When you are polite and you get a reply saying “yep bro” and then get blocked.
Granted people get 100s of messages a day but if they don’t want them from single males… there is an option for that not to happen.
But also goes back to my point that as they hold the cards they can pick and choose (and quite rightly) but are we at a stage where you have to be rude when the initial message wasn’t being derogatory or rude. |
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That’s fair. There was another thread on this forum about being blocked for no reason and was just wondering if these experiences are encountered by other people also, assuming more single males than couples |
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By *4bimMan 22 weeks ago
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"Don’t take it personally, just forget about it and move on."
This.
People get irritated by such little things that have no impact on your life whatsoever.
Dump it, forget move on |
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Hey OP
No one owes you a response, no matter how 'nice' you feel your message may be.
Being blocked in itself is a response that you are not what they are looking for.
It's not arrogant, it's just choices.
I know it may sting a little but honestly just accept and move on like the majority of us do
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By *aizyWoman 22 weeks ago
west midlands |
"When you are polite and you get a reply saying “yep bro” and then get blocked.
Granted people get 100s of messages a day but if they don’t want them from single males… there is an option for that not to happen.
But also goes back to my point that as they hold the cards they can pick and choose (and quite rightly) but are we at a stage where you have to be rude when the initial message wasn’t being derogatory or rude. "
I'd say on here you're on a winner, you got a reply before the blocking, most people just get a straight blocking, silver linings OP!  |
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"Seems like there’s no arrogant people on fab and everyone is nice to everyone. "
Of course there are arrogant people, but some ask intrusive questions too and I have blocked because of that. That's why I asked you what questions you ask so I can see. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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It is not arrogance. The truth is, we get loads of messages. Some are vulgar, some just one or two words, others just not bothered to read our profile and are either the other side of the country, or completely not what we are looking for. After that there are all the unsolicited friend requests.
People ignore you because you are not what they are looking for and they really don’t have the will to “thanks but no thanks” to everyone. Single guys seem to think it’s easy for couples, but it is not easy at all, we struggle to find the guys we are looking for.
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By *luefire2Couple 22 weeks ago
just somewhere around here |
"Hey OP
No one owes you a response, no matter how 'nice' you feel your message may be.
Being blocked in itself is a response that you are not what they are looking for.
It's not arrogant, it's just choices.
I know it may sting a little but honestly just accept and move on like the majority of us do
S "
Exactly this! No one owes anyone anything on here. We block people without replying if they are not what we want. We aren't arrogant, just choosy lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"That’s fair. There was another thread on this forum about being blocked for no reason and was just wondering if these experiences are encountered by other people also, assuming more single males than couples "
There will be always be a reason for blocking and that's because, for whatever the reason, the recipient isn't interested in engaging further. |
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"Hey OP
No one owes you a response, no matter how 'nice' you feel your message may be.
Being blocked in itself is a response that you are not what they are looking for.
It's not arrogant, it's just choices.
I know it may sting a little but honestly just accept and move on like the majority of us do
S "
Bang on  |
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"It is not arrogance. The truth is, we get loads of messages. Some are vulgar, some just one or two words, others just not bothered to read our profile and are either the other side of the country, or completely not what we are looking for. After that there are all the unsolicited friend requests.
People ignore you because you are not what they are looking for and they really don’t have the will to “thanks but no thanks” to everyone. Single guys seem to think it’s easy for couples, but it is not easy at all, we struggle to find the guys we are looking for.
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This pretty much sums it up.
Whilst we aren't looking for single guys (replace with girls or couples) it is still accurate in our experience |
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