"If you need to be persuaded to want someone then you don't really want them."
I was thinking more in the context of the enormous choice available on here and what makes someone eye-catching, that first moment you see them, then how and why something develops, or doesn’t…. |
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"If you need to be persuaded to want someone then you don't really want them.
I was thinking more in the context of the enormous choice available on here and what makes someone eye-catching, that first moment you see them, then how and why something develops, or doesn’t…."
Thats different, that's natural attraction and it'll be different for everyone. For us it's always about the personality so that's extremely difficult online which is why we go to clubs and talk to people in everyday life. |
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"If you need to be persuaded to want someone then you don't really want them.
I was thinking more in the context of the enormous choice available on here and what makes someone eye-catching, that first moment you see them, then how and why something develops, or doesn’t….
Thats different, that's natural attraction and it'll be different for everyone. For us it's always about the personality so that's extremely difficult online which is why we go to clubs and talk to people in everyday life."
Totally get this. Whilst others are attracted by looks, to me it is inner beauty that shines through when communicating with others. It’s harder to do via messages but we’ve certainly had some great conversations on here and at meets. Mrs SW |
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There isn't an enormous choice on fab. There are a lot of people on fab but only a small percentage that an individual will be *genuinely* attracted to.
If I walked into a room with 100 men in it they might all think (assuming all 100 were attracted to me for the sake of argument) ' I won't bother trying because she's got the choice of 100 guys'. In reality I'd probably only find five at most attractive |
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