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Me and my misses was discussing about 3sums after the dogging show the other night bearing in mind she dont know I'm on here and she said the only person she would have a 3sum with is my best mate. Not sure this would be a good idea as she fancied the pants of him anyway. What are your views? |
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"Me and my misses was discussing about 3sums after the dogging show the other night bearing in mind she dont know I'm on here and she said the only person she would have a 3sum with is my best mate. Not sure this would be a good idea as she fancied the pants of him anyway. What are your views?"
I don't think involving your best friend would be a good idea, it could spoil a friendship. Then again you don't seem to mind risking your relationships for sex so go right ahead. |
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Bad bad move. You might lose your bestie and missus in one go! Sounds like she doesn't actually want a 3 sum but will do it just to shag your buddy. Tread carefully.....but take lots of pics lol. |
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"Bad bad move. You might lose your bestie and missus in one go! Sounds like she doesn't actually want a 3 sum but will do it just to shag your buddy. Tread carefully.....but take lots of pics lol."
I am with this train of thought.
Here it all the time mrs runs off with best mate and all that.
I had a mate who I would have let shag my mrs as he was a player, and still is even at 45 so he would have been ideal as he would not have took the baggage, but if your mate is single looking for a partner then tread carefully.
Talk some more with her and see if she is serious, join another site and show her whats on offer in the single guy route and see what she says, if its still a no then forget it, oh and remember swinging is NOT dogging, its not as what i would call seedy as a bloke you know nothing about coming up to the car window and jacking off over what he sees. Just my opinion on that subject by the way.
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My Missus ran off with my best mate....
I miss the closeness, the friendship, the sharing, the laughter, the sex.....
I've never really got over losing him  |
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"I think its hypercrytical if you don't like the idea"
It's not i don't like the idea of it it's just I wouldn't want to lose her and my best mate would love it if she would be interested in strangers so it would just be about the sex and nothing more |
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She did also say that if she was single that she would be well up for it but when I mentioned that if I brought someone home she would just say get out!! I did say you could get to know a little about them first but still she said that she don't believe in it when your in a relationship. But I don't believe her I think she would |
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"Me and my misses was discussing about 3sums after the dogging show the other night bearing in mind she dont know I'm on here and she said the only person she would have a 3sum with is my best mate. Not sure this would be a good idea as she fancied the pants of him anyway. What are your views?
I don't think involving your best friend would be a good idea, it could spoil a friendship. Then again you don't seem to mind risking your relationships for sex so go right ahead."
Well said. |
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Be careful..... My ex husband convinced me to try a threesome. I did and it turned out I liked it more than he did!
The thing is he had unfaithful too so I decided to end the relationship mainly because I figured I'd be better off swinging alone than swinging with a guy I didn't trust!
Totally backfired on him but hey I guess karma is a wonderful thing!!  |
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"Can't believe she told u she fancy s ure mate I'd avoid that one if I was u"
Luckily for me Paula hates all my mates, she says they lead me astray get me d*unk and keep me out all night .
Lucky me
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"I think its hypercrytical if you don't like the idea
It's not i don't like the idea of it it's just I wouldn't want to lose her and my best mate would love it if she would be interested in strangers so it would just be about the sex and nothing more"
That's rich, you don't want to lose her but your happy to risk losing her by shagging behind her back???
Also you sound a little insecure to us, in as much as you want her to fuck someone else but not someone she actually fancies. 
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"Me and my misses was discussing about 3sums after the dogging show the other night bearing in mind she dont know I'm on here and she said the only person she would have a 3sum with is my best mate. Not sure this would be a good idea as she fancied the pants of him anyway. What are your views?"
Would you prefer her to have a threesome with someone she don't fancy? |
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"My Missus ran off with my best mate....
I miss the closeness, the friendship, the sharing, the laughter, the sex.....
I've never really got over losing him "
Thank you Bob Monkhouse x |
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