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I didn’t think it would be so difficult
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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I can’t believe how difficult it has been to find a single/solo lady to join us for some MFF fun.
We are decent, discreet and friendly, almost every lady tries to introduce their other half after chatting, rather than being upfront about their situation.
Or it’s a guy pretending to be a girl and chancing his luck.
Are we alone here or is it really difficult to find someone who wants to play with a couple? |
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I am in a couple but I do enjoy meeting couples by myself. I appreciate you being honest about your relationship status however it would put me off. I have no interest in meeting someone behind a partner's back.
I also feel your photos are more of others than yourselves.
J |
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"I’m really confused by your post OPs as you’ve already met with a lady. So it can’t be that difficult 🤷♂️"
Yes yes, they've met lady
But what about second lady?
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"I’m really confused by your post OPs as you’ve already met with a lady. So it can’t be that difficult 🤷♂️"
I was thinking the same.
Also OP, many may be put off by your relationship. If know I am.
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"I’m really confused by your post OPs as you’ve already met with a lady. So it can’t be that difficult 🤷♂️
Yes yes, they've met lady
But what about second lady?
[/obscure Lord of the Rings reference]"
I don't think he knows about second lady.
J |
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"I’m really confused by your post OPs as you’ve already met with a lady. So it can’t be that difficult 🤷♂️
Yes yes, they've met lady
But what about second lady?
[/obscure Lord of the Rings reference]
I don't think he knows about second lady.
J"
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As much as I appreciate you being upfront about your situation, I hope you can see the irony in your OP.
I was also going to suggest you visit a club but I guess there’s too much risk involved with being spotted and recognised, which makes the whole scenario even more difficult than it already is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 22 weeks ago
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"I am in a couple but I do enjoy meeting couples by myself. I appreciate you being honest about your relationship status however it would put me off. I have no interest in meeting someone behind a partner's back.
I also feel your photos are more of others than yourselves.
Thank you for that, it’s really helpful feedback and I appreciate that our circumstances are difficult, and the comment on the photos too.
We are new to fab and learning all the time x
J"
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It's hard for any couple to meet bi ladies,because that's what most couples are after on here and they can be choosy.
It will doubly hard for you guys because you're in other relationships away from here.
Many women would prefer to meet a couple who are married to each other or in a long term secure relationship.
As someone else suggested, you could try a club as people have had success meeting ladies there. |
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By *ayo45Man 22 weeks ago
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By far your best bet would be a club, probably a bi night. Northwich Sauna is close (ish) to you. It's a nice venue, it normally operates as a gay sauna but they have a bi-day / evening about once a month. Not tried the bi day so no idea how busy it gets but be prepared for there to be many more couples and single guys than single females. Chameleons at Darlaston, West Mids, would be another good option, again good facilities, bi day every Monday. Not particularly busy any more most of the time but bank holiday Mondays still are.
Best of luck - you'll need it! |
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