Hi all since I’ve been active more in the forum I’ve open all people to message me, but why have I been getting so many straight guys wanting to suck me off so to speak? If your bi or guy just state it but why lie if your bi |
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As an openly Bi guy, I find it frustrating especially on a place like here that offers a form of anonymity anyway.
I feel people like me ‘take the heat’ so Bi guys can exist and function in a society that is not entirely open to us.
Wonder how many of these ‘straight’ guys make homophobic jokes or comments with their mates and work colleagues etc, or do not challenge them when they hear such things themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Like you, my eyes have been opened in the forums and it seems that as much as it's believed most women are bi (or at least curious), the same could apply to guys, at least to some extent.
I'm not one for labels but someone who'd play in the heat of the moment, or just wanted to test their boundaries (like me) isn't what I'd call bi.
And as it seems the bi/straight question can put some people off (same as age brackets, physical appearance, smoking) I xan see why people will fib.
Personally, I think a lot said in the forums should be taken with a pinch of salt. And profiles should be read with an acceptance that we're all a bit optimistic about ourselves.
But people are people, and most are lovely. And I'll take connection over profile fibs any time. |
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One of the positives about being openly bi is how you’re not bothered on here with messages from biphobic people. It really helps. Why would I want to meet with anyone who is put off by bi guys? I’m put off by that. |
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By *CExeCouple 22 weeks ago
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I'm not sure 'biphobic'is the right term for couples who don't want to meet bi men. I'd say im hetero flexible rather than bi, but we have had men who are clearly far, far more interested in cock, and it ruins the MFM dynamic when some cockgoblin is spending 99% of the time trying to suck dick, rather than making the woman the centre of attention which is what we look for in our meets. We happily meet bi or straight guys, but can get a feel for the ones looking more for cock as they can be oddly specific and aggressive in their messages lol. |
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It’s just good manners for the guest to be mindful of what is expected. It’s just good etiquette to lavish the time and attention on whoever has been decided upon, or equally if no stipulation. Of course, we bi guys ain’t a monolith - I’d probably be more distracted by a woman in the room, hahahaha. |
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