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Which is a more intimate act?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see any act as intimate to be honest, for me what makes something intimate is the way I feel towards a person, I can fuck and I can make love and that feeling follows thro with kissing and any other sexual act, if its someone I care about its intimate, if its someone on here its just a fuck/kiss/lick or suck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing definitely. All other sex acts don't have to be done face to face, so kissing has a far greater level of familiarity and therefore intimacy.
And nothing turns me on more than a good kisser. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see any act as intimate to be honest, for me what makes something intimate is the way I feel towards a person, I can fuck and I can make love and that feeling follows thro with kissing and any other sexual act, if its someone I care about its intimate, if its someone on here its just a fuck/kiss/lick or suck "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without hesitation for me it's kissing... To look in to someone's eyes as you draw slowly nearer to one another knowing the intesity and passion that is to come blows me away..
It's so underestimated by some.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see any act as intimate to be honest, for me what makes something intimate is the way I feel towards a person, I can fuck and I can make love and that feeling follows thro with kissing and any other sexual act, if its someone I care about its intimate, if its someone on here its just a fuck/kiss/lick or suck "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oral!! 100%
I'd never dream of opening my legs for someone to taste me, without them kissing me?! The whole kissing thing I find very bizarre 
Seems I'm in a minority
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't see any act as intimate to be honest, for me what makes something intimate is the way I feel towards a person, I can fuck and I can make love and that feeling follows thro with kissing and any other sexual act, if its someone I care about its intimate, if its someone on here its just a fuck/kiss/lick or suck "
I do agree with this....
BUT I really dont kiss the guys I meet from here much.....
So will stick with saying kissing is by far the more intimate... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is perceived as intimacy, but for me, sex without intimacy is completely unfulfilling.
I find it exceptionally difficult to 'perform' without sensual / passionate kissing being part of the meet.
Someone just going down on me for example doesn't do anything for me, but kiss me and run your hands / fingers over my chest and belly and by the time you get a bit further south my undies will be straining |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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I do laugh at some people on here.....
Some couples are happy for us to fuck/suck them anyway possible but will state "No Kissing"!!!!
We (or should i say I) avoid them.....
I dont go in for much kissing on meets, esp with couple, but to be told I cant!!!.....
Not for me....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So has things changed so drastically since the days i was dating? I remember when, at the end of the date you escorted the lass home and kissed her goodnight.
I didn't whip my cock out for a goodnight suck! |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"So has things changed so drastically since the days i was dating? I remember when, at the end of the date you escorted the lass home and kissed her goodnight.
I didn't whip my cock out for a goodnight suck!"
Oh things have deffo changed since then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So has things changed so drastically since the days i was dating? I remember when, at the end of the date you escorted the lass home and kissed her goodnight.
I didn't whip my cock out for a goodnight suck!
Oh things have deffo changed since then "
Woohoo. Now i just need a date! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't believe how many people don't kiss?! 
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Although i'd like to think i'm a liberal kind of guy, how anal sex is LESS intimate than kissing, i'll never know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see any act as intimate to be honest, for me what makes something intimate is the way I feel towards a person, I can fuck and I can make love and that feeling follows thro with kissing and any other sexual act, if its someone I care about its intimate, if its someone on here its just a fuck/kiss/lick or suck "
totally agree xxx] |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing for us. We've snogged up against a DJ booth in a club and got so lost in it we forget where we where. You don't get that from oral. Plus you get the added anticipation and a feel for each others Desire towards ypurself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a mixture of all of the above for me as I am quite a Dom woman in meets I find them more of a submissive act and something I only really do with silk.
MissD x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing...by miles. If the kissing is hot, everything else just happens. That is why there is so much poetry and music inspired by kisses."
Couldn't agree more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is more intimate because I believe involves a mental connection whereas oral is just a sexual act.
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 do we think kissing some on a swinging date can be passionate ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is more intimate because I believe involves a mental connection whereas oral is just a sexual act.
do we think kissing some on a swinging date can be passionate ? "
Well the words swinging and date do not go together and very different thing but no on a meet I do not believe you can kiss passionately or intimately compared to a person you have an emotional and mental connection with.
Lust and love are two very different things.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see any act as intimate to be honest, for me what makes something intimate is the way I feel towards a person, I can fuck and I can make love and that feeling follows thro with kissing and any other sexual act, if its someone I care about its intimate, if its someone on here its just a fuck/kiss/lick or suck "
Totally agree |
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Kissing.....as some of you may well know, I view kissing as part of love ie I'd kiss my partner, parents, children, grandchildren, close friends ....all at different intensity and levels of course  ....and as Vinnie says "you only kiss your mrs on the lips, right!"
Mrs BB x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see any act as intimate to be honest, for me what makes something intimate is the way I feel towards a person, I can fuck and I can make love and that feeling follows thro with kissing and any other sexual act, if its someone I care about its intimate, if its someone on here its just a fuck/kiss/lick or suck "
Great answer! Agreed. |
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"Kissing is more intimate because I believe involves a mental connection whereas oral is just a sexual act.
do we think kissing some on a swinging date can be passionate ?
Well the words swinging and date do not go together and very different thing but no on a meet I do not believe you can kiss passionately or intimately compared to a person you have an emotional and mental connection with.
Lust and love are two very different things.
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Interesting, I find that intimacy is more down to one particular organ and thats the brain, how you use it to suit the situation depends on the connection between 2 or more people.
For me the act of kissing takes passionate/erotic/ lustful sex to a whole new level and should always be indulged in by all those taking part, although as far as I'm concerned poor mouth hygiene puts a stop to any form of sex as does dirty nails or BO!
I do prefer a pussy to have natural scent as intimate body sprays and wipes taste awful and those important pheromones are essential!
For me sex without kissing is just mutual masterbation.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So has things changed so drastically since the days i was dating? I remember when, at the end of the date you escorted the lass home and kissed her goodnight.
I didn't whip my cock out for a goodnight suck!
Oh things have deffo changed since then
Woohoo. Now i just need a date! "
How about the 4th may |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lol...I'd say both are very intimate, but I think snogging is more personal because of the extremely close eye contact combined with being able to feel the intensity of their passion on one of the most sensitive area's on yer body...the lips and tongue
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is more intimate because I believe involves a mental connection whereas oral is just a sexual act.
do we think kissing some on a swinging date can be passionate ?
Well the words swinging and date do not go together and very different thing but no on a meet I do not believe you can kiss passionately or intimately compared to a person you have an emotional and mental connection with.
Lust and love are two very different things.
Interesting, I find that intimacy is more down to one particular organ and thats the brain, how you use it to suit the situation depends on the connection between 2 or more people.
For me the act of kissing takes passionate/erotic/ lustful sex to a whole new level and should always be indulged in by all those taking part, although as far as I'm concerned poor mouth hygiene puts a stop to any form of sex as does dirty nails or BO!
I do prefer a pussy to have natural scent as intimate body sprays and wipes taste awful and those important pheromones are essential!
For me sex without kissing is just mutual masterbation.."
Good post big man...with you nearly all the way on this one.
Connections of the mind has resulted in me having some of the best sex and friends i've ever had in my life, but i think love and lust are the same, just with varying levels of mental connection! |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
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"Kissing...by miles. If the kissing is hot, everything else just happens. That is why there is so much poetry and music inspired by kisses.
Couldn't agree more "
Can't recall any poems about oral or anal sex - bound to be some though, probably on a toilet wall |
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yeh kissing is good , but for me its that moment when she is about to orgasm and time sorta stands still for a second or two as you look into each others eyes.
Its like the soul is layed bare.For that split second there is a unique connection. |
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