...and finding out what people want to get out of swinging.
Hi fabbers it's the husband of the couple here. I wonder how many of you love rocking other people's fantasies.
When I have spoken to couples starting out before I've found the guys wants are largely mechanical "I want an FFM" and the female partner is based on a feeling "I want to be seen, sexy and the centre of attention".
The mechanical requests are often easy to achieve (with willing participants) but fall down on the specifics that might be in that guy's head. A lot of guys assume that an FFM is different to reality.
The feeling based requests are often more straightforward. We can fulfil a "centre of attention" request by getting a group of well groomed guys and taking her out as the only female. She gets their eyes all over her body and the guys take turns to be funny, cheeky and flirtatious. She might choose to go home alone and get off or choose one or more of her dates that night to have fun with. It can be as subtle or indulgent as she likes.
One thing I've seen a lot of is the defeated guy. One I've met in the past thought his sex life was over due to disability. We lived far away but we got him back in the game with pictures and asking his opinion on lingerie etc. We included him in group chats and he gained friends and verifications. Eventually he even got a few meets from his glowing character references.
Have you fulfilled any wishes? What kinds of things would you be willing to do to rock someone else's world?
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