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At what point do you stop classing/been classed as a ssbhm.
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So recently I've lost quite abit of weight (7 stone).
I'm 6ft and now weigh around 28 stone.
So my question is at what point do you think I should do classing myself as a SSBHM (super size Big Handsome Man) and just class myself as a BHM or just plane chunky?
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I wouldn't dream of insulting you or being sarcastic, losing 7 stone is an incredible achievement.
I don't know at what point you stop classing yourself as that but I'd say you're getting close to it. |
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"I wouldn't dream of insulting you or being sarcastic, losing 7 stone is an incredible achievement.
I don't know at what point you stop classing yourself as that but I'd say you're getting close to it. "
Thank you, I really appreciate that.
Obviously people are entitled to their own opinions, however I'd like to think it will remain respectful.
Also it may give other bigger gentleman a better insight on when they stop classing themselves as the same also. I suppose a bit of a confidence boost shell we say. |
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By *vaRose43Woman 19 weeks ago
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I don’t think there is a definitive answer here.
Everyone will have a different opinion.. for example I use the word fat on my profile, I don’t mind the word, I’m happy to own it and I’m happy in my skin. It seems to really ruffle feathers though and I get a lot of messages wanting to argue with me over it. Works quite well as a filter.
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