Sometimes I wonder whether it would be better if there was no nudity on here and that all photos were fully-clothed (or at least sufficiently clothed!) leaving something to the imagination?
Maybe that would also stop the porn-fuelled, misogyny, that most women seem to despise? Swinging doesn’t have to be porn, or does it?
Sufficiently provocative and controversial for a Sunday morning?  |
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"Sometimes I wonder whether it would be better if there was no nudity on here and that all photos were fully-clothed (or at least sufficiently clothed!) leaving something to the imagination?
Maybe that would also stop the porn-fuelled, misogyny, that most women seem to despise? Swinging doesn’t have to be porn, or does it?
Sufficiently provocative and controversial for a Sunday morning? "
I prefer lingeries pics of my wife to nude. So sexy when she dresses to tease!! |
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What's the link between nudity and misogyny?
What's the link between nudity and porn?
Should naturists put some clothes on and make the world a better place or are they just guilty of creating porn fantasies in other people's heads? |
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"If someone is a misogynist it’s very likely they already were before joining fab, so there’s no correlation OP.
But why add fuel to the fire?"
People shouldn’t have to adjust what they want to do to accommodate the distorted views of a few. |
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"If someone is a misogynist it’s very likely they already were before joining fab, so there’s no correlation OP.
But why add fuel to the fire?"
What fire?
Lots of people want to be seen naked and many others appreciate that.
Why should anyone deny themselves those thrills just because there are some who view it differently?
Fab is full of misandrists too but they are fuelled by their own inadequacies and their issues are not created by a few naked pics. |
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"If someone is a misogynist it’s very likely they already were before joining fab, so there’s no correlation OP.
But why add fuel to the fire?
What fire?
Lots of people want to be seen naked and many others appreciate that.
Why should anyone deny themselves those thrills just because there are some who view it differently?
Fab is full of misandrists too but they are fuelled by their own inadequacies and their issues are not created by a few naked pics. "
This makes the point better ^ |
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It wouldn't stop porn fuelled misogyny or any misogyny come to that. There are men for who women are sex objects, dressed, undressed or partially clothed.
If someone's preference is for a clothed representation of the female form it has no bearing in their attitude to women.
Our avatar is a clothed picture of me. Look no further if nudity offends 🙈 |
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"If someone is a misogynist it’s very likely they already were before joining fab, so there’s no correlation OP.
But why add fuel to the fire?"
Women are not adding fuel to the fire. Misogyny is not the fault of women.
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"If someone is a misogynist it’s very likely they already were before joining fab, so there’s no correlation OP.
But why add fuel to the fire?
Women are not adding fuel to the fire. Misogyny is not the fault of women.
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I fear some people are taking my post too seriously… |
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"If someone is a misogynist it’s very likely they already were before joining fab, so there’s no correlation OP.
But why add fuel to the fire?
Women are not adding fuel to the fire. Misogyny is not the fault of women.
I fear some people are taking my post too seriously…"
Taking the subject seriously because it’s a serious subject. It’s a good thing that these sorts of discussions are opened in the forums. |
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"If someone is a misogynist it’s very likely they already were before joining fab, so there’s no correlation OP.
But why add fuel to the fire?
Women are not adding fuel to the fire. Misogyny is not the fault of women.
I fear some people are taking my post too seriously…"
I know your post is intended to be provocative. You did say so in your op
I genuinely thought you'd posted it in the interests of open discussion and were using debating skills to keep it going.
I'll bow out |
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"If someone is a misogynist it’s very likely they already were before joining fab, so there’s no correlation OP.
But why add fuel to the fire?
Women are not adding fuel to the fire. Misogyny is not the fault of women.
I fear some people are taking my post too seriously…
I know your post is intended to be provocative. You did say so in your op
I genuinely thought you'd posted it in the interests of open discussion and were using debating skills to keep it going.
I'll bow out"
Yes, serious post in that it is potentially questioning whether this is a sex site, or a swinging site.
Regarding some of the other posts in this thread - if you want to post nudes, videos, etc. then there are other websites more geared up for that sort of thing. Same for naturists.
‘Seeing the goods first’ is also an interesting one for those of us that did dating before the existence of mobile phones and the internet. It would certainly have made discos more interesting if rather than a ‘last dance’ we’d all had to expose our sexual organs  . Hmm, now there’s an idea
Misogyny is obviously not the fault of women but I think it is reasonable to argue that getting your baps and flaps out and assuming porn star poses is unlikely to discourage misogyny and the objectifying of women amongst men with that inclination. I am horrified when I hear of some of the messages some women receive and I’m no prude.
So, yes, let’s continue the debate but keep it reasonably light-hearted, though deliberately controversial and of course, hypocritical - there are some great pics and videos on here.
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What would possibly be a good addition is the option for all when they add photos to tick a box or something that auto detects and blurs faces/crops out faces, if the poster doesn't want to be identified in public posts/videos. Whilst there are a lot of people who do seem to use blur/pixelization filters there's loads who do not and scribble over/use emojis etc to hide faces. |
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We don't mind the nude pics.not a great fan of the close up gyno shots.
But for us,we do like to leave a little to the imagination.
But at the end of the day everyone has a choice on here and it's up to them what they put on here. |
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"We don't mind the nude pics.not a great fan of the close up gyno shots.
But for us,we do like to leave a little to the imagination.
But at the end of the day everyone has a choice on here and it's up to them what they put on here."
⬆️, we don’t like close up all the time or action either, a nice mix is lovely. Enjoy the naughty outside ones always looks fun and daring 😉😄 |
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