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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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We are purely about enjoyment of sex, no chastity, no humiliation, just an appreciation of hubby watching me with other guys or knowing I am out having sex with another guy and me sending pictures and videos. |
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By *ill74 OP Man 9 weeks ago
New forest area |
"We are purely about enjoyment of sex, no chastity, no humiliation, just an appreciation of hubby watching me with other guys or knowing I am out having sex with another guy and me sending pictures and videos."
Sounds nice, relaxed. |
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By *avin77Man 9 weeks ago
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"We are purely about enjoyment of sex, no chastity, no humiliation, just an appreciation of hubby watching me with other guys or knowing I am out having sex with another guy and me sending pictures and videos."
Sounds perfect
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Had a nice arrangement with a mild cuck couple...no humiliation or chastity but he loved the buildup.. WhatsApp messages from me etc and helped her get ready for meeting, shaved her pussy etc, put her clothes out, then drove her to hotel or if their house he would let me in and we'd start in the living room with kisses etc then go to the marital bedroom after she gave him a peck on the cheek.and told him that we were going upstairs so she could get fucked...he would listen from.the hallway. She might call for him to bring a drink etc and he'd come in as she was sucking my cock then leave. Afterwards he would lick her as she told him everything and she would wank him off |
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"Had a nice arrangement with a mild cuck couple...no humiliation or chastity but he loved the buildup.. WhatsApp messages from me etc and helped her get ready for meeting, shaved her pussy etc, put her clothes out, then drove her to hotel or if their house he would let me in and we'd start in the living room with kisses etc then go to the marital bedroom after she gave him a peck on the cheek.and told him that we were going upstairs so she could get fucked...he would listen from.the hallway. She might call for him to bring a drink etc and he'd come in as she was sucking my cock then leave. Afterwards he would lick her as she told him everything and she would wank him off"
The build up is what would appeal  |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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Agree about the build up. Humiliated and chastity are definitely something I got into. Had a few sph experiences growing up and guess they stuck with me and realised I get off on being compared to other men by my partner. |
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By *ister_EMan 9 weeks ago
Hayling Island |
Nice to see nuanced questions and chat about dynamics 
My experience is that there is no such thing as a 'standard' or 'typical' cuckold dynamic.
Every cuckold relationship I've been a part of has been as different and varied as the individuals and coupled themselves.
In my experience the dynamics are established by the couple and their initial needs and desires. And therafter things grow and evolve naturaly and the dynamic can change and evolve as the relationship develops around all 3 people. |
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"Nice to see nuanced questions and chat about dynamics
My experience is that there is no such thing as a 'standard' or 'typical' cuckold dynamic.
Every cuckold relationship I've been a part of has been as different and varied as the individuals and coupled themselves.
In my experience the dynamics are established by the couple and their initial needs and desires. And therafter things grow and evolve naturaly and the dynamic can change and evolve as the relationship develops around all 3 people."
Agreed |
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By *oxy jWoman 9 weeks ago
somerset |
you have to remember that cuckold to lot of people is roleplay/fantasy ... its not real just sexy fun .. at the same time there are real lifestyle cuckold couples who are completely different in many ways too many are blurring the line between the two especially single men ...
the dynamics with each couple is always different no two couples are the same roleplay or real the same with any swinger / kink... this is why experience means nothing when meeting a new couple as it becomes a blank canvas so what you knew is no longer ...
and before i get lynched lol there no wrong with either roleplay can be a massive part of manys sex lives but lets not get it mixed up with those who live the cuckold lifestyle ... have fun have more sex
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By *ill74 OP Man 9 weeks ago
New forest area |
"you have to remember that cuckold to lot of people is roleplay/fantasy ... its not real just sexy fun .. at the same time there are real lifestyle cuckold couples who are completely different in many ways too many are blurring the line between the two especially single men ...
the dynamics with each couple is always different no two couples are the same roleplay or real the same with any swinger / kink... this is why experience means nothing when meeting a new couple as it becomes a blank canvas so what you knew is no longer ...
and before i get lynched lol there no wrong with either roleplay can be a massive part of manys sex lives but lets not get it mixed up with those who live the cuckold lifestyle ... have fun have more sex
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That is true. It needs to work for each couple and each couple has different needs/desires from it. |
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By *ill74 OP Man 9 weeks ago
New forest area |
"There’s a humiliation aspect I’ve come to enjoy, seeing a bigger, better man please my wife. But ultimately, it’s a role play. The third is a guest, there always has to be a level of respect."
Agreed, absolutely there has to be respect. |
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"There’s a humiliation aspect I’ve come to enjoy, seeing a bigger, better man please my wife. But ultimately, it’s a role play. The third is a guest, there always has to be a level of respect.
Agreed, absolutely there has to be respect."
We have noticed on a number of occasions that guys automatically jump to the conclusion that I’m some kind of sexual inadequate who needs humiliation whilst my wife longs for a “real” man.
The idea that we are both confident sexually adventurous people who share never seems to occur to them.
My instincts suggest that they are actually fairly sexually inexperienced themselves. Having self taught watching too much porn. |
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By *ill74 OP Man 9 weeks ago
New forest area |
"There’s a humiliation aspect I’ve come to enjoy, seeing a bigger, better man please my wife. But ultimately, it’s a role play. The third is a guest, there always has to be a level of respect.
Agreed, absolutely there has to be respect.
We have noticed on a number of occasions that guys automatically jump to the conclusion that I’m some kind of sexual inadequate who needs humiliation whilst my wife longs for a “real” man.
The idea that we are both confident sexually adventurous people who share never seems to occur to them.
My instincts suggest that they are actually fairly sexually inexperienced themselves. Having self taught watching too much porn."
I think you are right that that applies to some people.
Porn is some peoples wikipedia.
But however the dynamic. You are still sharing.
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I agree with Mister E on this. The first couple I knew I assumed, incorrectly, that it was my fantasy and not their’s. That ‘cuckolding’ meant one thing and one thing only. This is never the case and each couple has their own ideas about what they require at any point in time in their cuckolding journey. I learned I am the guest in their relationship and that I must followed their lead in find out their dynamic, not the other way round. |
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By *ill74 OP Man 9 weeks ago
New forest area |
"Hi all
Couples interested in cuckolding.. what is your dynamic? I.e humiliation, chastity etc etc.
Are you into soft or full on cuckolding?
What works for you?
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Are you? What's your dynamic? |
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By *bcplCouple 9 weeks ago
Aberdeenshire |
"We are purely about enjoyment of sex, no chastity, no humiliation, just an appreciation of hubby watching me with other guys or knowing I am out having sex with another guy and me sending pictures and videos."
At what point does it change from swinging to stag n vixen to cuckold?
I’m very much the same as the post above however wouldnt consider myself cuckold. I’m not bi, not into clean up, not into humiliation, never tried chastity but I think I would have by know if I liked the idea.
Love the wife playing with others, love getting updates n videos for her meets. MMF are great as are GGGB’s but I would t say we’re a cuckold couple.
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By *ill74 OP Man 9 weeks ago
New forest area |
"We are purely about enjoyment of sex, no chastity, no humiliation, just an appreciation of hubby watching me with other guys or knowing I am out having sex with another guy and me sending pictures and videos.
At what point does it change from swinging to stag n vixen to cuckold?
I’m very much the same as the post above however wouldnt consider myself cuckold. I’m not bi, not into clean up, not into humiliation, never tried chastity but I think I would have by know if I liked the idea.
Love the wife playing with others, love getting updates n videos for her meets. MMF are great as are GGGB’s but I would t say we’re a cuckold couple.
Mr "
That's something ai am trying to work out. Is that Cuckold? Or just hotwife?!
Either way. You are still sharing. And everybody is having fun. |
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this is how I like my cuckolding too. The only person that can tell me what to do is my partner. Not the “bull” unless she tells him to. She is in charge basically. I love it when she sends me photos. I love helping her dress for a night out |
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I like looking for other guys with my partner and having a giggle about it. The messages pinged between them is all part of the build up before the meet up. I like to serve them both, bring drinks. Help her dress for the occasion. Help them undress if asked, so that they can concentrate on each other without the faff and distraction of undoing clothes. Joining in if asked. Being attentive to her needs and then the giggles and after care once he/they have gone. For me it’s about championing her empowerment. |
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By *ill74 OP Man 8 weeks ago
New forest area |
"I like looking for other guys with my partner and having a giggle about it. The messages pinged between them is all part of the build up before the meet up. I like to serve them both, bring drinks. Help her dress for the occasion. Help them undress if asked, so that they can concentrate on each other without the faff and distraction of undoing clothes. Joining in if asked. Being attentive to her needs and then the giggles and after care once he/they have gone. For me it’s about championing her empowerment. "
Sounds nice. Sounds good. |
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For me, it's about the power of the woman. The bull doesn't matter, she is just getting what she demands. Loyalty and jealousy are a powerful mix.
Jealousy without loyalty will destroy you. I finally persuaded my wife to fulfil this fantasy of mine after years of marriage, now we're divorced. |
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My wife and I have a Cuckqean dynamic (couples profile listed in profile..this is just my solo profile).
She loves nothing more than me with other women (yes, I am a lucky guy) regardless of if she's there or not.
She is bi so likes to join in where possible but she does like sending me out on my own (yes, that is a real thing).
Theres no humilation or anything like that. It's ultimetly her getting a thrill from knowing other women want me amd that I'm "conquering" other women as she puts it. Its a bit of a power thing when it boils down to it. She has the man (some) other women want in effect and she gets a thrill from it. Not blowing my own horn there...just saying how it plays out for her.
Likes to pick out what I wear when I go on meets etc. So maybe it's.more of a hot husband thing? Been doing it for 25 years now. Love it.
The only negative (if there is one) is that a lot of ladies and even hotwife / cuckold couples on here don't entertain married guys or assume the worst. I get it, some want to avoid potential drama and it does sound like a "pull the other one" story but it is what it is.
So we're pretty much relegated to clubs and socials which work waaaay better when they can sit, talk to and get the green light from my wife.
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By *ill74 OP Man 8 weeks ago
New forest area |
"My wife and I have a Cuckqean dynamic (couples profile listed in profile..this is just my solo profile).
She loves nothing more than me with other women (yes, I am a lucky guy) regardless of if she's there or not.
She is bi so likes to join in where possible but she does like sending me out on my own (yes, that is a real thing).
Theres no humilation or anything like that. It's ultimetly her getting a thrill from knowing other women want me amd that I'm "conquering" other women as she puts it. Its a bit of a power thing when it boils down to it. She has the man (some) other women want in effect and she gets a thrill from it. Not blowing my own horn there...just saying how it plays out for her.
Likes to pick out what I wear when I go on meets etc. So maybe it's.more of a hot husband thing? Been doing it for 25 years now. Love it.
The only negative (if there is one) is that a lot of ladies and even hotwife / cuckold couples on here don't entertain married guys or assume the worst. I get it, some want to avoid potential drama and it does sound like a "pull the other one" story but it is what it is.
So we're pretty much relegated to clubs and socials which work waaaay better when they can sit, talk to and get the green light from my wife.
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Interesting. I suspect a niche area. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"My wife and I have a Cuckqean dynamic (couples profile listed in profile..this is just my solo profile).
She loves nothing more than me with other women (yes, I am a lucky guy) regardless of if she's there or not.
She is bi so likes to join in where possible but she does like sending me out on my own (yes, that is a real thing).
Theres no humilation or anything like that. It's ultimetly her getting a thrill from knowing other women want me amd that I'm "conquering" other women as she puts it. Its a bit of a power thing when it boils down to it. She has the man (some) other women want in effect and she gets a thrill from it. Not blowing my own horn there...just saying how it plays out for her.
Likes to pick out what I wear when I go on meets etc. So maybe it's.more of a hot husband thing? Been doing it for 25 years now. Love it.
The only negative (if there is one) is that a lot of ladies and even hotwife / cuckold couples on here don't entertain married guys or assume the worst. I get it, some want to avoid potential drama and it does sound like a "pull the other one" story but it is what it is.
So we're pretty much relegated to clubs and socials which work waaaay better when they can sit, talk to and get the green light from my wife.
Interesting. I suspect a niche area."
Not as niche maybe as that account perfectly describes us too!!!!!
But really and truly it is a lot less prevalent than ordinary cuckolding for sure |
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Some of the assumptions you shouldn’t make as a single Male being invited into a cuckold relationship:
- The cuckold is an inadequate lover
- The cuckold wants to be humiliated
- That it’s always the wife in charge, her rules and she’s the one making plans
- that you can treat the wife how you like
Tact, class and manners. Gentlemen are hot, cock-proud douche bags are not… |
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The cuckold dynamic really gets me going. There's something so thrilling about her making eye contact with her hubby as I take control, and then watching him dutifully clean up the evidence of our steamy encounter. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"know a few cuckquean couples that are full on including humiliation know alot more who are more hot husband were the lady enjoys watching her partner without the humiliation / reasoning"
For me (Mrs) I love the idea of arranging a meet for him and her (or at least being privy to the arrangement they make together) and then going out for the day with my girlie friends and letting him and her get stuck in and then when we are both home later we do ordinary things together like watch a movie and go to bed and cuddle without any mention of what occurred earlier that day! |
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By *oxy jWoman 8 weeks ago
somerset |
"Some of the assumptions you shouldn’t make as a single Male being invited into a cuckold relationship:
- The cuckold is an inadequate lover
- The cuckold wants to be humiliated
- That it’s always the wife in charge, her rules and she’s the one making plans
- that you can treat the wife how you like
Tact, class and manners. Gentlemen are hot, cock-proud douche bags are not…"
to be fair no assumptions of any couple on the swinging scene or other kinks should be made by singles |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"Some of the assumptions you shouldn’t make as a single Male being invited into a cuckold relationship:
- The cuckold is an inadequate lover
- The cuckold wants to be humiliated
- That it’s always the wife in charge, her rules and she’s the one making plans
- that you can treat the wife how you like
Tact, class and manners. Gentlemen are hot, cock-proud douche bags are not…
to be fair no assumptions of any couple on the swinging scene or other kinks should be made by singles"
Swinging v Recreational Sex
That old chestnut! |
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"There’s a humiliation aspect I’ve come to enjoy, seeing a bigger, better man please my wife. But ultimately, it’s a role play. The third is a guest, there always has to be a level of respect.
Agreed, absolutely there has to be respect.
We have noticed on a number of occasions that guys automatically jump to the conclusion that I’m some kind of sexual inadequate who needs humiliation whilst my wife longs for a “real” man.
The idea that we are both confident sexually adventurous people who share never seems to occur to them.
My instincts suggest that they are actually fairly sexually inexperienced themselves. Having self taught watching too much porn."
Put perfectly there.
We got into swinging for that reason, we are sexually adventurous and the different and new dynamics and nuances swinging brings are what turn us on and make the sex amazing.
Struggled a bit to start with all the different labels that people feel compelled to apply, but there's definitely a cuckold element that we enjoy in her having great sex with another man, but although i watch, i also join in. Nothing about humiliating or degradation for us.
Next step is her having sex with another woman and her husband.
It's very different for everyone, which is fascinating in its self. |
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when my wife used to be on here we used to read her messages together, pick those she fancied meeting, discuss what appealed about them. enjoy getting her ready together and love hearing all about it afterwards very occasionally I got to watch but I certainly wasn't into the humiliation aspect
I just loved seeing her getting pleasure. I don't think either of us would have enjoyed it being any other way |
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"As has been pointed out before, the "dynamic" depends on the partner and how we feel it fits best. In general we are a couple with a husb with ED and a wife who enjoys different experiences "
Every dynamic should be specific to those involved and for all involved. |
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By *ill74 OP Man 8 weeks ago
New forest area |
"My wife and I have a Cuckqean dynamic (couples profile listed in profile..this is just my solo profile).
She loves nothing more than me with other women (yes, I am a lucky guy) regardless of if she's there or not.
She is bi so likes to join in where possible but she does like sending me out on my own (yes, that is a real thing).
Theres no humilation or anything like that. It's ultimetly her getting a thrill from knowing other women want me amd that I'm "conquering" other women as she puts it. Its a bit of a power thing when it boils down to it. She has the man (some) other women want in effect and she gets a thrill from it. Not blowing my own horn there...just saying how it plays out for her.
Likes to pick out what I wear when I go on meets etc. So maybe it's.more of a hot husband thing? Been doing it for 25 years now. Love it.
The only negative (if there is one) is that a lot of ladies and even hotwife / cuckold couples on here don't entertain married guys or assume the worst. I get it, some want to avoid potential drama and it does sound like a "pull the other one" story but it is what it is.
So we're pretty much relegated to clubs and socials which work waaaay better when they can sit, talk to and get the green light from my wife.
Interesting. I suspect a niche area.
Not as niche maybe as that account perfectly describes us too!!!!!
But really and truly it is a lot less prevalent than ordinary cuckolding for sure"
Definitely not so niche now! |
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By *oxy jWoman 8 weeks ago
somerset |
the lines are getting blurred the good ole fashion swinging of watching your partner with others is not cuckolding its swinging think some are trying to find a group to fit or they feel left out so many get hotwife / hothusband mixed up with cuclolding/cuckquean ... and stag and vixen is not cuckold if the man is a stag how can he be cuck its just stag n vixen nothing else cuckolding fantasy / roleplay is on a bit of a high at the moment why not its fun but lifestyle cuckolding is still a small group ....
people should do what they want to do thats a given but dont pull apart other lifestyles to try to fit real cuckold couples are for real reasons cucks are cucks for real reasons ie ed / prem ejac / small cock theres always a reason no pretend / fantasy again nothing wrong with fantasy as most swing because of fantasy / roleplay ...
theres no wrongs or rights in what you do some dont believe in lables some do some live life by lables but ignore the ones that may afect them ... labels are important in all walks of life take labels away things start to fall to pieces |
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There are far too many labels in life and just because someone events a new one each day doesn't make it correct, just more confusing for everyone else trying slot into position.
Anyway I digressed a little, great comments above Foxy |
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"Purely just the sex, I love sex and need a lot of it, hubby can’t keep up with my sex drive and loves seeing me being fucked by other men, in fact the more I enjoy it the more he loves it"
Sounds a great dynamic for you both then. |
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"Purely just the sex, I love sex and need a lot of it, hubby can’t keep up with my sex drive and loves seeing me being fucked by other men, in fact the more I enjoy it the more he loves it
Sounds a great dynamic for you both then. "
It works for us |
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Never been able to find a genuine bull who gets the dynamic. They just turn up and fuck and go so we remain a stag vixen couple. We do want to try the cuck dynamic with humiliation and forced oral, fluffing the bull by cuck, clean up etc |
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I prefer to watch the wife being fucked, sometimes in the same room, but mainly outside the room, landing or downstairs, on the other side of a closed door, I love hearing them fucking, hearing her moan in pleasure, the wife telling me how good it feels, partly wanting her to tell me I can't fuck her and to leave her alone whilst she plays. Does this make me a stag half of the stag/hotwife, or a cuckold? I think I may be stuck between roles.. TIA |
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"I like looking for other guys with my partner and having a giggle about it. The messages pinged between them is all part of the build up before the meet up. I like to serve them both, bring drinks. Help her dress for the occasion. Help them undress if asked, so that they can concentrate on each other without the faff and distraction of undoing clothes. Joining in if asked. Being attentive to her needs and then the giggles and after care once he/they have gone. For me it’s about championing her empowerment. "
Husband texting, I do exactly the same, does this make me a stag or a cuckold? I love tending to their needs so they can play uninterrupted |
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A lot of cucks will have issues with cock size or getting an erection so their wives will enjoy cock elsewhere with their blessing, I would imaging that’s quite a big dynamic in a lot of couples cuckolding lifestyle. |
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For both my cuckold relationship we had a cuckold contract outlining basic rules which we both reviewed and signed every three months. I was in full time chastity, all her penetrative sex came from the hung bulls |
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"We are purely about enjoyment of sex, no chastity, no humiliation, just an appreciation of hubby watching me with other guys or knowing I am out having sex with another guy and me sending pictures and videos."
This is us as well |
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"We are purely about enjoyment of sex, no chastity, no humiliation, just an appreciation of hubby watching me with other guys or knowing I am out having sex with another guy and me sending pictures and videos."
This |
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"As has been pointed out before, the "dynamic" depends on the partner and how we feel it fits best. In general we are a couple with a husb with ED and a wife who enjoys different experiences
Every dynamic should be specific to those involved and for all involved. "
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"Really wanna see my Mrs fucked by other guys
Any tips how to make it happen "
Communication is key. Try dirty talk during sex and see how she responds. Then take it from there. Don't put her under any pressure to do it. Respect what ever she says.
I take it she dosent know your on here?
Tread carefully. |
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We love it. We are into cock shrinking with extra small chastity. Small cock humiliation. Breeding/clean up. Wife solo meets and me staying at home. She likes to give her bulls mff as it’s what I want but don’t get. She even plays without permission on nights out etc |
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"We love it. We are into cock shrinking with extra small chastity. Small cock humiliation. Breeding/clean up. Wife solo meets and me staying at home. She likes to give her bulls mff as it’s what I want but don’t get. She even plays without permission on nights out etc"
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"She’s very quiet how do I put that to her about club I know she would have loads attention "
Talk to her about going to a club, just for a look and see what it's like. Maybe have a weekend away, can feel safer if not local
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"We love it. We are into cock shrinking with extra small chastity. Small cock humiliation. Breeding/clean up. Wife solo meets and me staying at home. She likes to give her bulls mff as it’s what I want but don’t get. She even plays without permission on nights out etc"
Sounds wonderful |
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Some great replies here and the more we read and see in real life, the more we think these labels simply cannot describe the many variations in this wonderful dynamic..
I love to see her with other guys and increasingly find myself drawn into that sub space. For me, there's a huge thrill around denial; stepping aside to allow her the indulgence of another guy.. watching her relax into that total abandonment when she is pleasured by another man.. there's something quite wonderful about it.. the way we look at each other in the days leading up to that moment when we meet her lover..
I can enjoy all of that and humiliation but only be her.. at the same time, she loves to see me with another woman, so I can and do enjoy that pleasure.. at her total discretion.. |
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"Some great replies here and the more we read and see in real life, the more we think these labels simply cannot describe the many variations in this wonderful dynamic..
I love to see her with other guys and increasingly find myself drawn into that sub space. For me, there's a huge thrill around denial; stepping aside to allow her the indulgence of another guy.. watching her relax into that total abandonment when she is pleasured by another man.. there's something quite wonderful about it.. the way we look at each other in the days leading up to that moment when we meet her lover..
I can enjoy all of that and humiliation but only be her.. at the same time, she loves to see me with another woman, so I can and do enjoy that pleasure.. at her total discretion.. "
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By *959femxCouple 2 weeks ago
Weston super mare |
The “dynamic “ is as different as the people involved . A man invited into a relationship who has the intelligence to understand that can enhance it for all three and leave with far more than those with just another notch and a verification . |
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By *ast_jjMan 2 weeks ago
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"The “dynamic “ is as different as the people involved . A man invited into a relationship who has the intelligence to understand that can enhance it for all three and leave with far more than those with just another notch and a verification . "
So very well put! |
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"The “dynamic “ is as different as the people involved . A man invited into a relationship who has the intelligence to understand that can enhance it for all three and leave with far more than those with just another notch and a verification . "
Totally agree |
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I think the role and dynamic also evolve during a meet and even more so if it becomes more than a one off.
It's cool to see couples re-bonding at the end of a cuckolding session when they start to get themselves back to themselves or when the cuck is doing the clean up. |
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By *auradCouple 2 weeks ago
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I think Mrs d and my relationship is pretty far along the cuckold spectrum, locked 24/7, denied penetration, unable to cum without permission, only she plays etc.
But just as a husband and wife can’t go from ground zero to this point immediately, I don’t think mrs d and her partners can go from zero to full on cuck immediately and it is great to be part of a relationship that develops from just Mrs d and him having sex with me watching to introducing humiliation and tasks for me or chats between the 3 of us and becoming more extreme as the meets progress and we all get more comfortable with each other. |
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"We love it. We are into cock shrinking with extra small chastity. Small cock humiliation. Breeding/clean up. Wife solo meets and me staying at home. She likes to give her bulls mff as it’s what I want but don’t get. She even plays without permission on nights out etc"
Sounds amazing. Pity about the distance, always the way. Mrs looking for female friends to go out on the pull with |
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We love the lifestyle bit all depends in the guy and mood on how meets go as notveveryone into same as us
Humiliation a big part of our life not just in meets we live more less 24?/7 cuck lifestyle |
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"We love the lifestyle bit all depends in the guy and mood on how meets go as notveveryone into same as us
Humiliation a big part of our life not just in meets we live more less 24?/7 cuck lifestyle"
Sounds perfect to me |
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My first wife cheated, I used to try and catch her cheating, but never told when I had.
I encouraged my second wife, this wife now, to cheat and cuckold me. It depends on her mood and the guy who she meets, as to how I am cuckolded. |
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By *urenutsMan 1 day ago
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"We love the lifestyle bit all depends in the guy and mood on how meets go as notveveryone into same as us
Humiliation a big part of our life not just in meets we live more less 24?/7 cuck lifestyle"
I do enjoy meeting cuckold couples. Cuckolding and humiliating hubby |
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"My first wife cheated, I used to try and catch her cheating, but never told when I had.
I encouraged my second wife, this wife now, to cheat and cuckold me. It depends on her mood and the guy who she meets, as to how I am cuckolded."
Sounds wonderful |
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"We are purely about enjoyment of sex, no chastity, no humiliation, just an appreciation of hubby watching me with other guys or knowing I am out having sex with another guy and me sending pictures and videos."
This is the same for us |
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There are many single guys that just want to fuck another mans wife, but don't understand the cuckold dynamic and wrongly assume that banging the wife as hard as they can is all that is needed. Trying to prove they are better than the cuck in the process. This non emotive sex is the worst kind. For us its about building a relationship beyond sex with the bull so that the ladies preference is naturally displayed. and her desires fulfilled. seeing her taken to places that I am unable to obtain is very erotic and humiliation develops without any degradation verbally or physically, this makes the hottest encounters. |
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