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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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With women that squirt ? …
Never been a thing for me … can anyone explain why it turns them on ?
Just watched a video in hot vids of two women oiled up and squirting …
As far as I am aware it’s just a mixture of cum and piss ??
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I think men (massive generalisation incoming) like to see the results of a task. They like to know they’ve done a job well and it worked. And … you can see where I’m going with this. I don’t need to keep typing.
Squirting’s a visible, obvious, sign that ‘man did good fucking’. It’s a reward for their animal brain that gives them a dopamine hit.
And porn has led to it being normalised and expected. So when a woman *doesn’t* squirt there can be a feeling of ‘oh no, I’m not doing it right, better keep trying.’ It’s all a bit depressing really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"I think men (massive generalisation incoming) like to see the results of a task. They like to know they’ve done a job well and it worked. And … you can see where I’m going with this. I don’t need to keep typing.
Squirting’s a visible, obvious, sign that ‘man did good fucking’. It’s a reward for their animal brain that gives them a dopamine hit.
And porn has led to it being normalised and expected. So when a woman *doesn’t* squirt there can be a feeling of ‘oh no, I’m not doing it right, better keep trying.’ It’s all a bit depressing really."
Thanks … I did rather think it was porn related. Never has and never will do it for me … I don’t need to see results.
But thanks to all who’s responded so far… it’s interesting to see it from others perspective |
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My wife occasionally squirted. It wasn't like you see in porn (that's just pissing). I was a bit more turned on, but it wasn't the be all to end all. If she was satisfied, that's good enough for me |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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I can assure you mérida is a squirter
Also she has an extreme interest in squirter porn stars
We quite often send porn gifs via wassap to each other, I randomly select a type and send
Quite often she names the porn actresses and says yeh she’s hot she’s a squirter 😂
Her knowledge of female porn stars has no end
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"Absolutly love squirters.
It's been a fantasy for years. Fave porn for years.
And managed to make mrs do it the other week. I nearly came on the spot I was that turned on by it. "
I love this! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 19 weeks ago
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I hit up a gynaecologist friend of a friend to ask … it’s essentially pee and mixed with pre cum as far as I was told.
Given that’s what they said I’m not into pee or piss .. water sports .. so non squirters for me ! X |
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It’s shouldn’t be the be all and end all, but the first time I made a woman squirt was magnificent. I think other posters are right that it’s the satisfaction of seeing a result of your efforts, and knowing your partner was enjoying it so much she let herself go enough to explode everywhere, especially over my face |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"It’s shouldn’t be the be all and end all, but the first time I made a woman squirt was magnificent. I think other posters are right that it’s the satisfaction of seeing a result of your efforts, and knowing your partner was enjoying it so much she let herself go enough to explode everywhere, especially over my face "
It happened to me in Warrington … I met a woman called hornydawny and she soaked me in the face without warning … wasn’t impressed … least out of that I met her friend G whom I saw a lot of until I moved away … some good things do come out of a squirting … but it didn’t do it for me then and still doesn’t now … |
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"With women that squirt ? …
Never been a thing for me … can anyone explain why it turns them on ?
Just watched a video in hot vids of two women oiled up and squirting …
As far as I am aware it’s just a mixture of cum and piss ??
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Hooray for this post!
I'm so fed up with men messaging say I can make u squirt!!! I'd rather have a decent orgasm and some women can squirt but its a mixture of cum and pee. If you bash a woman's bladder enough from the inside, she is going to squirt!! |
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By *oxy jWoman 18 weeks ago
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porn
men think they are special for getting a woman to squirt
women think they are special because they squirt especially those who cant admit that most of it comes from the bladder
and no im not anti squirt as i squirt myself tho small amounts ... its a sexual act that many enjoy its nothing rare or special some women can some cant some just dont want too .... its not gross like some make it out to be but its also not for everone sounds like alot of other sexual acts lol just enjoy it if you like it ... me id rather have my orgasms that once starts dont stop |
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"With women that squirt ? …
Never been a thing for me … can anyone explain why it turns them on ?
Just watched a video in hot vids of two women oiled up and squirting …
As far as I am aware it’s just a mixture of cum and piss ??
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It doesn't taste like either to me. |
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"I hit up a gynaecologist friend of a friend to ask … it’s essentially pee and mixed with pre cum as far as I was told.
Given that’s what they said I’m not into pee or piss .. water sports .. so non squirters for me ! X "
I would suggest you make it very clear on your profile that under no circumstances should any women who have ever or could ever squirt contact you.
This could save you the trouble of letting them all down after their first messages. |
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By *rNightMan 18 weeks ago
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An ex used do it everytime, she had zero control of it and was so embarrassed by it, that was until she realised how much it turned me on. After that there was no holding back, did we ever get through some towels lol |
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By *oxy jWoman 18 weeks ago
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"I like it because it's instantly gratifying. Most be can fake an orgasm quite easily but squirti g is not so easily faked "
are you sure ?? in porn they dont squirt they piss as it looks the same oh wait it nearly is the same..
and many women dont squirt at all they have Coital urinary incontinence ie the urge to pee and do pee during sex ... so on that note its one of the easiest things to fake if wanted to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I hit up a gynaecologist friend of a friend to ask … it’s essentially pee and mixed with pre cum as far as I was told.
Given that’s what they said I’m not into pee or piss .. water sports .. so non squirters for me ! X
I would suggest you make it very clear on your profile that under no circumstances should any women who have ever or could ever squirt contact you.
This could save you the trouble of letting them all down after their first messages. "
This is neither helpful nor necessary… you sound awfully angry and upset. Please don’t project your negativity at the poster … |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I like it because it's instantly gratifying. Most be can fake an orgasm quite easily but squirti g is not so easily faked
are you sure ?? in porn they dont squirt they piss as it looks the same oh wait it nearly is the same..
and many women dont squirt at all they have Coital urinary incontinence ie the urge to pee and do pee during sex ... so on that note its one of the easiest things to fake if wanted to"
That’s really interesting! I never knew that … you learn something new every day |
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For me my wife has impressive stamina and can orgasm on repeat multiple times from finger, dildo, vibrator, tongue, or cock and the orgasms as she says just build and build in intensity. The squirt isn’t the end goal but she is like my own super-soaker max turbo 3000 (old childhood fond memories of super soakers where every year an extra word got added)
Anyway I love when she squirts in my mouth, yes I like watersports and squirt isn’t the same as piss but similar, but it’s the knowing she’s literally on cloud 9 and I’ve brought her their, plus she’s relaxed and horny enough to just relax and enjoy the moment.
Do I love a squirter - yes, do I seek them - no, if licking a female out that’s furthest thing on my mind and if it happens then great, but no bother if not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"For me my wife has impressive stamina and can orgasm on repeat multiple times from finger, dildo, vibrator, tongue, or cock and the orgasms as she says just build and build in intensity. The squirt isn’t the end goal but she is like my own super-soaker max turbo 3000 (old childhood fond memories of super soakers where every year an extra word got added)
Anyway I love when she squirts in my mouth, yes I like watersports and squirt isn’t the same as piss but similar, but it’s the knowing she’s literally on cloud 9 and I’ve brought her their, plus she’s relaxed and horny enough to just relax and enjoy the moment.
Do I love a squirter - yes, do I seek them - no, if licking a female out that’s furthest thing on my mind and if it happens then great, but no bother if not."
This is what I love to hear … others experiences and everyone is unique … thanks for sharing |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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Genuinely don’t like it all to be honest…to the point of ending a rather thriving relationship over it…having to buy mattress protectors and bed sheets reeking of piss is not my thing (and yes you can literally find a qualified gynaecologist who will side on either side of the fence depending on what you choose to believe…but it’s piss) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"Genuinely don’t like it all to be honest…to the point of ending a rather thriving relationship over it…having to buy mattress protectors and bed sheets reeking of piss is not my thing (and yes you can literally find a qualified gynaecologist who will side on either side of the fence depending on what you choose to believe…but it’s piss)"
Ooooo Yeah not happening … |
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By *essTTWoman 18 weeks ago
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"With women that squirt ? …
Never been a thing for me … can anyone explain why it turns them on ?
Just watched a video in hot vids of two women oiled up and squirting …
As far as I am aware it’s just a mixture of cum and piss ??
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I think it's vile
Anyone who messages me mentioning squirting gets blocked
I don't squirt and I'm not interested in squirting |
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a friend brought his wife round for me to play with last week and when we went to bed she told me she wanted me to make her squirt which i was more than happy to do and she managed to soak the towel i had put on the bed but she loved how much i managed to make her squirt |
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As others have said - it’s a kink that some will love, some will hate and others will not be especially bothered either way. Personally, I find it quite the turn on but then I’m also partial to watersports. To me, there is a certain commonality of experience between the two, even if they are actually very different things, which is probably why I love it. I’m not sure I see the reason to get too worked up about it though. If it’s not your thing - that’s fine. Not an issue. |
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"I hit up a gynaecologist friend of a friend to ask … it’s essentially pee and mixed with pre cum as far as I was told.
Given that’s what they said I’m not into pee or piss .. water sports .. so non squirters for me ! X
I would suggest you make it very clear on your profile that under no circumstances should any women who have ever or could ever squirt contact you.
This could save you the trouble of letting them all down after their first messages.
This is neither helpful nor necessary… you sound awfully angry and upset. Please don’t project your negativity at the poster … "
How so? I was only trying to be helpful. If you don’t state your on your profile it could be embarrassing for any lady. |
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"I like it because it's instantly gratifying. Most be can fake an orgasm quite easily but squirti g is not so easily faked "
Yes but squirting isn't an orgasm not for me it feels very satisfying but nothing like a big O. |
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By *rpeggioCouple 18 weeks ago
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"I hate when guys say "I made the woman squirt".... No guy has ever made me do it, it only happens if I want it to."
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Exactly. I (Mr.) always say that I help women to squirt, if they want to (not all can do it). If they don't want to or they don't like it, then there's no point. Its supposed to be enjoyable for them, not for me. |
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I’m not obsessed by a woman squirting, but I do find it horny as hell if they do….
I have four standout squirting memories;
The first time a current play partner gushed as I pounded her pussy…..that rush of hot liquid past my cock was an amazing feeling….
The first, and only time another friend squirted as I licked her to orgasm…
The time I fucked someone anally, in missionary, and she squirted, that blew my mind visually and physically…
The wife I fucked in a swinger club, while her hubby watched. She gushed on me 5 times, we soaked two of the ‘beds’, so had to stand the mattresses up to drain off….. |
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My first experience of this was in my early twenties and dating a woman in her thirties. I gone to visit her at her parents house while they were out. After some shagging I was finger fucking her on the landing....she squirted a huge amount all over my face and chest. We were both a bit shocked and spent the next 30mins very I romantically mopping up her squirt from their expensive carpet!! 😂 |
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