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Ask in private, answer in public: part 9
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Good morning you gloriously naughty people.
I (hubby) thought I'd start off a new thread as the last one was full.
I'm in. |
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Probably two nights at le cap d'Agde last week. I got up to some filthy stuff, some of which surprised even me. I was exhausted! |
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My most memorable fuck for me was our first time going to club 20 years ago.
Stepping into large jacuzzi naked as hubby followed and had few lot of older men looking at me
Ended up hubby watching me with the three men |
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Back in the day, when I was 22, an older man whipped me with a flogger and I couldn’t stop giggling because I felt so naughty. Looking back it’s kinda cute, I was so innocent and naive. |
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Quickest way to get off I watching hardcore porn and being naked and using my pink vibrator x |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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I’m in |
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Hubby got into swinging because he's bi and the gay sites didn't quite hit right. Also part of his neurodiversity is that he is a sensate and loves things like stroking and oral so would just offer oral to people he liked the look of. He also has a thing for "wish fulfillment" and helping people achieve or try out their fantasies (a huge mental high). This is how he has got into rope work etc.
She got into swinging through him and is still very much a newbie but we are going slow at her pace. |
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I’ve a guy that I would meet up with every 6-8 weeks. It’s usually me on my knees sucking him before he has his way with me. I love his cock and he’s so good with it  |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Being taken to a club with a female playmate who knew I had bi interests. Playing with her in a public open space and then having a guy “join” us who it turns out she knew and had chatted to. It was my first ever bi mmf and I sucked and worshipped his cock until he blew a lovely load down my throat |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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I am in questions pkease |
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Oh god most "wholesome" experience swinging?
It's one of two I guess.
It was back when I was a single male on a different swinging site. I had a couple that I helped with a hotwife fantasy (sending posed dirty pics to the husband at work but not actually fucking the wife). They invited me to a munch and it was fun. People were friendly and interesting. I didn't expect much attention being a single guy but apparently being a couples +1 carried some weight and I was the subject of people trying to get a little "kiss and tell".
There was one woman that was post menopausal in her late 60s who had a wicked sense of humour and got me blushing twice. She was popular but during the munch revealed that the people there were happy to be mates but she didn't have much sex. I looked her over and couldn't imagine why not. She had lovely skin and a smile that brought energy to her eyes.
Rather than showing sympathy I grinned at her wolfishly and said "bullshit". She was shocked and insisted she was mostly an online friend to the local swinger community. She only came to the munches to hear the stories and encourage others. I doubled down and insisted that there was no way someone as attractive as her wasn't getting cock on the regular. It was her turn to blush as a second guy and his wife agreed that if she wasn't getting cock it was because guys were too shy or intimidated by her experience. She was flustered but loving the attention and my couple joined in by openly complementing her.
On the way home I messaged her saying that I was picturing fucking her for the entire conversation and she started saying "you are just trying to make a has been feeling good". My response was "oh now I gotta prove this. Where are we meeting?". I met with her and enjoyed her body. It was the first time I found out that in a lot of cases the face and hands wrinkle more than the body. Her skin was soft and silky and I kissed over her back before and after pounding her pussy with abandon. Afterwards while lying there I said "I win" which earned me a playful slap.
The teasing carried on as I boasted how good a fuck she was to the husbands I mentioned. They both found out first hand and she had regular visits until I started dating and swore off the swinging.
There we go. A long answer but I don't apologise for that. Still one of my fondest swinging memories. |
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I don't have a regular guy to play with but when K and I first got together I was in a poly situation with two women and one guy. He would be my go-to when I wanted to suck cock but he was too big to fuck me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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We are in again |
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By *tms1xCouple 27 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
Probably best experience was this year as a day visitor to a swingers resort just being naked in fresh air and playing however and whenever we liked! Total freedom |
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No haha Joel is a nickname I had and Dorian is the legend of Dorian grey the man that never ages |
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By *tms1xCouple 27 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
Our current favourite scenario is ffm but yet to happen |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Be open
Talk plenty to people (especially in clubs and at socials)
Be prepared to do a good amount of work as a single guy
As a bonus one, don't get discouraged, and have patience! |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Either watching each other enjoyed or WS |
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No I haven't played the "are they swingers game" but I have played the "how dirty are they?" game. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Ok I am in xxx |
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By *tms1xCouple 27 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
Probably wouldn’t travel that far to be honest but if away for weekend would be up for fun local to that area if things clicked |
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By *tms1xCouple 27 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
We’ve yet to break our couple cherry but we are probably only a soft swap couple so lots of oral |
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Not quite. Me and a fuck buddy did place a karma bet on how far her friend would want to go. She said she'd do anal. I said I thought she was hesitant and we'd be lucky to get to PIV. She went to a bi spitroast but not anal. I should've bet a sex act on it lol |
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Not a stampede thats for sure. A steady trickle of interest, but its harder than we thought it would be  |
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Girls only for now, but never say never i suppose ! |
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By *a1970Man 27 weeks ago
East cork |
I'm in but who do we ask.... Lots of lovely couples here I'd like to chat with |
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Enjoyed everything that different clubs have to offer because we can 😂 |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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FantasyExplorers1313
FormerWelshcouple2020
Cherry Delight
Never2old4toys
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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I’m in |
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Christopher Hitchens, Joe Rogan, Dr Anthony Chaffee and Graham Hancock - so many questions |
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Favourite sexual position is doggy. Get nice and deep and go for it. I also like face to face but her legs up on my shoulders to really get that G spot.
Least favourite is any side on position it's good for porn but you need a long shlong to make it work and I'm a happy Mr average. |
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By *hipdaleCouple 27 weeks ago
Greenhithe |
How big his balls were and how much he could cum.
Her
When I told him I was bi |
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Never2old4toys
Coupleswithkinks23
Xtms1x |
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"Never2old4toys
Coupleswithkinks23
Xtms1x"
We are honoured now to guess why you'd name us :D |
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Late answer.
My most imaginative fantasy would be a "choose my own adventure" fantasy. I would put a set of options at different stages of my night and get fabbers to vote on what I do and who I do it with. |
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The event I would plan is in thread 8 of this game. I'll not type it out again. It was a long answer. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Back in |
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No I (male) don't play with "discreet bi males". Our opinion is of you are going to swing then make sure your wife is on board. Some think it preachy. We don't want the drama and we like nice guys. |
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Emilia Clarke & Mila Kunis. Both wonderfully sexy and dream likevfun too. |
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By *hipdaleCouple 27 weeks ago
Greenhithe |
Done everything we had on a list so no idea perhaps sex on the beach with a stranger when we go on holiday |
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Beer
Spirits
Champagne
Though rarely drink the 2nd two |
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Yogurt mixed with granola,apple and muesli bought from pret. |
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By *hipdaleCouple 27 weeks ago
Greenhithe |
Roast beef in tiger bread with horseradish and salad |
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A wee weekend away to stay with friends. A mixture of city strolling, watching a few live shows then an evening/night of pure filth back at theirs  |
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I went on holiday with a girlfriend and hubby and I spent the whole week texting about the what ifs. So I set up a meet on my way home from the airport and walked into the house covered in cum and from that day we have both been hooked.
Never had more than 2 guys at once, it's on my list to try more |
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By *tms1xCouple 27 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
Our favourite moment was the first time we had sex in a big room in a club, we only played alone but with the erotic atmosphere and the thrill of being watched we got hooked! We talked for days about the experience and still talk now. Another hil-light was a day visit to a swinger’s resort and being naked all day in the sun on loungers and doing whatever we wanted when we wanted |
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Our favourite experience so far has been renting a big country house in the middle of nowhere with 7 of our other Fab friends! It was a weekend jam packed with laughter, food, games and plenty of fucking. It'll be a hard one to beat for sure! |
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My favourite fab memory? Oh lord, I get so few responses from anyone, probably when a woman out of the blue sent me some pictures of her in stockings |
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By *JB2000Woman 27 weeks ago
Kings Lynn |
Handjobs.
Depends how good they were |
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By *tms1xCouple 27 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
It’s hard to say if you’d play with any one or a couple until you actually meet them face to face etc. looks can be deceiving both good and bad |
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Definitely a threesome with a lovely lady
Alternatively there is another couple, although we suspect we may be too old for and too far from them!
Everything within our soft boundaries |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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I’m in |
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By *tms1xCouple 27 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
Outdoor sex/sex on a beach/sex in front of others all to be repeated time after time |
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Candles, music, rose petals and a lovely home-cooked meal! |
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Vodka and lemonade or a Bloody Mary |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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I’m in |
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Fucked against a hotel window in Manchester in my sexy underwear with hubby downstairs in the street looking up |
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By *MCMan 27 weeks ago
London/EA |
Ask away, always interesting to see what people are curious about… |
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To be fucked on holiday in a pool by a stranger while hubby sits on his subbed |
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Surprisingly enough, we've not received many weird requests at all. We think our current message filters have a big part to play in preventing them.
If we had to pick one, the closest would be to go over to someone's house and verbally/physically abuse (nothing sexual) them then leave. Although it might be someone's "Yum", it isn't one of ours. |
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By *MCMan 27 weeks ago
London/EA |
A fair few couples ask, however I’d imagine a lot aren’t actually couples… |
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A 6some where certain things were ticked off lists |
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Can't choose one, so
Her - his humour, height and mind
Him - everything about her
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Sounds like fun |
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R mentioned it a few times and in the end curiosity got the better of P |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Go on ask away I’ll let you  |
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I don't mind as long as the guy is into it. Lx |
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Being flown to New York first class by two cute bi twinks lx |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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We are in xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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For the F it had simmered for a while, but as she got older she realised that it was OK to feel that way. There was no real defining moment.
For M it has been more recently as we have started to swing and as he has got older and more comfortable with who is is and less bothered by societal norms, that if it is fun, no one is getting hurt and everything is consensual, then all is good, so things were tried, enjoyed and retried! |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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I am in |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Porsche GT3 |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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In |
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A bit late to the party but we're in |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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In |
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I can do a Mexican wave with my tongue... Yes it feels amazing over the tip of a cock or a juicy clit |
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I think get all of the couples into one room, maybe a dark room and just do what comes naturally. |
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Yes, in a pub toilet with two guys whose names I never got to know. |
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Three on a couple of occasions. I’m not sure I’d go more than four, but love being the centre of pleasure for them. Using my hands, my mouth and of course my pussy. |
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I’ve lost count, not because it’s a huge amount, just that I never kept an eye on it!
A few up the arse, only two bareback ever |
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A threesome with Tom Hardy and his wife. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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An outdoor gangbang. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Where ever they want to. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Yes please x when and where  |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Cherry delight |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Group fun 4/5 men. |
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"Group fun 4/5 men. "
How many men has fucked your arse I one night ? |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Cream then jam on a scone
Devonshire clotted cream and strawberry jam
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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It doesn't do anything for me.
I would be very surprise if anyone did. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Message for homemade share |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Just over 4 weeks ago I bought a E-Stim to try, and yes I would use it again. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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DVP is on my list, but with a jelly belly and fat arse it's not going to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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I don't think I have done anything filthy or kinky, I am a bit boring. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Don't think I am good at anything in particular.
I am still on a learning curve as I was a bit late to the sex party. |
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By *anSMan 27 weeks ago
Shrewsbury |
Still in, replies might be a little slow, but fire away  |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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We’re in. |
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Back in and answering some left over from yesterday |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Having a vibrator in whilst out for a meal. |
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Him - cottage pie
Her - chicken lasagne |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Talked about it for ages and quite enjoy the liberated feeling. No, never. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Happy Friday and In |
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For Charlie it's always reclaim sex. Nothing beats that orgasm.
Debs - probably anal sex whilst she plays with her clit. That makes her body do amazing things.
Debs' most surprising orgasm was probably during a threesome. He was electric with his tongue and once he slipped his fingers inside there was no turning back. The only other guy to make her squirt. |
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