An ex was wanting to explore anal and she only would accept me exploring fucking her in the ass if she would explore my ass with toys and then pegging.
Made exploring together much easier and aware of what to do/not to do and communication needed. |
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By *oxy jWoman 14 weeks ago
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you'll find most pegging is done between long term couples who know each other inside out ... i think its a popular thought with many single guys as they want what these guys in great relationships are getting but in a singles world its very hard to find |
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I had the strap one before I met M. Was always a kink of mine. So it just came up when getting to know each other and asking about each others kinks and fantasies. So told him - he said fair doos but not my bag. We tried it a couple of times but just not for him unfortunately. Alas, it’s a very rare thing for me these days haha. |
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I enjoyed pegging from bdsm dynamic too. Not a necessity for pegging I know. But works for me and wife in our dynamic; especially as a switch.
It’s great to see over last 10years pegging and it being more mainstream / accepted outside swinging / bdsm scene |
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"you'll find most pegging is done between long term couples who know each other inside out ... i think its a popular thought with many single guys as they want what these guys in great relationships are getting but in a singles world its very hard to find "
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"you'll find most pegging is done between long term couples who know each other inside out ... i think its a popular thought with many single guys as they want what these guys in great relationships are getting but in a singles world its very hard to find "
Yep...I will do it with others in certain situations but I do find it quite intimate and also need to know guys are well prepared for it...often find random guys aren't as clean as I need them to be to relax and really get into it... |
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"I was already into being pegged before I met Becky.
Becky was already used to wielding a strap-on..
there was never any doubt it would happen.. "
Curiosity lead me down a rabbit hole, nosing your profile for an unusually long amount of time!  |
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By *onicZMan 14 weeks ago
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I love it but I'm fussy over who I let do it to me. Obviously if the better half fancies it then I'm usually down for it but anyone else I need to really trust and be in the mood for.
It's all about giving someone else that control over somewhere that not everyone visits if that makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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I’d not tried it until a yr ago had a bit of A play tried it and it was so much of a turn on absolutely love it not all the time but every now and again for a kinky night |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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For me it's the shift of power/control.
It's brought out so much confidence and self esteem for my lady friend.
The joy she gets from our times is so evident with her.
It took a long time for her to get to this point, so guys, don't expect miracles from a random lady as there is huge trust to be created first, that's just my opinion.
I'm sure there are some ladies who'd be happy to get the strapon out of the draw for just anyone, but my gut and experience would suggest that the girls who are into this like the dynamic to be fully trusted |
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"For me it's the shift of power/control.
It's brought out so much confidence and self esteem for my lady friend.
The joy she gets from our times is so evident with her.
It took a long time for her to get to this point, so guys, don't expect miracles from a random lady as there is huge trust to be created first, that's just my opinion.
I'm sure there are some ladies who'd be happy to get the strapon out of the draw for just anyone, but my gut and experience would suggest that the girls who are into this like the dynamic to be fully trusted"
Absolutely this. Someone gets it  |
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We've dabbled in it for a while. I've always been pretty adventurous and have wanted to pretty much try everything, and have pulled Mrs along for the ride.
This was all before she then had her 'anal awakening' in that she now loves me fucking her ass.
When we've pegged, it's generally felt good, but has never really felt like it was going anywhere. I've never got remotely near cumming from it. We do it for a while, then we stop and just fuck normally.
We've also found it awkward with positions, as it doesn't come very naturally to either of us when the positions are flipped! |
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In the first few weeks of a relationship we bought a strap on and had great times.
After my first toy experience with same partner (before we bought the strap on) which was a very quick and painful and quick as it started stopped. As I wasn’t expecting a quick ram up there without any thought with a big but plug.
We did laugh. A lot after the pain stopped.
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"We started with a double ender...As it was just the two of us she knew what was to happen!!! That was our gateway toy to a strapon  "
Very local to Uxbridge if you need an older man for use |
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