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Is it true most men expect rimjob nowadays while getting sucked?
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By *ro.blow OP TV/TS 21 weeks ago
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Not sure if it’s the same if a woman’s servicing them but it seems whenever I’m arranging to meet a guy to suck his cock in the past 6 months, he’s either brought up he want his ass licked or guides my head towards his ass at the time while I’m sucking. Just seems expected these days whereas if was normally a bit taboo or they’d give plenty of notice.
Especially considering they’ll come straight from work in their work gear without popping home to shower first and just think nothing of it??? Is it just the expectation now? |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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I think that word Expext is where it’s going wrong. No one should expect anything to happen. Even if pre arranged for something to happen on a meet, things happen. Nothing should be expected. |
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By *oxy jWoman 21 weeks ago
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ill lick no strangers asshole my training tells me that its a place thats never clean no matter how much you clean it your body functions dont stop just because you want a little anal/ or rim job so to lick a strangers ring piece yuk no chance you just as well stick a turd in yer mouth
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"ill lick no strangers asshole my training tells me that its a place thats never clean no matter how much you clean it your body functions dont stop just because you want a little anal/ or rim job so to lick a strangers ring piece yuk no chance you just as well stick a turd in yer mouth
With that logic then nowhere on a body is clean.
Would you know want to receive oral sex because of the same reason?
All of our skin is covered in various microbes and bacterias.
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"No I don't expect to be rimmed while getting head but if she went further down to go for it I wouldn't say say no as long as they don't expect any kissing after that."
So it’s ok for her tongue to go in your arse but not for you. |
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Cleanliness and communication seem to be the important things here. If it’s not pre-discussed then it shouldn't be happening and if you cba to have a wash before meeting then thats just damn inconsiderate. I’d rather someone be late and go home for a shower than meet and play unwashed. Yuck. |
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If someone expected that from me without communicating first, I’d find it a total turn off.
It’s a sensitive area and people need to “prepare”. Bad hygiene and lack of understanding of hygiene makes me gip. |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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Not at all. I never expect anything from anyone. Boundaries are always discussed beforehand and are always respected and even if someone said they like to do it, I wouldn't automatically assume it would happen. I just go with the flow and what happens happens and what doesn't doesn't. |
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"Not sure if it’s the same if a woman’s servicing them but it seems whenever I’m arranging to meet a guy to suck his cock in the past 6 months, he’s either brought up he want his ass licked or guides my head towards his ass at the time while I’m sucking. Just seems expected these days whereas if was normally a bit taboo or they’d give plenty of notice.
Especially considering they’ll come straight from work in their work gear without popping home to shower first and just think nothing of it??? Is it just the expectation now? "
Think it's your selection process might need improving. |
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By *ro.blow OP TV/TS 21 weeks ago
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"Not sure if it’s the same if a woman’s servicing them but it seems whenever I’m arranging to meet a guy to suck his cock in the past 6 months, he’s either brought up he want his ass licked or guides my head towards his ass at the time while I’m sucking. Just seems expected these days whereas if was normally a bit taboo or they’d give plenty of notice.
Especially considering they’ll come straight from work in their work gear without popping home to shower first and just think nothing of it??? Is it just the expectation now?
Think it's your selection process might need improving. "
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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I’ve never (Mrs here) had it expected of me to rim during a bj. Any man that expected ANYTHING is a tw@t imo
Even if things are discussed in playful chat prior to a meet it doesn’t automatically guarantee the act of it upon an eventual meet.
Never heard of this being a ‘thing’ though in other couples or playing people’s circles on this scene. I really hope it’s not true because it’s awful if so |
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I've never requested it from anybody. A woman I dated once tried to rim me and the tickling sensation was too much and I was fighting urge to giggle hysterically. I've never thought of receiving a rim job from anyone before or since. But every couple has a unique dynamic, so anything's possible. I get the impression rim jobs are more popular with Gen Z. |
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Not really my thing to give or receive. It tickles me and leaves me paranoid too much when receiving and I'd never give it because im worried about the taste/smell and little chocolate flakes getting in my mouth. |
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By *elkieWoman 21 weeks ago
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I’ve had a couple of people try to get me to rim them on a casual meet, and neither of them cared if I wanted to or not.
And: I kind of agree with the poster who suggested you should change your selection processes, because unless this is your thing; people should be showering before meets. |
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I hope they don't unless the douche. Do you not realize poo is very very far from being sterile. Piss is sterile poo can kill you, I literally contains most of the pathogens your body is getting rid of |
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