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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now I'm 22 last couple of months it's been happening a lot but the weird thing is its gone from meeting women and never been able to cum , to the point they say "am I doing something wrong " when it isn't everything is going perfect. Now I don't mind not cumming aslong as I please but now it's embarrassing and kicked my confidence right in the balls, I really don't know what to do. The fact I could go all nite to cuming within in 15 mins  is there any one with any useful advice I keep trying the stop an start thing but no success so far. I'm wondering is it because the last relationship I had went sour and hated each other to only stay together because of reasons so mayb I wasn't enjoying it? I don't know please advice  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now I'm 22 last couple of months it's been happening a lot but the weird thing is its gone from meeting women and never been able to cum , to the point they say "am I doing something wrong " when it isn't everything is going perfect. Now I don't mind not cumming aslong as I please but now it's embarrassing and kicked my confidence right in the balls, I really don't know what to do. The fact I could go all nite to cuming within in 15 mins is there any one with any useful advice I keep trying the stop an start thing but no success so far. I'm wondering is it because the last relationship I had went sour and hated each other to only stay together because of reasons so mayb I wasn't enjoying it? I don't know please advice "
I guess I'm just asking for people to take the mick with this post |
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I ejaculated this morning. Not even arranged a meet yet, so it's very premature. 
Seriously, don't worry about it. If it happens laugh and say 'look how sexy you are, you've made me cum'! And then use other bits of your body and repertoire until you get hard again.  |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
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I can't really help you with the why, but I have affinity with your problem. It happened to me when I was about your age too. Soon sorted itself out and normal service was resumed though
Try not thinking about it and relax into your meets |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I ejaculated this morning. Not even arranged a meet yet, so it's very premature.
Seriously, don't worry about it. If it happens laugh and say 'look how sexy you are, you've made me cum'! And then use other bits of your body and repertoire until you get hard again. "
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If you think your cumming to early tho i doubt you are...there are other ways to please a lady..this gives you time to get back ya mojo... know its easy to say just relax etc but try no to think about it.
And please dont use the your too sexy line on a fem..some of us have heard it too often and it makes me feel like kicking the guy who says it in the nuts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"15mins in not premature, all nite is unusual, 30sec-1min is premature, or as soon as you are touched is premature  "
it used to be that I couldn't cum just really embarrassing an just makes me to stay away an not even try anymore in case of disappointment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you worried about taking 15 min to cum or boasting you can go all night without cuming?
You are still 21, dont worry, let rip, splatter the place and cum again and again. If you are lucky enough to get to 60 you will look back on these days and smile.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you worried about taking 15 min to cum or boasting you can go all night without cuming?
You are still 21, dont worry, let rip, splatter the place and cum again and again. If you are lucky enough to get to 60 you will look back on these days and smile. "
no boasting if you read. I used to on a meet never be able to cum at all but it's taken a drastic turn to cumming to quickly now  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you worried about taking 15 min to cum or boasting you can go all night without cuming?
You are still 21, dont worry, let rip, splatter the place and cum again and again. If you are lucky enough to get to 60 you will look back on these days and smile. no boasting if you read. I used to on a meet never be able to cum at all but it's taken a drastic turn to cumming to quickly now "
just looking for advice that's all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you worried about taking 15 min to cum or boasting you can go all night without cuming?
You are still 21, dont worry, let rip, splatter the place and cum again and again. If you are lucky enough to get to 60 you will look back on these days and smile. no boasting if you read. I used to on a meet never be able to cum at all but it's taken a drastic turn to cumming to quickly now just looking for advice that's all "
I cannot help with PE as I have never suffered from it. Not cumming after a long session of control is however a problem I recognise. Mostly it takes a very determined female mouth as no pussy or hand can get it to fire.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all in the mind either as I can control Cuming just focus on something else when your near and you'd should be fine but if you can repeat in Cuming don't worry a lot of lady's love that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm thinking maybe 'clean the pipes' before you go on a meet and see if that helps?!
Failing that - as some others have said, let it fly after 15 mins and then try to repeat - should take a bit longer 2nd time round and allow you the necessary time to really pleasure your female of choice. Gotta be worth a go?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow 15 mins.. I'm jealous and it starts"
I was being serious dude, I unfortunately cant last that long sometimes, but I give repeat performances straight away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant help thinking 15 mins is average for most guys,its defo not premature, we like to edge that can help give u more control"
This was obviously a 'humiliate me' thread
Yes it's true people do have 'all nighters' but in the general scheme of things I'd say they're pretty rare
...15-20 mins of good solid action - with 15-20 mins of good foreplay and 15-20mins of decent after-care either side, is pretty average for most relationships, I suspect. You've been watching too much edited porn if you think otherwise... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I cant help thinking 15 mins is average for most guys,its defo not premature, we like to edge that can help give u more control
This was obviously a 'humiliate me' thread
Yes it's true people do have 'all nighters' but in the general scheme of things I'd say they're pretty rare
...15-20 mins of good solid action - with 15-20 mins of good foreplay and 15-20mins of decent after-care either side, is pretty average for most relationships, I suspect. You've been watching too much edited porn if you think otherwise... "
I have no advice for the OP but just had to compliment you on your lovely body. YUM! |
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dont worry about p e . just treat it like your clearing the tubes before the main event .. the more you do it the longer you ll last . if you dont lose erection ..just keep going otherwise start all over again.. the teasing before is as much fun and part of the whole thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe a weird thought, but could it just be you used to have way more nerves which kept you from relaxing to the point of cumming? So then now you're so used to it you're relaxed and you need to adjust your pace to keep from cumming in 15 mins? |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry what was being asked. Very distracted by darkavenger. Wow
Btw op I prefer lots of short sessions, especially the first time. First for him, all the rest for me to get my pleasure. Nothing worse than hours on end! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant help thinking 15 mins is average for most guys,its defo not premature, we like to edge that can help give u more control
This was obviously a 'humiliate me' thread
Yes it's true people do have 'all nighters' but in the general scheme of things I'd say they're pretty rare
...15-20 mins of good solid action - with 15-20 mins of good foreplay and 15-20mins of decent after-care either side, is pretty average for most relationships, I suspect. You've been watching too much edited porn if you think otherwise...
I have no advice for the OP but just had to compliment you on your lovely body. YUM! "
Hehe thanks - glad someone is enjoying my propaganda |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mrs Ox finds it hugely flattering when guys can't hold back with her - especially as she doesn't orgasm with other guys (loves the physicality of sex with other guys but the mental connection isn't there) and her "thing" is guys getting off on her. Think the record is 4 thrusts - guy pushed in - commented on how "tight" she was - to which she looked over her shoulder and said "fuck me then" with a smile on her face - 3 thrusts later and it was over - poor guy was all embarassed but she felt fantastic that this guy couldn't hold back.
So would say it's subjective - some women want you to go for hours and hours - others (like Mrs Ox) hate guys that wanna pound away for hours on end....the swinging "world" is wide and varied - something for everyone (does that make it the most naughty "sweet shop" in the world - Willy Wanka's ! lol) - just a case of finding the fit |
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"Mrs Ox finds it hugely flattering when guys can't hold back with her - especially as she doesn't orgasm with other guys (loves the physicality of sex with other guys but the mental connection isn't there) and her "thing" is guys getting off on her. Think the record is 4 thrusts - guy pushed in - commented on how "tight" she was - to which she looked over her shoulder and said "fuck me then" with a smile on her face - 3 thrusts later and it was over - poor guy was all embarassed but she felt fantastic that this guy couldn't hold back.
So would say it's subjective - some women want you to go for hours and hours - others (like Mrs Ox) hate guys that wanna pound away for hours on end....the swinging "world" is wide and varied - something for everyone (does that make it the most naughty "sweet shop" in the world - Willy Wanka's ! lol) - just a case of finding the fit "
I ,David have been _aiting for a girl like this all my life...just sayin... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On your search engine Type in " Squeeze Technique for Premature Ejaculation " It will give instructions on how to do it, and it does work. Even the Mayo Clinic lists it as an aid.
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"On your search engine Type in " Squeeze Technique for Premature Ejaculation " "
The Squeeze Technique works. I sang all of the verses to 'Cool for Cats' while I was shagging a bird and I lasted ages.
In-out-in-out-in-out-in-out....
'The Indians send signals from the rocks above the pass
The cowboys take positions
In the bushes and the grass .......
That bit where the squaw is tied against a tree had me worried for a bit, but I got through it. Try it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I ejaculated this morning. Not even arranged a meet yet, so it's very premature.
Seriously, don't worry about it. If it happens laugh and say 'look how sexy you are, you've made me cum'! And then use other bits of your body and repertoire until you get hard again. "
just prior to coming conjure up a pic of ann widdecombe |
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"Are you worried about taking 15 min to cum or boasting you can go all night without cuming?
You are still 21, dont worry, let rip, splatter the place and cum again and again. If you are lucky enough to get to 60 you will look back on these days and smile. "
But trust me on the sunscreen ! |
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