"Do you have to be attracted to someone to sleep with them or can you just do it?"
Its muti faceted. Gotta have some level of attraction and not find things that are off putting....which I'm sure extends for women to me as well.
She could be a stunner but her personality is abrasive so I just nope out. In exactly the same breath she could be completely average but have an amazing personality which does it for me.
Point is, it's not what just what you look like for me but who you are as a person as well.
Having standards is a good thing. I'll only have sex with someone because I legitimately want to and I learnt that a long time ago.
I, like many others, like being desired and not being a "you're the only option so you'll do" kinda man so I extend that courtesy to women as well.
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The word I like to use is ‘fuckable’ because it means many things to many people. Some of the best fucks I’ve had are from the ‘very fuckable’ pool whereas conventionally attractive have been… m’eh…
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Yes there has to be an attraction for me, but as previously mentioned, personally is a massive part for me too. Just can’t do with high maintenance, down to earth and great banter will win every time.
Mrs is all about personality.
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