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Do real no strings fuck buddies really exist ?
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In my experience it ends with one person wanting more. I did have a fantastic FB for a while but she ended up suggesting leaving her partner which was never what I wanted.
The thought of just having someone to meet for sex during the day 'when I am at my horniest by the way' would be a dream.
No strings just sexual fun to satisfy those needs then we both go back to our lives.
I guess that is too much to ask.. |
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Probably is too much to ask.
Regular sex creates feel good hormones apparently that in turn make you feel more attached to a person. If you can find someone who creates fewer of those hormones you've hit the jackpot.
Also I don't know that many people who genuinely want *just* sex. It can make a person feel a bit used. I know if it's a completely reciprocal arrangement that isn't the case but ya know...humans with emotions and all |
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All relationships, even ' no strings fuck buck-buddy' ones evolve over time and all parties (I was going to put both parties) need to be alert to the subtle signs of those changes.
It might just be that the fire was dwindling or one or other becoming more demanding emotionally.
Be able to step back and review the situation either together or on one's own , make a decision and if necessary act causing the minimum amount of hurt. |
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In my limited experience they do exist but rarely last. Most fizzle out in a couple of months after the excitement wears off or people's circumstances change.
Longest active one I had was 3 years but we could only meet every few months because of the distance.
Stil in touch with a few but we haven't meet in years. |
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I have got 5 NSA fuck buddys that I have known for over 10 years.
I can honestly say that no one has developed feelings for each other.
Right from the start I stated that I don't want any kind of relationship, just a great fuck.
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I would say it's very easy to have NSA fuck buddy, apart from going to as swinging club don't socialise with the person. Unless it's to arrange a meeting we don't chat. Also know they are not the only fuck buddy.
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By *oxy jWoman 9 weeks ago
somerset |
they are out there you just need to find them i have 2 fb/fwb one 30yrs one 25 years and has never crossed the line in the sand and its 100% sexual ie we dont date / meals/nights out none of that rubbish ive another friend ive been meeting her for 13 years so yes hard to find but not impossible ... but of course your a guy so its x100 more harder i guess...
if i was a guy id be kooinking at all those swinging couples who are looking for a fb/fwb for mrs as i guess its less hassle..
saying that i can't talk from a single woman point of view as so many now are seeking relationship too where years ago if you were swinging it meant for most that relationships were off the table or it at least felt that way ...i guess it starts right at the begining to get the message out loud and clear as some cant seperate sex from relationships ....
its why i wish there was a dating section then people get to see whos seeking relationships as i suspect it would be a great filter for many too |
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By *ornycougaWoman 9 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
Yes absolutely. I have had a number of them over the years. I left it to them to message when they fancied some fun. If diaries aligned we would meet for a few hours of hot sex and chat. Go our separate ways till next time. |
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Only ever one, she was a hotwife so no feeling's were caught on either side. Was about the most perfect arrangement possible. We only met on evenings, we never spent nights together so always got the kink size bed to myself, we never left a bedroom/living room so cost neither of us anything, just a few hours hot fucking then I'd drive her home and that was that until next time. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 9 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Do they exist? Yes.
I've had several over the years although they've tended to be more FWB's than straight up FB's as I've always preferred a social element as well as sex.
Are they easy to find? No. And that's important to me, as a decision to meet regularly isn't for everyone and it takes time to establish a connection that you want to maintain.
Approach with the right mindset of not staking any claim to them, nor applying any sense of ownership or expectations that they or you won't be meeting others as and when you or they choose, and they're awesome relationships to have.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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L would love to have a male FWB but we are finding it really difficult to find someone who fits the bill. Local, fit attractive to her, and a good sized cock. |
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By *ularliWoman 9 weeks ago
worcester |
"In my experience it ends with one person wanting more. I did have a fantastic FB for a while but she ended up suggesting leaving her partner which was never what I wanted.
The thought of just having someone to meet for sex during the day 'when I am at my horniest by the way' would be a dream.
No strings just sexual fun to satisfy those needs then we both go back to our lives.
I guess that is too much to ask.."
I love naughty afternoon fun but with work now it’s almost impossible. I like you I’m at my horniest then.
I don’t do FWB though. It’s to much hassle most of the time |
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By *dfsnzWoman 9 weeks ago
Co. Durham |
They’re out there for sure, I’ve had a few over the years. Some worked well, others didn’t. My FWB now is on a very similar wavelength and situation as I am, we both have respective partners who are aware and agree to what we do. At the end of the day, we’re friends who do things together, be that socially or sexually with each other or with others too  |
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By *host63Man 9 weeks ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"In my experience it ends with one person wanting more. I did have a fantastic FB for a while but she ended up suggesting leaving her partner which was never what I wanted.
The thought of just having someone to meet for sex during the day 'when I am at my horniest by the way' would be a dream.
No strings just sexual fun to satisfy those needs then we both go back to our lives.
I guess that is too much to ask.."
There is no such h thing as no strings sex there is always a price to be paid |
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"In my experience it ends with one person wanting more. I did have a fantastic FB for a while but she ended up suggesting leaving her partner which was never what I wanted.
The thought of just having someone to meet for sex during the day 'when I am at my horniest by the way' would be a dream.
No strings just sexual fun to satisfy those needs then we both go back to our lives.
I guess that is too much to ask..
There is no such h thing as no strings sex there is always a price to be paid"
What price would that be? |
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"In my experience it ends with one person wanting more. I did have a fantastic FB for a while but she ended up suggesting leaving her partner which was never what I wanted.
The thought of just having someone to meet for sex during the day 'when I am at my horniest by the way' would be a dream.
No strings just sexual fun to satisfy those needs then we both go back to our lives.
I guess that is too much to ask.."
agree there I had the same became an issue in the end sadly she had to go!! |
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