"Has anyone had any experience in persuading their wife/girlfriend to swing."
Novel idea and a bit of a groundbreaking way of approaching this subject with the wife....Talk to her? If she's not interested then leave it alone.
Watch videos together.
Introduce made up people in to your sex life ie other men or women and role play scenarios.
You can't force anyone to do anything they don't want to and asking strangers on the Internet for advice on how to talk to your own wife is a tad mental buddy 
Talk to her but more importantly and I can't stress this enough...LISTEN to her. |
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If you have to persuade her it’s more than likely to go pear shaped for you!
For reference our relationship started off with amazing sexual chemistry we were open and trusting and because of that we were both genuinely curious about what each other wanted and needed from sex. We experimented with and discussed lots of things between us. Openness is the key! Being able to lay all your cards out on the table without fear of judgement or rejection. Having this enabled us to stumble into the lifestyle in our early twenties, we started slow building up to what we are today. This is a journey we have both enjoyed together as a couple beginning with freaky sex and an amazing friendship, No one ever needed to be persuaded.
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"Has anyone had any experience in persuading their wife/girlfriend to swing.
Novel idea and a bit of a groundbreaking way of approaching this subject with the wife....Talk to her? If she's not interested then leave it alone.
Watch videos together.
Introduce made up people in to your sex life ie other men or women and role play scenarios.
You can't force anyone to do anything they don't want to and asking strangers on the Internet for advice on how to talk to your own wife is a tad mental buddy
Talk to her but more importantly and I can't stress this enough...LISTEN to her."
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Show her your profile, introduce her to the swinging world, explain it's all about openess, trust and communication, none of which you can provide, then she can set up a singles profile & have a blast. |
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You can't persuade her op, you can only have an open honest conversation with her and see what she thinks.
Not everyone will want to swing and if she says it's not for her you need to leave it.
Be careful she doesn't get suspicious though and catch you on here behind her back. |
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