I don't know if it has another name but "I want" would work like this:
You take it in turns telling the other person (or maybe one of the other people if this is a group thing) what you want to do to them or have them do to you. The other person can say 'yes', 'no' or 'only if' where they suggest a small adjustment (otherwise saying no is rubbish when they nearly want to do the thing but just want a few details changed). It doesn't mean you get to do the thing right away, just that the other person is agreeable, or not, to the idea.
So start off with the smaller things, more romantic wants perhaps. Such as "I want to kiss you in the rain until we're both soaking wet" and build up to "I want an alarm clock blowjob on Sunday morning" and wherever else your imagination takes you beyond that.
By listening to and building on each other's wants you can work out some great fantasies between you and maybe plan on making them realities one day. Plus there will be a list you can get on with right now.  |
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Have played both Monogamy and Oral Fun from Lovehoney, both really fun and have good build ups allowing you to get more comfortable and more tipsy with each other as the game progresses.
I also invented a good set of forfeits that have went down well when I’ve played with partners before. So basically you play any strip game until you’re both naked, then you move onto the next round. Again you can play any game you like. Quick, easy card games that you can easily do multiple rounds of work best.
The forfeits work like this - take the following set of four cards from a standard pack of cards and shuffle:
A = lips
2 = neck
3 = chest
4 = stomach
5 = inner thigh
The loser has to pick a card and kiss the winner wherever indicated. After a few rounds you can add the following four cards:
6 = penis/vagina
Then after a few more rounds add ONE of the following:
7 = full sex
Once this is picked it’s game over and the winner gets to pick exactly how it ends. |
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