"Normalised isn't the same as addicted to.
But you want crave more as a result?"
We have been around the scene since we were in our twenties. The lifestyle for us is just a bit of extra fun, We always keep our eyes on the ball because we’ve made many good friends on here, but generally tend to dip in and out a couple of times a year when it takes our fancy. Is it addictive? It depends on you i guess. For us its just an addition to an already great sex life. |
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It can be addictive because of the neuron response and the serotonin levels which you are then chasing again. I get it when I go to clubs. The lights, sound and visual stimulation of naked people all overwhelm the senses and it's difficult sometimes to come down from that. |
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I find that if doing something makes me crave more and more of it, it's obviously less satisfying than I seem to think it is. And should probably go see what else there is out there that actually works for me 💜 |
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Addiction is entirely dependent on an individual’s persona, whether that is swinging, alcohol, etc. It’s highly unlikely that a couple would both be that way inclined, although not impossible. A single is more likely to be addicted to sex rather than swinging I expect. Just enjoy it for what it is and unless it’s affecting other aspects of your lives don’t worry about labelling it. |
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