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How kinky are you?
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By *oxy jWoman 22 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
im very open minded and done lots and alot of those things are considered kinky however i do have limits ... i find anyone who says the have no limits a red flag and avoid
same as those who say do anything with anyone at anytime = red flag |
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"im very open minded and done lots and alot of those things are considered kinky however i do have limits ... i find anyone who says the have no limits a red flag and avoid
same as those who say do anything with anyone at anytime = red flag"
totally agree I would like to think I’m open minded and have kinks but there is always a limit |
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I have been told by others that I am kinky many times. I had a message the other day from a guy saying that the reason why he didn't approach me at a swinging club was because I was to wild for him.
I have and will maintain that I am not kinky or wild in any way.
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Kinky. But even with my niche (and sometimes misunderstood)kinks there are boundaries I don't cross. I agree that someone saying 'no limits' can be a concern and red flag. |
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"Don't have any limits and I think that I'm kinky as fuck. "
Trust us EVERYONE has limits. You don't know what and how far othrr people go with their 'kinks'
Some kinks can't be mentioned on here without a forum block.
But could find your limits within a few mins if we really wanted to. |
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"im very open minded and done lots and alot of those things are considered kinky however i do have limits ... i find anyone who says the have no limits a red flag and avoid
same as those who say do anything with anyone at anytime = red flag"
Agree with this. Everyone has limits. Saying you have no limits is off putting for me personally. |
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By *rangarCouple 22 weeks ago
Bromsgrove |
Judging by the reaction we get when we play in the dungeon areas at swing clubs we must be quite kinky….but there again we go to a lot of fet clubs and play pretty hard…we do tone it down cos at swing events as some people seem to think it’s too much. |
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Very kinky, but typically due to being open minded and open to try and explore. I find myself going ‘I wonder what that is like’
For me it’s the concept of the idea, discussing idea and planning and then exploring it. Sometimes the lead up is more fun than the reality and other times you find a new enjoyment 
If you try something new, if it’s not for you can always stop or not do again! |
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By *rispyDuckMan 22 weeks ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
"And what are your limits ? "
Think I’m very kinky sometimes  depending who I’m playing with & how heavy we been flirting and gagging to fuck each other lol.
My only limits are :
‘No sausage in my butt or mouth’ haha 
But I’ve been very esp when playing with cuckold couples |
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"Don't have any limits and I think that I'm kinky as fuck. "
Always a worry when someone says they have no limits...
Example- lets bind you down and castrate you. What, but you said you had no limits...
See my gist...  |
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"Don't have any limits and I think that I'm kinky as fuck.
Always a worry when someone says they have no limits...
Example- lets bind you down and castrate you. What, but you said you had no limits...
See my gist... "
Good point, well made lol |
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As the saying goes.
You never know how kinky you are till you meet someone really kinky !.
So with that in mind, if you have never met anyone and thought, Ooooh thats kinky,then maybe you are, after all, pretty flipping kinky 🤣 |
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No scat, animals, children or permanent injury. Apart from that it’s negotiable. Don’t trust people that say they have no limits.
This summer has been a series of kinky camping events. Flogging, watersports, wax play, needle play, fire whipping and learning new things. |
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"im very open minded and done lots and alot of those things are considered kinky however i do have limits ... i find anyone who says the have no limits a red flag and avoid
same as those who say do anything with anyone at anytime = red flag"
Exactly. Always ask what like or not and respect |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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not a fan of poo or severe pain that leaves marks that last or of course anything illegal.
outside of that while I've not found limits I'm sure they are there |
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By *um2020Man 22 weeks ago
Lampeter |
I'm still discovering new kinks.. But I guess my kinks might be another mans (or woman's) nightmare and vice versa... I Have what seem the usual limits when it comes to poo and permanent marking... But anything else I'd like to find where my limits are |
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By *WANDTGCouple 22 weeks ago
Borough of Greenwich |
Feltching, toilet play, blood sports, needles, scarification, branding, ball gags are some of my limits.
So anyone who says they have no limits are willing to have the above tried on them !!!!! |
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I like to think I've no limits in that alpha men have made me do things I've not wanted to or not liked very much. Some of these things have become pretty standard service now and they were right to get me to do them. Other things are occasionally done that I don't like much but I get rewarded for good behaviour and associate doing it with reward. So my limits are a little flexible.
My main vanilla limit is I don't want my clit touched unless for very brief amount of time.
Obviously it goes without saying that things like going to Germany and putting my clit in a frying pan and eating it together with another would be a hard limit along with other drastic things! lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I've been told I'm extremely kinky.would love to know the phycology behind why I am so kinky.
Because some of the thoughts I have a freaky.
For example getting my ex gf to spit in my face,piss in my mouth then sit her arse on my face all while im using a dildo on myself wearing her knickers.
Like why on earth do I get turned on by that? |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I love watersports, being pegged, preferably while sucking a big cock, eating cream pie, being spanked as I cum or having nipple clamps pulled as I cut. Is that counted as kinky ?? |
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There are levels, and then there are levels!
Anyone who thinks they have no limits, or very few, doesn't have the imagination required for some extreme kinksters.
I have a friend who would soon test those bold claims! 
Experience has taught me that although I'm fairly kinky and broadminded, I'm also fairly middle of the road.
C |
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"There are levels, and then there are levels!
Anyone who thinks they have no limits, or very few, doesn't have the imagination required for some extreme kinksters.
I have a friend who would soon test those bold claims!
Experience has taught me that although I'm fairly kinky and broadminded, I'm also fairly middle of the road.
C"
I would love to hear more about your friend |
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(Male here) We are both bi and pretty kinky. But there are things we do together we would never do with anyone else. (Unprotected sex being the obvious one) Definitely have some limits.
I used to cam a lot, and I have done things for people that I did not get a kick out of at all, but if it makes them happy…
(Oh, and it always makes me smile when couples say they are kinky and one or both of them has straight on their profile. Man, you haven’t even got started yet! ) |
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By *el71Couple 21 weeks ago
Preston |
"Limits are for discussion with each individual - for instance what i do with Bob, I might not want to do with Mike!
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Thank goodness for that. I've heard what you did with Bob and it scared the bejesus out of me..
Mike |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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I have my preferences and limits in terms of what I want to do but I'm much more open to chatting about things that fall outside of those though and have quite the creative imagination. |
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I'm of the opinion that if you haven't tried something you don't know if you would like it...
But obviously hard limits are anything illegal, and maybe anything that has the chance of permanently marking your body |
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I would say I'm am very kinky. I do tame it down for this site.
As open minded as I am there are a few niche areas I do not cover.
People having no limits may just mean those people just haven't found them yet or tried everything. Everyone has a limit, trust me on that one.
I have shot fetish scenes for various websites and performers personal sites. |
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Our limits are always changing. If you’d have told me 15 years ago I’d even contemplate swinging I’d have shot you down. Then when we first started I had a no kissing rule. I think the further down the rabbit hole we go the more open we are to experiment and push further. As a whole though I’d say we were pretty kinky |
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By *rispyDuckMan 20 weeks ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
This 1 time on a social in weatherspoons
Ended up fingering a sexy Hotwife whilst she wanked me off under the table in a booth 😂
It was a busy Saturday and we’re getting drinks brought to our booth as this happened 😈 |
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Beware anyone who says they have no limits. Or say OK if you have no limits I'll cut your ear off and feed it to you.
My kink is D/s dynamics, with Ipmact Play, sensory of a few types (temperature play, nipple torture etc) bondage, sensory deprivation, Domming women for impact, mind fuckery. Cnc. |
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"This 1 time on a social in weatherspoons
Ended up fingering a sexy Hotwife whilst she wanked me off under the table in a booth 😂
It was a busy Saturday and we’re getting drinks brought to our booth as this happened 😈"
That happens every weekend in a spoons |
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"how kinky And what are your limits ?
Very. Limits, blood, needles, fire poo, ball busting, trampling are hard limits.
There are more. "
For me it's the same, anything that involves my body getting hurt, especially down there. |
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"im very open minded and done lots and alot of those things are considered kinky however i do have limits ... i find anyone who says the have no limits a red flag and avoid
same as those who say do anything with anyone at anytime = red flag"
Absolutely spot on |
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If a person gets a concept or an activity in BDSM or fetish wrong it can have serious consequences for themselves or others.
My approach is it is best to educate them in friendly way, and not ridicule them. No-one learns by being ridiculed.
A lack of knowledge is not necessarily a red flag, but it is an opportunity to engage an educate. If they don't want to learn that is another matter.
I know that when I started half I was told by so called experts or absorbed about kink and BDSM was wrong. I regularly hear nonsense spoken about BDSM in an authorative way.
So Let's be kind kinksters. |
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"I'm pretty kinky tbf but poo, puke and anything illegal is obviously off limits "
Never got the poo stuff it makes me feel weird every time it's mentioned, fair play if people do but no not for me. |
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"If a person gets a concept or an activity in BDSM or fetish wrong it can have serious consequences for themselves or others.
My approach is it is best to educate them in friendly way, and not ridicule them. No-one learns by being ridiculed.
A lack of knowledge is not necessarily a red flag, but it is an opportunity to engage an educate. If they don't want to learn that is another matter.
I know that when I started half I was told by so called experts or absorbed about kink and BDSM was wrong. I regularly hear nonsense spoken about BDSM in an authorative way.
So Let's be kind kinksters."
I echo this. I had a flame a bit close to my nipple once in fire play , despite a whole range of safty precautions being in place, luckily it was just a bit close. Stung and tingled and stayed hard for 2 weeks but eventually went back to normal. Does show how easy things can happen though even with experience and trust. Xxxx |
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