and they are amused by his condition and maybe ask to inspect his little caged specimen |
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"We started chastity a couple of years back only short spells locked. We have now progressed to 5mths continuous wearing and reduced size of cage. Cuck is very obedient when caged for long periods I really enjoy the control it gives me. Always looking new ideas to try. ??
Presumably you've moved into edging and teasing. Making the fuck jealous is particularly tormenting and can drive him nuts. Chastity can do weird things to a man's brain and behaviours as I'm sure you've found out. You should look at e stim cages too and app controlled devices so he is reminded of his place when you're apart "
Edging is next on my to do list atm it's longterm chastity reduced size training with denial. Cuck has not had any release since caged. Yes I have looked at app control |
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"We started chastity a couple of years back only short spells locked. We have now progressed to 5mths continuous wearing and reduced size of cage. Cuck is very obedient when caged for long periods I really enjoy the control it gives me. Always looking new ideas to try. ??
what a lovely comment springbok is so lucky do you tell your more intimate lady friends about his cage It is so sexy when they call round and they are amused by his condition and maybe ask to inspect his little caged specimen"
No I haven't spoken outside of fab |
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"A little place for couples into chastity to chat and discuss this wonderful experience xx"
Hi cuckold couple here with caged cuck. In long-term training has been caged now 6mths reduced cage Size 3 times. Started with the one we have up I'm our profile then to the CB 3000 plastic niw a small steel nub type with internal lock looking to take him down in size to a micro cage. Really enjoy the buzz I get with the control over him. Started SPH. We are both enjoy the cuckold lifestyle |
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I’ve spent, as an estimate, 98% of our married lives locked. 9 years now! The longest without removal has been 9 months … the release tends to be up to 4 hours. But is very rare. Feel lost without it ! |
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"I’ve spent, as an estimate, 98% of our married lives locked. 9 years now! The longest without removal has been 9 months … the release tends to be up to 4 hours. But is very rare. Feel lost without it ! "
Same here, as a cuck I feel naked if my cock cage is removed. |
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"I’ve spent, as an estimate, 98% of our married lives locked. 9 years now! The longest without removal has been 9 months … the release tends to be up to 4 hours. But is very rare. Feel lost without it ! "
Same with me |
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