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Genuinely bisexual couples.
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"We are both bi! But we can be picky! Sometimes it’s hard to find another couple we both click with….but not impossible!
This is definitely us! "
I’d chat but you’ve blocked all men apparently. Shame cos you seem really nice! |
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By *oxy jWoman 17 weeks ago
somerset |
4 way attraction is the main problem and then the other one is alot of swinging couples who say they are bi are mainly play bi not full on bi so that turns alot off too
as a fully bi couple we look for the bi side of things away from the scene and look on the lgbt scene instead and then you find the real bi world rather than the put a show on world and the thing is meeting face to face in a gay bar/club with people who are not afraid to seek what they want as long as the attraction is there we've met and become friends with 100s this way and is so much less hassle ..thats how me n hubs find our bi fun |
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"We are both bi! But we can be picky! Sometimes it’s hard to find another couple we both click with….but not impossible!"
So true! But we have been lucky and still live in hope of more sexy experiences   x |
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We are open about being an easygoing bi couple who like meeting couples where MM/FF play isnt taboo - we love MM/FF swaps - and everyone naked body bundles - but hard (pardon the pun) to meet couples equally on same wavelength xx |
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"I think it’s easier to get with a bi male…just saying…dm me  "
Your profile says straight.
For us we wouldn't even engage with you. There's this weird thing on fab where guys put straight so as not to turn off the tiny percentage of women who are like don't meet bi guys
But at the same time this actually reduces chances of you meeting bi couples
Not sure I understand the logic personally but you do you  c |
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By *luefire2Couple 17 weeks ago
just somewhere around here |
"Why is it so rare to find couples where both parties are bi, comfortable being bi and enjoy this dynamic? "
Haven't you read the hundreds of bisexual couple posts lol? There are actually a lot of us x |
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"Why is it so rare to find couples where both parties are bi, comfortable being bi and enjoy this dynamic?
Haven't you read the hundreds of bisexual couple posts lol? There are actually a lot of us x"
What I have noticed is that a lot of bi couples are alternative. And I love this haha x |
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We are hoping to attend that evening too
"We will be at penthouse playrooms on the 26th July for their bi night, if any other genuine bi couples fancy a drink x xit is a good club with a good alternative feel to it x"
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By *oubleDsCouple 17 weeks ago
Manchester |
"We are both bi! But we can be picky! Sometimes it’s hard to find another couple we both click with….but not impossible!
Yes! Us too!"
yup totaly agree with this.also instant delete to all msges from "straight/bi" guys |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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We are both bi / bi curious and really struggle with the 4 way attraction. One issue is that usually there is no or only one picture of the male. Why I don’t know, especially as we are talking about couples. |
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By *rMrs84Couple 17 weeks ago
Doncaster |
We enjoy bi play. Were neither of us ‘fully hi’ (as in we both probably have more same sex limits than hetero limits) but we both enjoy it.
As others have said it’s hard to find but it is out there. Likewise we never engage with ‘my fab says I’m straight but…’ types. We’ve no interest in anyone closeting themselves. Final point is it’s really quite hard to meet bi males organically as there’s a default assumption ‘woman bi, men straight’ and men are still nervous to speak up. |
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By *ab_paulMan 11 weeks ago
North Hertfordshire |
Another strange phenomenon - there are vanishingly few bi people who have posted pics or videos of their bi fun. My excuse is I've hardly had any experience and have been more worried about something going wrong than interested in getting my phone out |
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"Trouble is still so much stigma linked with bi men many still hide on single profiles or other sites for fear of judgement, missing out on much more fun if shared fully with their partners  "
totally agree with you..x |
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Openly bi guy here. I much prefer it that way. It may well put some folk off, but I much prefer real bi people to see and know what I like.
I have a regular lady friend who is also bi and I can say without a shadow of a doubt that the foursomes we have had with other bi couples have been amongst the sensually exciting experiences we have both ever shared. |
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By *lowhands7Man 11 weeks ago
South Leicestershire / Burton on Trent |
"Why is it so rare to find couples where both parties are bi, comfortable being bi and enjoy this dynamic? "
I'm glad it's not just me finding it hard to find genuine bi couples. And by genuine I mean couples who actually turn up when arranged! |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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I believe some people find it hard to admit there sexuality, but this day and age it’s completely fine, and personally I love playing with a bi couple it’s the best of both worlds, and usually find these couples the kinkiest. |
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"We are both bi! But we can be picky! Sometimes it’s hard to find another couple we both click with….but not impossible!
This answer 
Agreed  "
Very tricky to get a 4 way connection, even finding a bi guy is hard enough! |
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We choose to be open about it in terms of full transparency. But we find it really hard to come across people who actually desire you and want to make conversation and meet in the real world! It is what it is, but we now tend to let others come to us! |
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We are fully Bi, not 'fab' Bi and living in Northern Ireland it's been so tricky to find other fully Bi couples or Bi males who are open and proud of being Bi AND who we have a mutual attraction with.
There are plenty of males saying privately to us they are Bi but then say they are straight on their profile. A lie is not a good start so we discount them. |
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"We are fully Bi, not 'fab' Bi and living in Northern Ireland it's been so tricky to find other fully Bi couples or Bi males who are open and proud of being Bi AND who we have a mutual attraction with.
There are plenty of males saying privately to us they are Bi but then say they are straight on their profile. A lie is not a good start so we discount them. "
We are the same. We have not met a guy who identified as straight so far. We find they tell you what they think you want to hear. Then change as you get closer to a meet and get more interested in Vicky.
Unfortunately for the guys. Vicky like to start the night off watching the guys playing. If she gets horny enough she joins in. If not. She doesn’t join in. |
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"We enjoy bi play. Were neither of us ‘fully hi’ (as in we both probably have more same sex limits than hetero limits) but we both enjoy it.
As others have said it’s hard to find but it is out there. Likewise we never engage with ‘my fab says I’m straight but…’ types. We’ve no interest in anyone closeting themselves. Final point is it’s really quite hard to meet bi males organically as there’s a default assumption ‘woman bi, men straight’ and men are still nervous to speak up. "
Yeah I freely state I’m fully bi in fab but I sure don’t in real life, feels more like it’s none of their business in my real life situations, work, friends etc but some do know just not many |
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"We enjoy bi play. Were neither of us ‘fully hi’ (as in we both probably have more same sex limits than hetero limits) but we both enjoy it.
As others have said it’s hard to find but it is out there. Likewise we never engage with ‘my fab says I’m straight but…’ types. We’ve no interest in anyone closeting themselves. Final point is it’s really quite hard to meet bi males organically as there’s a default assumption ‘woman bi, men straight’ and men are still nervous to speak up.
Yeah I freely state I’m fully bi in fab but I sure don’t in real life, feels more like it’s none of their business in my real life situations, work, friends etc but some do know just not many "
I’m the same but I am proud to be bi just nice to keep to a select group of people |
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"Me and the mrs are both bi. It’s hard to find a bi couple who just play same sex. We have amazing sex with each other so not looking for opposite sex play. "
we are exactly same! same sex play for on here! |
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I wouldn't say that either of us are 'bi'. We are not particularly attracted to people of the same gender. We are however very hedonistic and life is too short for hangups. As long as it's safe and consensual, what's wrong with a bit of a '4-way see if it fits'. |
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"Me and the mrs are both bi. It’s hard to find a bi couple who just play same sex. We have amazing sex with each other so not looking for opposite sex play.
we are exactly same! same sex play for on here!"
Nice to we arnt the only ones! |
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It's just so sad that so many bi couples put 'straight' for the gent, even though they are, at least, bi-curious... we don't even engage with profiles like that because we like to know EVERYONE knows who and what they are, and who they want to touch, before we play! |
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"It's the only way we play. If you join us you will be playing with both of us equally. Straight (pun intended) swap is just too limiting."
Yep....it's lovely to have the fluidity that bi play offers... |
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"It's the only way we play. If you join us you will be playing with both of us equally. Straight (pun intended) swap is just too limiting."
It’s the only way we play too, and going forward we will only do bi nights at clubs as not only do you meet similar couples, the whole vibe is so chilled. A bi couples night would be good at a club but they don’t seem to be a thing.
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I’m curious how would the bi couples feel about being approached by a gay guy who is interested in having his first bi experience I’m conscious it’s close to being a unicorn hunter and wanted to ask how couples feel |
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By *RSTCouple 11 weeks ago
S. Northants |
We're both bi. But Hubby in a more active bi role these days than the wife. She enjoys boobs as much as him, and happy to be on the receiving end more. But her pleasure comes from being the bi voyeur. |
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"We are both bi! But we can be picky! Sometimes it’s hard to find another couple we both click with….but not impossible!"
this seems to be the norm.but we have been lucky in finding bi guys for both of us , be nice to fine a W/e bi silverfox top tho |
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"before covid we used to hold couples bi parties with a select couple 9f bi guys even had a few bi w9men attend not sure if anyone would be interested if we did another ine or not "
Oh for sure but once the Mrs has recovered from surgery due in a few weeks |
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"We run a bi party at VA where you can find real bi couples.
Next one is this Friday ...
See in forum under VA Bi Night 6th
And inst bi_nightva"
Maybe we are going to one of your parties?? Is it first Friday every month?? Were encouraged to go bi some friends.... |
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"Wrongly we hide it as it seems to put a lot of couples the male half off !!"
You two are not the only couple has done that. I have met and found out during several Str8 mfm meets that he is bi and it turns into a bi mmf. Love that when that happens, but its hard to find you bi couples unless you read and see who you are meeting. |
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"Wrongly we hide it as it seems to put a lot of couples the male half off !!"
We were worried about that to start with and had me (Mr) down as straight. But actually we've barely noticed any difference since stating openly bi. Have a look through our veris.. most are lovely Bi Fem couples that we've had a great time with.
BUT we'd play bi far more often if only it wasn't so damn difficult to find fully bi couples.. that we have a four way attraction to.. that are not 100s of miles away.. that are available on the same night as us... See the problem? Tricky isn't it |
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We only meet bi couples and very rarethe occasional bi male like others have said finding a 4 way attraction and where everyone clicks is extremely rare and we also have 0 bi events in Wales so we have to travel which takes extra planning.
We've given up looking on fab we tend to just stick to clubs and events now.. |
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"We run a bi party at VA where you can find real bi couples.
Next one is this Friday ...
See in forum under VA Bi Night 6th
And inst bi_nightva
Maybe we are going to one of your parties?? Is it first Friday every month?? Were encouraged to go bi some friends...."
Wow! Love that blue latex dress. I'll have to get Mrs E one like that I think   |
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"We run a bi party at VA where you can find real bi couples.
Next one is this Friday ...
See in forum under VA Bi Night 6th
And inst bi_nightva"
Such a shame you're so far from Devon.. we just can't find anything within a couple of hours drive. Once day we'll make the trip up.. how often do you put these events on? Is there generally man sex going on openly? How do you deal with keeping it Bi and discouraging the straight meerkats? |
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By *iliciousCouple 10 weeks ago
Sussex/Surrey |
"We run a bi party at VA where you can find real bi couples.
Next one is this Friday ...
See in forum under VA Bi Night 6th
And inst bi_nightva
Such a shame you're so far from Devon.. we just can't find anything within a couple of hours drive. Once day we'll make the trip up.. how often do you put these events on? Is there generally man sex going on openly? How do you deal with keeping it Bi and discouraging the straight meerkats?"
Yes too far for us as well. All the bi parties/club nights seem to be in the Midlands and with a busy home / family life it’s not an option for us. |
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Late to the thread but I’m sure that many have said the same, finding four way attraction is the challenge.
It’s great when you do though..
We’re currently looking for a fully bi couple that can fit in with us socially and sexually. |
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