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Seriously now, how many messages
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do you get say, per day on average? Been hearing about people getting 60 a week, 100 a week?"
Lol 60 messages a week? I get more like 60 weeks a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do you get say, per day on average? Been hearing about people getting 60 a week, 100 a week?"
We get 0-10 per week. We ask friends to phone us rather than message on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when i first joined i had over 200 in a day!! bit different now but roughly on average maybe 20 a day ?? out of those on average i reply to 5 the others i just delete as they not read profile! most of my messages are from people i chat with with few odd ones from newbies!
i would moan if i didnt get any!! xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do you get say, per day on average? Been hearing about people getting 60 a week, 100 a week?
We get 0-10 per week. We ask friends to phone us rather than message on here.
xx "
bet all your messages are enquiring about the sucess of yer dog tho |
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"when i first joined i had over 200 in a day!! bit different now but roughly on average maybe 20 a day ?? out of those on average i reply to 5 the others i just delete as they not read profile! most of my messages are from people i chat with with few odd ones from newbies!
i would moan if i didnt get any!! xx "
lol - yes us too - like getting them even the daft ones! and my post should have read 'including' not 'excluding' too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do you get say, per day on average? Been hearing about people getting 60 a week, 100 a week?
We get 0-10 per week. We ask friends to phone us rather than message on here.
xx
bet all your messages are enquiring about the sucess of yer dog tho"
still waiting for one from you Puss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"probably about 10-15 a day, but have noticed if online late (after 12) the messages arrive thick and fast  "
Same here and usually from twenty somethings offering to 'cum n fck' me! Pub chucking out time I think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On average, we get 7 or 8 per day, then there will be the odd day when he get a big fat zero lol
If I've been in the chatrooms I frequently get an upsurge in messages, ususally from disgruntled punters calling me from a pig to a dog because I banned the for one reason or another.
I can just see the advert now :
Increase the amount of message you get in a day.
Become a chat mod
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If i know im going to be on for a while after midnight i tend to hide my profile. I get quite alot of messages aday from friends from guys wanting a meet anything between 10-20 seems to depend on what day of the week it is. Fridays and mondays are the worst.
How many do i answer? Well i answer all the ones from friends and i answer the decent messages even if im not interested all the others just get ignored |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i get very few dont know why but mostly from black guys just because have done black it dont mean I don't want white meat again
but then profile says if not all ready talked then you dont have a chance in hell to meet us as not meeting at this season of time. so maybe just me not being on cam any more and being blunt that wont play on cam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting messaged with a view to a meet.....in all honesty.....maybe one every couple of months,maybe less. 
We get other posts but only general conversation.
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do you get say, per day on average? Been hearing about people getting 60 a week, 100 a week?"
yes i used to get loads when i was on ere as a single lady, even worse after i had been on cam...
wouldnt have minded but all i had to do was sit there and do nothing...lol...
and i used to answer them all politely, took me days...lol...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get about 5 messages from peeps I do not know, usually single males, even when I have stated clearly in my profile that I am not looking for more playmates/play with under 35s etc...  |
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"I get about 5 messages from peeps I do not know, usually single males, even when I have stated clearly in my profile that I am not looking for more playmates/play with under 35s etc... "
They just either don't read profiles or think that they're that good you'll make exceptions!
We had a pearler (sorry - just noticed this and it wasn't intentional) earlier - long story short we said we weren't interested - politely - only to get an abusive message back saying she really didn't even want to meet us anyway! It takes all sorts! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get about 5 messages from peeps I do not know, usually single males, even when I have stated clearly in my profile that I am not looking for more playmates/play with under 35s etc...
They just either don't read profiles or think that they're that good you'll make exceptions!
We had a pearler (sorry - just noticed this and it wasn't intentional) earlier - long story short we said we weren't interested - politely - only to get an abusive message back saying she really didn't even want to meet us anyway! It takes all sorts! Z"
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What's a pearler? As in a person who dive into water to see if the oysters are ready to be taken out for pearls, as in one that tests the waters so to speak?  |
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"I get about 5 messages from peeps I do not know, usually single males, even when I have stated clearly in my profile that I am not looking for more playmates/play with under 35s etc...
They just either don't read profiles or think that they're that good you'll make exceptions!
We had a pearler (sorry - just noticed this and it wasn't intentional) earlier - long story short we said we weren't interested - politely - only to get an abusive message back saying she really didn't even want to meet us anyway! It takes all sorts! Z
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What's a pearler? As in a person who dive into water to see if the oysters are ready to be taken out for pearls, as in one that tests the waters so to speak? "
No a pearler in this context is like a classic, oh - hard to explain really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I seem to attract the deranged type!
A female has been constantly PM'ing since yesterday and she's beginning to freak me out.
Saying that i'd imagine she'd be a danger ride 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to attract the deranged type!
A female has been constantly PM'ing since yesterday and she's beginning to freak me out.
Saying that i'd imagine she'd be a danger ride
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a real white knuckle one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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usually about 25-30 a day, even more, as Diamond says, if I have been on cam in chat, then the late night one liners with a few text speak words too lol |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
It's a good thing I 'left' before this came up - I used to get zero messages that weren't either replies to my messages or contacts as a result of a social.
This thread would therefore have depressed me - especially the relatively low numbers couples get, given how few replies I ever got.
Bloody couples., etc etc... :yawn smiley: |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy i get roughly 0 a week. Sometimes i'll get an odd one from someone or a friend but emails are rare.
I do think some people exaggerate about the amount of emails they get though. I had two really good looking female friends join this site and they never got anything like the amount of emails some people claim they get. Some people say they have had more emails in a week than both of my friends did put together! Nah! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people get disappointed or disillusioned, when some join the site they think it's quickshag.com which it isn't.
Like a lot of relationships or friendships it takes time to build up to the point where there will be a meeting, saying that there are some opportunity's for quick one off's, I suppose it's down to what your expecting and reality being worlds apart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've found the number of messages we get is dictated by a number of factors such as 1. new pics on=more messages, 2. Being on line=more messages, 3.' Cryptic' status updates (such as Woody Allen quotes)=less messages, 4. Obvious status updates such as Girl Want Cock Now!=messages go through the ceiling!' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think people get disappointed or disillusioned, when some join the site they think it's quickshag.com which it isn't.
Like a lot of relationships or friendships it takes time to build up to the point where there will be a meeting, saying that there are some opportunity's for quick one off's, I suppose it's down to what your expecting and reality being worlds apart "
Just what i was thinking Kev |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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Ive just had a look through the last few days...
Between 7-10 per day excluding pple I know. Only a cple of those each day though are 'sensible' messages, the rest are one-liners (and even one-worders) or 'Im passing through Manchester' type.
Just noticed too how many of them have already left the site. Some lasted all of 24hrs.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We seem to get loads all at once and then none for a couple of days,im talking about messages from people we don't know
Theres always in influx if you're on late at night and if you upload new pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single guy i get roughly 0 a week. Sometimes i'll get an odd one from someone or a friend but emails are rare.
I do think some people exaggerate about the amount of emails they get though. I had two really good looking female friends join this site and they never got anything like the amount of emails some people claim they get. Some people say they have had more emails in a week than both of my friends did put together! Nah! "
Do you really think it's about looks?!!! You only have to look at some of the verifications from 'plainer' members and read comments on the forums to see you are mistaken. There are some stunning single men on site who also dont get messages/meets while some 'average' looking men have RSI of their cocks!! I daresay some may exaggerate but it really is about attitude. If you're fun and approachable people will want to approach you more than if you're 'precious'. Just my humble opinion! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get about 1 or 2 a week usually, but of those maybe half we take beyond a short exchange here and of those we take any further at all, we maybe keep in touch with 3 or 4 a year?
Not that many, but then we're choosey and our profile isn't of the quickshag.com variety so we seldom get messages that aren't worth replying to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think people get disappointed or disillusioned, when some join the site they think it's quickshag.com which it isn't.
Like a lot of relationships or friendships it takes time to build up to the point where there will be a meeting, saying that there are some opportunity's for quick one off's, I suppose it's down to what your expecting and reality being worlds apart
Just what i was thinking Kev "
Great minds eh !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would rather have a funny message that makes me laugh from a good looking guy. Then a pervy one from a good looking guy that make sence ?"
Yes it makes perfect sense, the personality needs to be attractive as well, I always send polite messages with a funny line in to lighten the introduction up.
I always think what would I say to a lady I was going to chat up at a pub and work on that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single guy i get roughly 0 a week. Sometimes i'll get an odd one from someone or a friend but emails are rare.
I do think some people exaggerate about the amount of emails they get though. I had two really good looking female friends join this site and they never got anything like the amount of emails some people claim they get. Some people say they have had more emails in a week than both of my friends did put together! Nah! "
I'm not exactly supermodel in looks or age, but when I first joined fab I was so overwhelmed by mail I considered giving it all up after about a week... it was only through chatting to those who had been around longer I discovered this initial 'feeding frenzy' does die down and stablises. Hence I am still here and enjoying myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unsolicited emails? I'd say zero a week, the only emails I'm getting at the moment are from people I've previously chatted to.
However if any single fems want to email me that fine lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single guy i get roughly 0 a week. Sometimes i'll get an odd one from someone or a friend but emails are rare.
I do think some people exaggerate about the amount of emails they get though. I had two really good looking female friends join this site and they never got anything like the amount of emails some people claim they get. Some people say they have had more emails in a week than both of my friends did put together! Nah! Do you really think it's about looks?!!! You only have to look at some of the verifications from 'plainer' members and read comments on the forums to see you are mistaken. There are some stunning single men on site who also dont get messages/meets while some 'average' looking men have RSI of their cocks!! I daresay some may exaggerate but it really is about attitude. If you're fun and approachable people will want to approach you more than if you're 'precious'. Just my humble opinion!"
No i don't think it's all about looks at all, though in many cases and for alot of people the more attractive person is more sought after. Not in all cases i'll grant you and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I just don't believe alot of peoples claims that they constantly receive 100's of emails a week...i've even seen some women claim they have up to 100 emails a day and their profile is void of pcture or text! Personally i think ALOT of exaggeration goes on and right or wrong that's my opinion. |
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what a great response - loads of different answers and opinions etc - I was genuinely interested and it sounds like there is a massive diversity between numbers of messages received! we appreciate (most) messages even the idiotic ones! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what a great response - loads of different answers and opinions etc - I was genuinely interested and it sounds like there is a massive diversity between numbers of messages received! we appreciate (most) messages even the idiotic ones!"
Tick looking for single men in your profile just for an hour then wait for your inbox to crash |
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"what a great response - loads of different answers and opinions etc - I was genuinely interested and it sounds like there is a massive diversity between numbers of messages received! we appreciate (most) messages even the idiotic ones!
Tick looking for single men in your profile just for an hour then wait for your inbox to crash "
MMmmmmmmm do get loads anyway - not going to risk ticking that little box!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just made a silly comment on another post and 12 messages and not from anyone posting on the forums. Of the 12 none are in London, one is black and none of the others are sub. Thats the reality of sites like this you do get inundated with mail very few of which will ever come of anything. I would rather one a month that took the time to read my profile and matched what I was looking for than a dozen that dont! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be happy with one a month.
Ive never had 100 e mails a day even when i first started out. I get about 10, and they dont read my profile so dont often find what am looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No particular average.......... but deffo not 60-100!!
Luckily most read my profile - although getting more messages where it's obvious they haven't..........!!
Do appreciate getting messages where they have taken the trouble to reply as if they've read your profile!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hardly any really. when i do though, they all seem to come at once. i'll get a few off a few different people in a short space of time, and then none for weeks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get about 50+ messages a day, i get even more when i go in the chat room and put my cam on, i remember one day i went in and i was only in the chat room about 20 mins and in that time i got 36 messages, problem is when you get that many you cant get thro then faster than your getting more coming in, i think id repled to about 15 messages and id gone upto 52 or something daft  |
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I've only been on the site for 5 weeks, but in that time I've had a message from a couple of people saying that they thought my profile was interestingly written, which was really nice of them even if I'm not what they're looking for and vice-versa. I've also had a reply confirming attending the Cardiff Social.
However, I became friends with someone who contacted me about a post I made on the forum, and we've been using messaging a helluva lot since - the vast majority of my inbox is now stuff from her (she knows who she is ).
I guess the point I'm trying to make is that, as a single male, I don't really expect to have people messaging me saying they saw my profile and "OMG we should fuck". As a male on this site (and in the real world it's the same), it just doesn't work like that... it's up to us males to do the donkey work and contact / impress the females, not the other way round. Therefore I don't expect to have messages in my inbox on a daily basis, as I'm not instigating anything myself at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"omg when i first came on here as a single feme. i had no pics and only a few words on profile. i got 350 mails in 24 hrs....it really spooked me.
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can i ask did you meet your guy in here |
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It very much depends on how long I am logged in, what time I am logged in, if I have changed the heading of my profile.
One of the times recently when I changed the heading of my profile I was getting 1 message per second for the first few minutes then a steady message evey couple of minutes.... then when I changed it asking to meet 2 guys it dropped to a message every 30 minutes which dried up after a few hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I the occasional one every now and then. Although recently I have received some random friend requests expecting a message to follow but I didn't receive anything from them, which I found strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have just ticked the single males button ... And now our inbox is on meltdown.. Lol.. Some lovely guys tho.. And some who think just sending the line "Do you fancy a fook" is gonna get a response.. Lol..
Happy Xmas to all..
Joo & Nee X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have just ticked the single males button ... And now our inbox is on meltdown.. Lol.. Some lovely guys tho.. And some who think just sending the line "Do you fancy a fook" is gonna get a response.. Lol..
Happy Xmas to all..
Joo & Nee X"
Ooooooo Joo & Nee you sound a bit shocked your inbox is in meltdown .......................WHY
Fabulous just fabulous profile pictures sooo erotic ooooooppppsss is this a thread drift ????????????????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As an older guy I find I have to send loads to get any..... but thats the same on all the sites
Most of the ladies I know get loads and I might get a couple a week...
ITS NOT FAIR....LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only really get new mail from new people, when I've been prospecting, lol. Once we form a friendship with a contact we usually communicate by phone.
xx |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5 |
"I get a constant stream when I am online
It rarely stops for more than a few minutes
you got a great a ass, can see why you are in demand mmmmmm "
come and lick it for yourself some day x xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get a constant stream when I am online
It rarely stops for more than a few minutes
you got a great a ass, can see why you are in demand mmmmmm
come and lick it for yourself some day x xx "
my tongues going stiff just thinking about it xxxx "Jack the Licker" |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5 |
"I get a constant stream when I am online
It rarely stops for more than a few minutes
you got a great a ass, can see why you are in demand mmmmmm
come and lick it for yourself some day x xx
my tongues going stiff just thinking about it xxxx "Jack the Licker" "
bends over in readiness x x x |
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