It's always seemed to me at clubs and parties ALL women are assumed bi until proven otherwise as a prevalent attitude. And although the majority of women myself and My Girl (who is bi) have encountered have been bi there are a lot of straight women on the scene also. It's often occurred to me how tiresome this assumption of being bi must be to straight women on the scene (single or part as a couple).
I would also say it must make straight women rather wary of any bi woman (single or couple) who say they can play straight. Because some people struggle with the concept of a straight woman even after they've been told their straight. They think oh she can be turned once we get in the thick of things.
So then if chose to avoid bi women (single and in couples) that must leave your options on the scene very limited. Which of course is logical just based on maths. |
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Although we're open to meeting couples we very rarely do. It's difficult to find mutual attraction all ways and the assumption that all women are bi is prevalent. If I hear that tired old phrase 'women are like spaghetti, straight until wet' one more time ... |
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We don't meet couples often partly for this reason and partly finding mutual attraction. The types of guys were into aren't with the types of women I'm into usually....
But yes as a straight couple it often puts us off meeting couples with bi women, especially when they say they are very bi. Weirdly don't feel so much with bi men as we've always found them totally respectful, but had a few experiences where the women haven't been |
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